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Something in the way she moves (or he moves)
January 06 2018
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RHP User
8 years ago
...let it out! 🙃 - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
Singles grocery shopping nights for this very reason 😉 I’m terrible at picking up so maybe don’t listen to my advice. Maybe you can ask him “Come here often?” While suggestively fondling a carrot lol. Look for a wedding ring and if there’s none ask him how his day is going? Or if you see him again mention that you have seen him there before and ask if he’s local and go from there? If he’s wearing a nice shirt etc comment on it? Or you could go funny with it and say something like “Statistically it’s been proven that 9 out of 10 people meet their future partner at Coles”. Hope you see him again. 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I need to take more notice of my surroundings next time I'm shopping. I tend to zone out and just look at what I'm shopping for whilst singing along to some flashback music of the 80's or 90's and find myself dancing a little before I realise where I am. Note to self, pay more attention to the opposite sex in Coles/Woolies - Posted from rhpmobile
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FlirtParties
8 years ago
Meeting in person is so important for these reasons. They say that over 60% - 90% of communication is non-verbal. We know that we're not attracted to everyone but when somebody's action or behaviour 'presses your buttons' then that creates an interest or connection almost instantly. That's also why chatting in these forums can be hit-and-miss - words are easily misinterpreted :( One of my old bosses used to say - important messages must always be delivered face to face and not by email or phone. Let's get flirty face to face ;) FLIRT!
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Quote : 9 out of 10 people meet their future partner at Coles .. ? Well ' that explains it , I never go to Coles ? 🤔. 😄
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Sawadee
8 years ago
I'm currently trying very hard not to get involved with a girl I used to see daily through my work and who I became attached to ,but now only see maybe only once a month if that.. This is my doing as I'm trying hard to break the interest so we both move on . When I see her , we don't say much but boy don't the eyes do some talking.. it's quite electric , something you'd think only a teenager would feel. lol... OK ... So why ? Well as nice as she is , she is only twenty something with everything in the right places and to be honest ' I can't ' or don't want to become involved . I guess this is one of them times when things are sent to try you.. Age has never been a big issue for me , and generally doesn't bother me . If I like the person , I don't look at their number.. But the alarm bells sounded loud and clear this time... Bugga...
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yes, the difference there is you see each other all the time, which I assume creates the dilemma, can complicate things. If it were someone off here, you could carry on seeing each other without the possibility of it affecting other parts of your life Earthqueen lmao I'm going going to try that one lol
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RHP User
8 years ago
I also have music in my ears when shopping or out anywhere really. I have to stop that. I think it can act as a barrier, perhaps sends out the wrong signal, that we want our own space. That's not what we want at all is it 😉 FlirtParties - face to face flirting yes bring it on. I'm good at the flirting bit, just chicken shit when it comes to hitting on them 😊
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RHP User
8 years ago
Singles grocery nights? fuck yeah 😍
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RHP User
8 years ago
To know that women feel as nervous as men when it comes to making the initial approach! I wish we were telepathic to enable us to read one another's thoughts! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
The eyes speak a thousand words! If a woman locks her's on mine and gives me that inviting smile a simple... "Hey, please don't think I'm a sleaze but I think you're beautiful, never seen you here before!" - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Know what you're saying , but it is impossible to break away completely because the company she's employed by are one of my biggest customers.. Guess I'll just have to keep going the way it is and see if it fades ...
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RHP User
8 years ago
mmm wanna run into me in Coles 😍
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RHP User
8 years ago
It would be my pleasure mmm 😘 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
DJ Cow's latest single is "I Like The Way You Moo"
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RHP User
8 years ago
why complicate things? "I really like the look of you, would you like to get a drink soon?" Very easy to answer and then exchange numbers if the affirmative. Even is not, you've flattered someone and made their day in 3 seconds.
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RHP User
8 years ago
why complicate things? "I really like the look of you, would you like to get a drink soon?" Very easy to answer and then exchange numbers if the affirmative. Even is not, you've flattered someone and made their day in 3 seconds.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm always thinking they'll be taken already, I hate not knowing. Earthqueen mentioned looking for a wedding ring. Firstly, I forget to do that 😊 but plenty of people choose not to get married now but still have partners, and plenty don't wear rings regardless. I should still look though lol But I need to simplify it like you say, forget worrying/overthinking if they're single or not, if not they'd soon tell me anyway. That just leaves fear of rejection 😕
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RHP User
8 years ago
That was the nickname I got before migrating to Australia because whenever a guy showed interest in me and tried to converse, I'd literally turn around and run, even if I was interested in them! 🤣🤣🤣 Don't know why, can't help it! Knee jerk reaction. 😜 I have had guys hang around and stare at me so I know they are interested. But I'm not the sort to make the first move. 😛 So yeah, tons of lost opportunities. EarthQueen, if I were a man, I'd cold sweat at the Coles opening line! "What?! We've only just bumped into each other and she's already talking about being partners?!" 😛 That's sudden death for some men, especially the commitmentphobics which most are. 😜 I'm only bold if I'm not that interested in the man. Isn't that strange? 🤣
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
smash your cart straight into his , cause some carnage , and say if your not married or taken ,you would love to apologise and buy him a drink if he likes mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
just realised, i have given real meaning to hitting on someone ,hahaha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hahaha 😂😂 omg that's hysterical but I love it 😜
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
itouch , honestly if you got hit him hard ,you will gauge his personality if he is a nice guy or asshole pretty quick. by the following conversation ,i’ve heard of a few successful marriages from light car accidents and numbers being exchanged on the side of the road , mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Never miss an opportunity 😂 Thanks btw 😄
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RHP User
8 years ago
We combine Earthqueen's singles only grocery shopping, with crashes, like grocery store speed dating. Everyone lines up with their trolleys, they sound the buzzer and we take off up and down the aisles, get a few quick crashes in lol and hopefully a few phone numbers 👍
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
Yes I would never be that bold to use my line unless I drank vodka before shopping. I did used to see a man who’s fantasy was to have sex with a random fellow shopper in the freezer section up against the glass. We never actioned it but feel free to use the idea Itouch 😉 I feel the singles grocery night crash is a winner.I’m always checking out the men. If you go later at night the place is full of them . - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
sounds like fun ,until your the one hottie everyone wants and it’s like a high speed demolishin,all aimed at you from all directions ,,best be having 000 on speed dial if you dare to shop on singles night and certain ladies from rhp are in the building ,lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yes I think you should drop somethings next to him. See if he bends down to help you pick it up. If he's any kind of gentleman he should, if not well forget it. If he helps make eye contact and smile. and if its like my local coles there should a coffee shop near by. So thank him ask if can repay his kindness with a coffee next door as you were just going there. Or just let him walk in and out of your life. Sometimes in the supermarket or on the street it happens you see someone your eyes meet and you get that smile you know the one. but then he or she has pasts you by and the moment fades. As for me I would love to act on that moment ,but I way to shy and only think of it after the moment has pasted. Still it brightens up my day getting a smile from a pretty women.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Well if I'm not too old for you, you should swing by my supermarket 😊
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Sawadee
8 years ago
just to see what happens.. I heard you have to place your bananas in the appropriate position , so I figure I'll hang 2 peaches and 1 banana ( in the upright position of course ) off the front of my trolley and wait and see if any hot lady takes the bait .... or ' .. if I spot someone I fancy , I could always accidentally prod my 2 peach and 1 banana while she's reaching for ice cream or is that too obvious ? 😄.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I say forget looking for a wedding ring while standing in line. Check out what he's buying! He's either got a box of tampons for his wife or a box of pizza pockets because he's single and cant be fucked cooking for himself! I dont think specific 'pick up lines' are necessary at all. If I was approached with general chit chat I would probably be more inclined to fuel the conversation than if someone was to ask me if "I come here often" because I would take it as an off the cuff flirt, walk away feeling flattered and likely just continue on with my day. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Jayme, that's hilarious! That's like carting around your mobile titties and dick altar/totem! 🤣 You don't have to say a word yet the intention is very loud and very clear! 🤣 Maybe the single women could place an upright banana to signify their intentions? 🤣 And a whole bunch of upright bananas = gangbangs? And banana, peach, banana = MFM? 🤣
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RHP User
8 years ago
I feel like I'm a total nerdette here. I like to shop in supermarts late to avoid the crazy queues and irritating crowd. I am, however, a purposeful shopper - I read labels and I'm always thinking hard, "Should I buy this?" / "I ought to buy/ not to buy this..." / "Shouldn't I stick to my budget?", etc etc. Sometimes, I have an annoyed expression when my thoughts are interrupted - genius at work deciding on which unblemished cucumber to put in her basket, see? 🤣😜 I mean, I'm not really annoyed, but... resting bitch face, what can I say? 😛 In actual fact, I really wouldn't mind being approached to be asked which brand of whatever is better IMO. That's flattering to an opinionated label-reader! 🤣 Too bad I'm tall and there was only one occasion when I was straining on tippy toes trying to reach for the last bottle of something on a top shelf that had been pushed back! 😓 Out of nowhere, this gorgeous, tall man appeared and in a booming voice, declared, "Let me help you with that! " and effortlessly swept that bottle off its feet, and into my basket! 😶💘😍 It all happened too fast and I think my resting bitch face turned into surprised resting bitch face, which probably looked even worse, and before I could blink, it was all over! 😯😕 Ahhh... I like playing damsel in distress! 😍 I love being "rescued" by strong arms because those same arms become really useful in consensual nonconsent role playing too! 😍😁 Hehehe! 😜 Oops, I digress... 😜
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
Good call. I always need help to reach the top shelves. The best stuff is always there or the bottom shelves anyway. You're short aren't you Itouch. LMAO I can just imagine you scampering down the aisles looking for this guy and dashing forward an aisle to strategically place yourself in his path.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Who me? 😇 Yes I am on the shorter side, this has merit 👍 Peony, did he notice you were kneeling while straining to reach the top shelf? 😂😂
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RHP User
8 years ago
I wouldn't mind bumping trollies with you. I'd check your melons and peaches for freshness but you're ageist lol. Mr.ne 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Luv that'. lol.. A upright banana for a woman to signify her intentions or ' a whole bunch of upright bananas for a gang bang... or ... a banana , peach , and another banana for a MFM... Now that's what I call inspirational thinking.... lol... 👍 Jay 😃
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RHP User
8 years ago
We cougars are a little ageist 😊 I'm trying to grow up. No success yet but I'll keep you posted 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
btw 😊
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RHP User
8 years ago
I do the same thing for the same reasons. I shop at night to avoid the screaming kids, long lines and parking frustrations. Even then I hate grocery shopping because it's an act of necessity and everyone in the store is as excited to be there as you are. It's for that reason that Ive never considered a supermarket as a place to meet someone. After reading these comments I might have to experiment with the idea now! The idea of crashing into someones cart and asking them for their insurance details and personal number might be where I start! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Rlee552
8 years ago
Don’t over complicate it. Say hello, how are you. Start a conversation. If he is a decent guy it will follow on from there. If he is an ass, that will quickly become apparent. If he is a decent guy who is already attached he will enjoy the attention but will let you know subtly about it. At the end of the day, what is the worse that can happen.
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RHP User
8 years ago
The old fear of rejection is a powerful force to overcome. Thing is, if you do nothing, your in the same position as being rejected. So you can only gain by making a move. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
You'll only catch me kneeling for special things for the animals, y'know! Like petting my pet pussy, and tending to the erm... eh... "rooster". 🤣🤣🤣
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justdo1t
8 years ago
A simple bend at the waist at the right time with the right intention will indeed begin eye contact..and there you have it. Your eyes tell all and if you can think of some set quickthink responces your conversation should flow to where it needs to..if he is open to your energy and subtle advances..Always bend at the Hips with a sense of class any guy noticing will happily entertain your conversation - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
The eye contact you had keep it & add a side grin. If you see him again in the shop, do it again. Hope that, that gives him the idea to make a move, if not then at the 3rd time (or second if you have the courage) I'd say "sorry to keep staring and I don't ever do this but just wanted to say that you have a sexy physical presence about you". Depending on his response, is what you answer. Either it's a "thank you from him" and you say "your welcome have a nice day", or a "thank you yes I'd like to have a drink". - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I always get looks when I go to Coles or Woolworths. The looks of randy Woman desiring me. And I desire almost every 2nd Woman that I see. Little would they know. I do have sexy eyes and I walk strong and sexy like a Man that should not be fucked with. I also have very sexy legs with well defined calves. I carry myself with an air of confidence. Woman melt.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Giving him a wink and a smile? 😉😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Well actually, we really did meet at Coles. The repartee was far more indulgent however. "Strange fruit" playing in the background and he was carrying a basket with bananas. Now, after all these years, colours still seem brighter and more real. Our laughter seems to be a part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. And prices are not the only thing going down down. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thank you all. So many good ideas, and some flat out funny ones. Great stuff. Next time I see him, I'm moving in 😁
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RHP User
8 years ago
Fluidity in motion rather than poses is what hooks me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Just aisle stork him getting a good mental image and use it for motivation later. My view is just say hi or improve chances of meeting someone worth meeting shop at Woolworths. That's why I shop at woolies - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Was he Greek? He’s very sexy and approachable - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
There is confidence, and then there is whatever the hell that was! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Could i fit in somewhere here please feel free to try me on - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm with Jason....that's a great line suggestion...."I really like the look of you, would you like to get a drink soon?". It tells me your interested, it's to the point (which we like) and If I was married, it's an easy, "thank you but no thank you" - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
It happened again, but with a different guy 😇 And all the advice I was given here didn't help, I was tongue tied and totally useless 😏 AND I forgot to look at his ring, oops ring finger 😊 Okay so dilemma here, this guy had a child in his trolley, but not all men with children have a wife do they? Or maybe he was returning to lost property? 😀 Mate, you seriously had me weak at the knees, the way you held your gaze and smiled at me, aisle after aisle haha one look is all it took for me 😍 Now if you read this, I've outed who I am, but I don't care. If you're not sure, I was the slutty blond 😉 lime green top with pink bikini. Pleeease tell me you're no longer married and you're not visiting from interstate, and that you shop there regularly 😁 Why didn't I look at his ring finger? I never think to do that. You know how some people look at number plates when driving? I look at the driver and sometimes his car, never the numberplate. Same with a ring which is kind of like a human numberplate 😂😂
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RHP User
8 years ago
I was ready to drop to my knees in aisle 4 😛
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Quote : I was ready to drop to my knees in aisle 4... ? Ohh... did you drop 20 cents ? I could always position myself to be able to push you around while you look.. Oo Ahh.. my bad .... 😇. 😄
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RHP User
8 years ago
Haha I would have gone in had it not been for the trolley contents goddamit ☺
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