M57 F51
Sth East Suburbs meet and greet
April 29 2017
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Starlet1
9 years ago
And kudos for organising. We've been hoping for something like this to get to know other hot couples who live closeby. Your local swinger get-together so to speak. "These are the people in your neighbourhood" 😉😏😲 - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
I got over exuberant and registered knowing my male half was going. Nows he's nervous I'll turn up.....
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
Half time costume change ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
That be similar to fishing. Changing the bait if no bites...... He thought of that. Worried that there may be no need to change the bait and he stays in the bucket.
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
MrB, I'm in! I've roped in a few friends, may as well make it a good party! (I hope they have a well stocked bar, this crowd gets a wee bit thirsty).
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
With 2 other RHP couples. We had drinks at the bar, chatted to a few other couples there, ordered pizza. The girls flirted and did a little pole dancing. It fun fun. Boobs or Bust , they were actually the couples that were with us, when we met up with you at the bistro in Berwick a few weeks ago. They also enjoyed Hidden Heaven and we plan to go back. But neither us, nor them, will go to the venue if there are single guys going - we just have had unpleasant experiences with regards the manner in which many behave, especially if there is the possibility of "play" within the venue. The problem is, that a couple may very well take a single guy upstairs, but that does not stop him from then leaving their company and trying to then pester another couple / group playing upstairs. If single males have expectations that there is going to be "play" at this meet & greet, they will arrive in droves, and have expectations to play. For that reason we suggest that you keep this a "meet n greet" only . It will make things a lot easier. - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
All the previous RHP "meet & greets" have allowed single guys to attend, so perhaps this one should simply be kept for couples & single women ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
As stated this isn't our meet and greet at all ,I'm just promoting it,cos we loved the place nothing more ,I'm going to say any complaints about anyone and be assured they will be leaving very quickly, and the did say they will limit the single guys. The address isn't up anywhere in public for that purpose,they also have only the one entrance with a man at it ,that will turn away Unwanted in a heartbeat ,same as one complaint about an annoying man upstairs would be tossed out very quickly Saying that ,,what's people's thoughts Let's get it in the open and chat ,I'm sure if we get 75 percent of couples saying rather not have any singles there. I will pick up the phone and speak to hidden heaven and say we could get more in the door without and singles at all - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
Rather than clog this thread with it I will start another one just about people's thoughts on it ,which makes sure this one doesn't get heated and closed ,lol. - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
Hidden Heaven has always, to our knowledge, been no single guys, with regards the evenings that they host. Perhaps they are just making an exception for the planned " meet & greet". There are plenty swingers clubs around that allow single guys in - actually the majority do. - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
Why would this one get heated or closed ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've known a relatively inexperienced couple for a year and a half, unfortunately we still haven't found an appropriate place where we can both go to (the couple and I) in a casual, relaxed setting. The issue with house parties is the dress down rule and the focus on play (they have been discouraged from attending even private couples nights because they are not "players"), and if we only want to meet and chat with others, we would prefer a more casual attitude to dress (which this event seems to have). So I am happy this event has come up. However, if many people have too much issue with someone like me attending with them, then we will probably all give it a miss, and keep trying for something else similar. Otherwise, it sounds just right, there hasn't been anything else like it (that I can go to with them).
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RHP User
9 years ago
There so many only couples and single women events on DynamicCouple surely you can allow one event to have single men in attendance. Perhaps if a couple vouches for them? Many of us find just couples and some single women events a bit boring and nowhere near as fun. Give single men a go for once. FFS.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Boobs or Bust, hot profile pic - oh and I personally like how you have described the event and you may find that a greater selection of people will attend. I would go, if I lived in Melbourne.
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
Some single women would like the opportunity to meet single men in a safe environment (note, the word meet does not usually include 'play' as part of its definition. 😈) Sounds as though the hosts have good security in place, and have planned for quite a few scenarios which often happen at other clubs. And Country Touch has a valid point; it provides couples with a safe space to meet single men. If the hosts can cap the number of single men to being a small ratio of the overall attendees, and do have the security measures in place, then it could be a fun night..
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
I agree ,it's quite unique in many ways with no charge for entry .i have asked three other swingers clubs to do a meet and greet like this and nothing but crickets ,have put a thread forward to deal with the single men issue ,waiting for it to turn up. Jump in and have your say , - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
If the event is a success, then perhaps other type of arrangements can be provided in the future. In any case, it's not like there's a shortage of couples parties. If it's not a success as is currently advertised, it's just one event of many. Also, some couples contain straight women. Many of the private house parties that don't include single men, have an emphasis on bi-female play, something I know a few couples (and other single straight women) are not comfortable with (whether they are looking for single men or not). Yes, some other meet & greets have included everyone, but they are typically held in a quite public place (good for safety, but not always great if you are somewhat nervous or shy). And in any case, few single men have actually attended anyway, despite the invites sent or registrations of interest. If this event is an rhp based event I don't see why it would be any different.
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
Had a few enquiries , are there any lockers or somewhere for valuables and clothes Answer is no actual lockers ,hidden heaven use the bag and tag system ,same as saints and sinners , Mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
There just might the possibility of a single man to meet and single woman, and perhaps become (shock, horror) a Couple! Good for me, good for her, good for you, as it removes another single man from existence :P
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
There were no visible lockers nor showers (although we understand there is a small bathroom with shower upstairs that is kept locked) The venue is actually a bar - was owned or perhaps still is owned by Bikies. It's nicely decorated - has a homely feel as if management is actually living there. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
meet *a single woman
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
There is the shock horror of maybe a trans turning up to it.......
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
Hahaha! 😂🤣
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
Thankyou candy,very kind ,just trying to write it up nicely ,I really like the place and think it's a perfect place for a meet and greet ,I'm on the fence about singles , I see both sides and prolly lean to letting them in if they are an extra, should be ok ,especially if someone can vouch for them ,say in country touches situation but i think poor old singles are about to loose the battle , Dc ,I was meaning ,closed and heated as if in ,when there's a difference of opinion ,and it gets heated lately threads get closed just to keep the peace , Also dc ,what about a couple who have an extra man in there group ,your way says they have to leave him behind or as I saw on the purr thread ask for a fake partner and get in the door anyway ,isn't it better that singles are up front about being single rather than putting on the Trojan horse costume and sneaking in anyway and doing exactly what we all don't want upstairs and dumping the girl while they run off - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
If a couple arrive with a single guy , then as long as they keep control of him then fine. If a single guy uses a female or couple , just to get into the venue, then it's not fine . Candy, most of the Melbourne swingers clubs/ parties only have a couples evening once a month . The other days are all geared towards single males. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well let me know which way it works out, so I can let my couple friends know, as I would be escorting them, not the other way around. The way they would feel, is that they would rather go with a close friend (myself) than go alone. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Boobs or bust, you will never please everyone which ever way you structure it in regards to single guys, couples, trans, bi.We don't have an issue in regards to the single guys and it seems to me the measures in place to try to alleviate any single guys unwanted behaviour appear adequate. I mean no one is saying no single women, no couples so a blanket no single guys seems silly. Some couples, women and even men would like to have the guys there.We are not naïve and have had our share of inconsiderate single guys at venues like the shed and private parties, which is a shame as there are some great guys on the site. Separating the wheat from the chaff is the problem. First in first serve could mean we get the chaff and no wheat. I think the measures in place are a great compromise. I agree the venue and the hosts are great and I'm sure most people will be impressed.Well done b and b.Cheers D and M
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RHP User
9 years ago
Looks like CT and I will be staying at home. Shame. Sounded promising.
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
Will do ,I am waiting on a response from them about it ,I said let it go for a bit and get a general consensus ,not just take the word of a few messages they had received saying if there's singles many couple won't be going , I'd like to see that from the rhp people themselves not being spoken for on there behalf, fore or against - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
Their event page says couples & single females only, no mention of single guys - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
MEET AND GREET DRINKS NIGHT. FREE ENTRY TO OUR PRIVATE FUNCTION. SATURDAY NIGHT 13TH MAY FROM 7PM TIL LATE. WE INVITE YOU TO COME ALONG AND CHECK OUT ONE OF THE BEST ADULT VENUES IN VICTORIA. Our licensed venue is situated in a private and discreet area in Moorabbin with ample safe parking. On ground level you can mingle at the Bar, enjoy a drink in the lounge area or out on the covered decking. We have a dance pole for added fun. The upper level is a tastefully decorated play area. We provide a party atmosphere, hassle free so you can enjoy the night in comfort and at your own pace in our clean venue. Take away menu. Delivered piping hot from our local take aways Dress up or Casual. COUPLES AND SINGLE WOMEN ONLY. LIMITED TO 60 GUESTS ONLY NO BYO. NO EFT, CASH ONLY. Our venue is also available for PRIVATE HIRE - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
They do private hire to host a general meet and greet? :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
What the fuck are they doing?
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
Dynamic Couple....... I don't know where you are copy & pasting the event from, as the event listing has been removed for most of today (and still is down at 3.10pm). I presume it is being edited, rather than being cancelled due to this stuff & nonsense. As a general aside..... If the venue owners decide to change the event to couples and single women, I sincerely hope that those who have been most strident in their opposition to single men, actually attend the event. Otherwise their advocacy for change smells more like a witch hunt....or obsession. I would also not want the success of the evening (for the owners) to be compromised by trying to appease a vocal minority.
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
They have the event details posted on their Facebook page - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
The event listing was changed after some messages from a Group pointing THEIR points of view forward about how they perceived single guys would make the night a no go for many couple ,in doing what they thought the right thing was ,.have removed single men From the listing ,I'm pretty sure you saw the listing as it was ,or you wouldn't have made such a strong case for no single men ,shame really that nice innocent guys get caught up in the collateral damage ,everyone is entitled to the wants and desires Not my party , I'm just trying to create interest and get it noticed to get as many there as possible ,looks like more chatting about it than hidden heaven have had before ,my job is done ,lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
Heaven Heaven have been hosting "play" events for some time now. Because the venue is not well known, and generally hidden away, it's never been very busy on those nights - perhaps just 10 couples. We know this as we have been there. Management recently decided to rather have "meet & greet" events, focused more on the social get together, than on the play aspect. In order to have a free night, they really need to sell a minim of $600 on alcohol. They told us this when we visited in January, with a few couples from here. Their "play nights" have always exclusively been couples & single females, and these nights have been free, in the hope of encouraging more to attend. The meet & greet in May is hoping to attract a larger crowd and the emphasis is on a social meet & greet as opposed to a play meet. However, if certain RHP members want to arrange a meet and greet of their own, to which single males ,and everyone else in between, is invited, then this will in essence be a private, paid function. Speak with management re more details and minimum costs to book out the entire venue. - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
We did not see the previous posting. We only saw the one re no single guys, on their FB page. When we went in January with the other couples (whom you met with us at Eighty One) they told us about Hidden Heavens FB page, and so we jumped on earlier to see the actual listing, as we could not find it on RHP events section. None of them are into single guys (unlike us as we do have a MFM from time to time ) and for that reason they liked to attend the Hidden Heaven events. Perhaps they were unhappy about the changes ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
Good point ,I haven't been able to find the party listing all morning it's still not back yet but somehow in the dc copy and paste it's been changed ,something smacks here ,!!! Also just noticed on the dc post tv, and tg are gone , I'm sure they were there this morning - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've read and reread through bleary eyes. Are single women invited or only couples for this evening ?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'DynamicCouple36' If a couple arrive with a single guy , then as long as they keep control of him then fine. If a single guy uses a female or couple , just to get into the venue, then it's not fine . - Posted from rhpmobile I ummm... agree? Although the first bit makes me sound like a criminal being escorted by police through an uncontained area. I am pretty sure I don't need to be "kept control of", and in any case, if I was that reckless, my nature wouldn't magically change once I am actually part of a couple/in a relationship.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well I think we should make a date with this delicious sounding event - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
It was not directed at you. It's a known fact that many single guys, find all sorts of cunning ways to get into a couples only night. We have witnessed it many times. They advertise for a female , any female, to accompany them. Even if it's a female they have never met before. Once in the venue they part ways. She ends up sitting at the bar chattting to others, whilst he goes in the hunt for some action. It's just the way it is. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'DynamicCouple36' Hidden Heaven has always, to our knowledge, been no single guys, with regards the evenings that they host. Perhaps they are just making an exception for the planned " meet & greet". - Posted from rhpmobile Precisely. And if that is the case, what makes this night now different (now it's been changed) from any of their other nights, short of perhaps waiving an entry fee? Or is there more pressure for couples and women to play on all the other nights that aren't called a "meet and greet"? And also if a private event with only certain people allowed can be called a meet and greet (yes strangers are still meeting and greeting), then nearly all events can be called meet and greets (short of the odd play only orgy), which makes the point of using the term quite redundant.
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
Our understating is that the previous format "couples only play meets" , that HH used to host every couple of months, are now a thing of the past, and are being replaced with meet & greets, at which the emphasis is on the social & drinking aspect (as opposed to playing ) as this is where the venue makes the money. - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
Single men ,will NOT be able to attend this event ,but on the 13 of may the hosts will be making enquires and ask actual attendees on their thoughts about the subject ,and base their future decision for another meet and greet on information gathered of this one .as I've said I really get the feeling Hidden Heaven really want to deliver what the crowd wants and nothing else ,can't get fairer than that ! Great news for the TV AND TG, amongst us ,one simple message and you are more than welcome to attend , and back in the mix , yay for you launch TIME TO MOVE ON ,and I shut up let's all get excited and start Our little home grown plans for a ripper night Mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
the male half is on the bench then. A few selfish oversexed males fuck it up for the respectable majority
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Totally understand. I've seen them in action causing havoc
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Quoting 'DynamicCouple36' Hidden Heaven has always, to our knowledge, been no single guys, with regards the evenings that they host. They had party there last weekend.as a hired function where there were 25 single guys listed. With less than 20 couples. $100 per single guyPretty sure you would have known that. You don't miss much
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
We were referring to the free Hidden Heaven functions. These HH free functions are hosted by the managers under the name of Hidden Heaven. The private, paid function you are referring to, is called Hostess Parties or something like that. It gets a bit confusing as it appears there are a number of different parties st the same venue. Just like Bayside Sauna has Attunga, Melbourne Wankers, and several other "parties" all under one roof - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Ohh I was gonna put my hand up as a single guy going make some new connections have a laugh make new friends I guess not now Bloody single men lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
Single women are more than welcome , - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
The thread is on the front of newsfeed ,,that's got to be good for them ,hopefully plenty of people get to think about it now ,don't forget to go and register But do it ,if your really thinking of going ,Dont do it ,just to be one of the cool kids and wrecking someone's chance of going cos they are full up ,do it cos your going to turn up ,rain hail or shine - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Was looking forward for a meet and greet event like this, but wondering I (Indian) would be allowed to join?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
In short the answer is ,No single guys ,read the thread to find out why - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Who does this a event is listed as an event u read the attendance and thought single guys are going normal people either attend or dont based on the list but no some people actually go about changing the event instead of staying home in there sorry ass environment. Wow rant over - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yep read through, it mentioned single guys early arrive, but that's ok B, I get it, thanks anyway - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Interested in attending alone or potentially a female companion. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
The main OP post is obviously no longer correct. Yes you can read through all the posts to find the updated information, but it might be better to ask to remove the topic entirely. I asked previously about hiring this venue for a general meet and greet one day, however as meet and greets attract many interstaters, it won't be quite convenient regarding public transport etc especially late at night. Those meetings seem to be better held close to or in the CBD. In any case, my friends and I will probably look at other venues, perhaps Madisons etc for us to chat to some other like minded folk in a private, relaxed environment (we don't intend to be playing).
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RHP User
9 years ago
When and where is this event happening - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Mate , Great work , loving it ...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Wanna be part of this - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
Since the time I wrote the opening article ,the part about single guys is now incorrect and they aren't invited to this event,once the owners have a clearer understanding of what most want ,and not just the opposition to single guys ,things may or may not change in the future , that's for the hosts gary and cindy to decide Can't make this event but have an opinion ,don't sit back and say nothing ,send hidden heaven a message , and let them know your thoughts or suggestions ,cos obviously some did and this event was changed ,so the hosts do listen - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Dang. Shame you can't attend! :(( Well, this is going well. 🤗
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'countrytouch' The main OP post is obviously no longer correct. Yes you can read through all the posts to find the updated information, but it might be better to ask to remove the topic entirely. I asked previously about hiring this venue for a general meet and greet one day, however as meet and greets attract many interstaters, it won't be quite convenient regarding public transport etc especially late at night. Those meetings seem to be better held close to or in the CBD. In any case, my friends and I will probably look at other venues, perhaps Madisons etc for us to chat to some other like minded folk in a private, relaxed environment (we don't intend to be playing). I agree with the idea of closing the thread, it seems to have reached the end of it's usefulness anyway. Peachy
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
And lord knows this is why this place should just have a bloody edit button,ffs ,lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
Contact customer service/mods. They can do it. Quote the exact title of the forum.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I read through most of the thread and I am a bit baffled by the singe men exception rule. May this meet & greet should be called couples/swingers meet or something? just saying...
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RHP User
9 years ago
RHP might edit your OP if you ask nicely... I have seen it done before.
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RHP User
9 years ago
So over the single men stigma If its a meet and greet all should be welcome - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
Well they removed the thread , only problem they took down the wrong one ,oopsies,lol, This thread has done its job and pretty much redundant What I did forget to mention, I saw on the event listing , BYO TOWELS , they are not supplied for those wanting to play on the night ,and I'd probably imagine condoms also , And just for the record , Information about single guys is incorrect in original posting BEFORE ALL THE JUMP TO END IF THREAD FELLAS START POSTING AGAIN THERE WILL BE. BE NO SINGLE GUYS ALLOWED AT THIS EVENT ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
The place used to be a motorcycle clubhouse. We have been trying to get google to take the old pic down off google maps. They say we have to wait til the camera car comes around again. They are Google FFS. They should be able to delete the old pic. We can delete pics off the net! We are going to have a suggestion box or just talk to us on the night about improvements to the Meet & Greet nights. Cheers Gary and Cindy :-)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sorry to hear that! Too weird, you could still take up the chance to request an Edit I suppose. I always copy and paste the url when sending requests (in the bar up the top) and that has worked so far. Peachy
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
If you haven't been contacted by hidden heaven with details and you have registered your interest ,send them a message and they will get back to you asap - Posted from rhpmobile
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lik2watch59
9 years ago
Boobs or Bust. Thanks for starting this thread, we've been looking at this place, when I say we, I mean my friend Sharon (shazza54)We attend these type of functions and swingers clubs together and most nights, have a ball. (pardon the pun) It's good to get a bit of feed back from someone whos been there. We're already booked of this Saturday night with a polyamorous group so we might look into a night there next week. Thanks,Warren (L2W)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Candy delicious i love your comments Hi guys how is everyone? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Man I missed the event :( but I'm still eager to meet and "greet" any women free to hit me up. - Posted from rhpmobile
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