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Soiree Avantage
January 21 2019
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RHP User
7 years ago
What would make someone 'socially undesirable', and how would you screen for those people?
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
Anyone can hold an event; just find a venue, decide on the limits; social or other, ages, price (if any), dress code, etc, and list it in the Events Section. But it is really important to set very clear boundaries and expectations - both for yourself as the organiser, and for your guests. A word of warning; holding events at your own home is the very definition is risky business. Be very aware of your own personal safety, and that of your home. Not everyone here is as honest as we may like them to be, nor as honest as they present themselves to be. I have had events at my home, but only invite people I know (and have known for a period of time i.e. I trust them), and new people who are vouched for by my friends. Feel free to message me directly if you want some ideas, tips & advice. 😊
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RHP User
7 years ago
That's a good question. I was hoping to chat with initial interested people, and make invitations based thereon. It's hoping to be inclusive of many but If people attend, and prove to be, not a good mix, it's highly likely they would not wish to attend again, so natural attrition. A good social mix, people who engage in a respectful but fun way..taking into account we are different.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thank you MsJonesy..that's really what I want..some good solid advice. I know a few people..so maybe start with them ...is what I guess you are saying.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Such a beautiful lady, can you please message me I want to ask you few questions cheersQuoting 'MsJonesy' Anyone can hold an event; just find a venue, decide on the limits; social or other, ages, price (if any), dress code, etc, and list it in the Events Section. But it is really important to set very clear boundaries and expectations - both for yourself as the organiser, and for your guests. A word of warning; holding events at your own home is the very definition is risky business. Be very aware of your own personal safety, and that of your home. Not everyone here is as honest as we may like them to be, nor as honest as they present themselves to be. I have had events at my home, but only invite people I know (and have known for a period of time i.e. I trust them), and new people who are vouched for by my friends. Feel free to message me directly if you want some ideas, tips & advice. 😊
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
Yes, you could start with those you know. Perhaps organise a social event (at a publuc venue) to increase the friends pool; this would also give you a chance to gauge interest in play soirees.
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RHP User
7 years ago
There was some mention of a group of Perth people that would meet up socially for dinners, parties etc.It was a long time ago that i read this. But i did read it here.Who knows, if it is real, and one of them sees this, they might reach out to you. At least you've started the ball rolling
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RHP User
7 years ago
A few of us started up a social group a few years back, hosting dinners, charity events, Meet and Greets, games nights, and even a family day out at a sporting venue, as some people had children and couldnt get out too often. It was a great way of meeting people without any expectations, and in a relaxed environment. The group is no longer here but we all still meet up now and again and will continue to do so, may friendships were made and we all catch up now and again. Its something to think about, OP, as most Meet and Greets now seem to involve play afterwards. Yes, we are all looking for "fun": ( that word again ) but its good to meet people in a relaxed setting first and get to know them that way. We also had nights at one of the swinger clubs but most of our events were purely social.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Are you still at your old number? I'd love to catch up! Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Probably not Peachy.. I'm trying to place your I think you had a different name back in the day ..yes?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'CrackUp' Probably not Peachy.. I'm trying to place your I think you had a different name back in the day ..yes? By a letter or so. There's that pedanticity of mine. You were friends with Shinas back in the day and agreed to meet me if she could come along. It's a shame we never got that chance to meet back then. xo The Socialites group are lovely people I can vouch for, hope to see there some time. Peachy
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