Some People Touch Your Body, Few Understand Your Mind?

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  RHP User

  22 days ago

  In that sense I've been close to quite a few people - there's 2 I still see 8/9 years on and we offer emotional support to one another and a lot of our meetups are a mix of deeper friendship and sex. Of course there have been many where it's been a one off. The sex was fun but neither of us felt the need or desire to offer more of our soul to the other. These are situations I never sought but evolved as naturally as any relationship would when the chemistry is there on many levels. Looking back at it as I think about your post, they've been extremely important to me at times, for varying reasons. And I know I've given them the same at varying junctures.

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  RHP User

  22 days ago

  The best date I had from here was with a man who took the time to sit down over a few drinks and get to know me. To this day, he is the best sex I’ve had from this website.

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  Nightglider

  22 days ago

  Great post V. Hope this might be one of many. I think a lot of people can create physical chemistry, but fewer make you feel genuinely seen as a person. For me, the memorable experiences have never just been about the sex itself. It’s the people who actually pay attention. The ones who notice your reactions, remember little things you’ve said, check in without making it clinical, and make the whole experience feel natural rather than transactional. I also think emotional intelligence and self awareness are massively underrated in these spaces. Someone can be very attractive physically, but if they come across as entitled, selfish, disconnected, or they can’t read the room, it changes everything. And honestly, the energy after play matters just as much to me as before and during. Sometimes the smallest things stick with you. A conversation afterwards, making sure you’re okay, walking you out, or simply not making you feel disposable once the moment is over. Reality is, in these spaces we are all technically options to each other. But some people have a rare skill of never making you feel like one. That’s the difference for me.

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  nightingale8

  21 days ago

  Absolutely. It’s been a while since I’ve been able to enjoy that depth of connection what with family commitments and all. But the friendship/play space is wonderful. One person does come to mind where dates were long and included activities before or after intimacy. It was so nice we’d text every few days little insights into each others’ lives, and share music. I’d want to know about his life and dreams in the making. And he made me feel so valued. It was only that level of both distance (no responsibility) and connection that I was able to reach heights of erotic experience I’d not experienced for a long time. Orgasm simply with proximity to each other. Definitely it was more than physical sex

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  Deetsy

  21 days ago

  I always try make a connection with the person I intend to play with. For me, it’s physical attraction and a good connection/chemistry that makes for the best sex. Why settle for good sex, when it has the potential to be mind blowing.

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  Thesunlovingsub

  17 days ago

  Reciprocal curiosity is key to good connections for me, sexual or otherwise. My best sexual experiences are with people who are genuinely interested in knowing me, and being known. Not just enjoying me. This is why booty calls don’t do it for me.

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  Hunter6386

  11 days ago

  IMO the best meets start with plenty of texting, calls, cams to figure this stuff out and build the tension. There’s been a few spur of the moment dates and while they’ve been fun, they haven’t hit the level of connection and fire of the ones who genuinely knew me.

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