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Stigma of Young Vs Old
May 17 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think that a younger girl is always going to prefer younger. BUT, the guy needs to understand what she is about. Older women are also going to like younger as long as he understands what she is about. So the moral of the story is, understand what makes HER personally tick, we aren't all the same you know ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
A lot of older women do like older men because they are more confident and experienced. But age is just a number to most of us. And sometimes you can't teach an old dog new tricks, ie. older does not always mean they are more experienced. I've met older guys who just like to do it their way and won't listen. It's guys like that that don't get a second chance from me. But if you're a younger male who is eager and willing to listen and learn, then I don't see a reason why you won't be successful. Good luck. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Me old mate you will know the answer to your question when you get a little older me old mate :-)) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
But I have a seriously massive urge to find that out. I'm having one of those, I need to be naked with women a lot moments. Whereby I really want to understand and learn and try new things. There's a lot of things I haven't tried etc Probabaly doesn't help I have a sex blog and am generally a walking erection... - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
12 years ago
No not all young guys are that bad, a lot are very respectful, lovely young men. As there are some older men with the same qualities...Yes there is a but, there also some that are rude, annoying and very disrespectful and yes it's exactly the same with older men as well..... Older defiantly doesn't mean more experience, because some of my best lovers, not all have been quite younger than me. As for confidence, I think it's about even with older Vs younger.... I think it's more to do with the way you go about approaching a woman and it will always come down her personal preference....... Or....dare I say it.....maybe some older women aren't as confidant in themselves anymore to take on a younger man.......💋.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I didn't look at it that way :) that could very well be true as well :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'crezz2704' But I have a seriously massive urge to find that out. I'm having one of those, I need to be naked with women a lot moments. Whereby I really want to understand and learn and try new things. There's a lot of things I haven't tried etc Probabaly doesn't help I have a sex blog and am generally a walking erection... - Posted from rhpmobile Of course your a walking hard on, comes with the territory at your age. Plus all that pussy that's online and off, the liberated woman , smell the endorphins in the air. don't be like a shot gun and fire away at everything that moves. the key is to be a heat seeking missile, I mean find a woman and make her feel she is the only woman on the planet.And practice with that same woman, I mean get to know a woman and not just a bunch of one night stands practice, patience and paying attention and NOT blowing your load, and wiping your cock on the curtain and strutting out like a peacock. Older well hell yes we are going to know more, but its what we do with that knowledge that counts. I have had some amazing lovers some as young as 21 and what made them good. The fact they could hold a conversation, did not have one foot on the floor and the eye on the door while they were having sexthat they came back again and wanted to try more stuff, and to just ask and talk and not rush into the finishing point. Older is not always wiser either, I get the most pathetic messages from older men that make them sound like pubescent school boys its rather sad. I get most of my flirts from older guys when the first sentence on my profile is do not send me a flirt. Just take a breath and go get some good books about sexand read themtry this one. "she comes first" not sure of who wrote thatyou can learn a lot from books ya know, so read the manual I am sure some other women here have some good reading material for you. Good luck grass hopper LadyT doing the chalk and talk
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RHP User
12 years ago
But I didn't mean it that way, I'm by no means someone who wants to get with a bunch of women to gain that 'experience'. You are perfectly right in what you say and that's how id prefer it. Learning how to make a women squirm and squeal is one of the best parts of a physical and phsycological relationship. Without the fun, the chemistry it's just sex. Once you know how and what makes that certain person tick, you can have just THAT much more fun with her, knowing you can keep her on the edge teetering. :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
12 years ago
Think of the cockpit in an F1-11 fighting jet cockpit, full of buttons to press and learning all the sequences to have that jet reach sonic boom and all sorts of twists and turns. It takes some time to learn the sequences for pressing all those buttons, aim for a lady to become your best co pilot and together break the sound barriers of lust, passion and screaming orgasms. Does not matter how long it takes to get there, as long as you have a good flight before you bring out the landing gear. But don't forget those buttons are sensitive, the lightest touch is all that is needed and it is not all about what you do with the joy stick. Mado Mado Tara xx
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Crezz I concur as per Lady T's comments. However, I haven't been attracted to younger men as I like my men to take charge a bit in a social setting. Most of the more mature men (35+) I have met are respectful, socially adept and self-confident. I have not had a lot to do with men under 33 and the little I have, just recently with a 31yo, I am quite disppointed and haven't changed my opinion on younger men's reliability and confidence. So not going there again. I am a confident woman and will say and do as I pleased but I like a man's man. Not so much as someone who will sweep me off my feet. That is romantic BS in RHP world. But someone who can converse, relate to what I say and laugh at my the funnier side of life. I like older men (35+) in general as I like hearing life stories, funny and sad. But not all older guys (35+) are great. Definitely lots of Neanderthal there. Just like in the real world. so if you are patient, confident, respectful, smart and laid back, you have a good chance to meet and have fun and lots of "learnings" with women of all ages. You seem all of these. And handsome too. so you have a lot going for yourself. But just LISTEN to the women you are with. A very underrated yet very very SEXY trait. good luck!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
From my own experiences, when I was in my 20's I thought I knew it all, and not just about sex but everything. Anyone who dared tell me different was 'out of touch' and just didn't understand. Which kind of made things difficult as I was in the RAAF then .. lol But now that I am officially labelled an old fart, I know I still have much to learn. About sex, about women, about life in general. I think as we mature our thirst for knowledge increases because we realise we just don't know. Mooka
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RHP User
12 years ago
Awesome analogy. I love Pilots too..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I just don't find young guys attractive really. I prefer the mature look and attitude. Even though many say age is just a number, it isn't really, it is often (but not always) the difference in life experience and attitude.
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Taby_DK
12 years ago
When I was a single girl before I met Mr I always played with older men. For me younger men where very immature and basicly showed me no respect in the few times I played with someone under 25. I also found younger guys to be not as good in bed (maybe lack of experience?) compared to older guys. Most Younger guys I interacted with only seem to care about how many chicks they could bang in one night and considered themselves gods gift to women. I am not saying all younger guys are like this but all younger guys I have met or played with where like this with me. After a few bad experience I set myself a 'no guys under 25' rule even though I was only 21 at the time lol I find older men more attractive because they have manners, they make the effort to get to know you, and usually have their life sorted, and have set goals and careers, which is attractive to me. I find I relate better to older guys, I have more in common with them and well a man is more attractive than a boy... Of course now that I have Mr I do not need to worry about young vs old :D Taby xx
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'RHP101' Awesome analogy. I love Pilots too..... - Posted from rhpmobile Actually , it was Tara building the flight simulators, I just spent years quizzing her in the evenings about all those buttons. Often wonder if all those pilots, during training, just knew how much lov'n went into developing those cockpits. We do
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JessicaRabbit
12 years ago
Of course there's always exceptions but some young guys tend to lack the maturity that older men do and play more mind games. Ain't nobody got time for that. I prefer older men for that reason, and experience and expectations also play a part. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
With texting and all the ways to communicate it's too easy for people to bail out on a meet up. But yea I hope I do the women I sleep with justice you know. I want to be as good as I can be! Et - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Can be a starfish at 50.. Like anything , you only ever get out of it what your prepared to put in. Goes for guys too, once a lazy lover always a lazy lover... The more considerate you are , the more you get back.. THAT'S what you call experience...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't usually go for young guys, but a year ago I found myself in bed with a very gifted 22 year-old. He really impressed me with his skills, and when I asked him how he knew so much at his age, he simply said: "Because I listen."
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Lovinit28andKC72
12 years ago
I'm sure you will just fine lovely, you've had a couple of topics up in the forums now and you have come across as a lovely young man.....💋
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RHP User
12 years ago
I just want be the best I can be :) with whomever I am with! - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
The best advice I can give you is just be yourself and know your self, know who you are. Women are attracted to confident men who give them the respect and dignity they deserve. Listen and ask if you don't know, it's the only way to learn. Integrity and good core values and morals goes a long way. To some age means nothing to others it means something. There's someone for every one, finding an equal that is a fit can be hard work, but it will pay off. Yes it's true, some do bail out - it's the nature of this site and others as well. Be true to your word, follow up on meets and let things flow naturally. Best of Luck and welcome to the forums. Ms.Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
I certainly go for older men and enjoy them very much! For me, I feel more appreciated by an older man, and always seem to learn something new, which I enjoy. Older men that I have been with seemed to have more of an interest in fetish and if I ended up being a sub it just makes more sense for the Dom to be older. I also like being a bit dominant with older men as I feel more powerful. I haven't spent much sexual time with guys my age as unfortunately the ones that approach me seem to see me as anatomy when I'm far more than that. Also, the majority of guys my age that I have ended up with can be harder to direct, don't seem to have any patience and for a girl that takes a lot of time and stimulation to come - being asked whether I've come yet after a minimal amount of time simply gets boring, frustrating and leaves me feeling like I'm a failure for not having an orgasm in two minutes of fucking. I also get a lot more of "I've never been with a black chick before" and "your boobs are really big" from younger men, which has never (and sadly never will be) a turn on. I don't mean to sound harsh but there a few good experiences with men my age. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
If my memory is correct, wasnt it you who once gave me a serve because I slept with a 22 yr old lady ? Whats that saying about calling the kettle black ? Hmmm. ?
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RHP User
12 years ago
A lot of women gave you a serve, but I don't believe I was one of them. Prove me wrong, but I do believe you're going a bit senile in your old age.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Senile ? hehe.. Like I said, don't call the kettle black.. You mean SOME women of a certain group gave me a serve.. not a lot.. And yes'. You were definitely in the mix...
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RHP User
12 years ago
While I do prefer guys +/- 5yrs of my own age, really it depends on personality. My concern with younger guys has nothing to do with their sexual competencies & everything thing to do with their lack of mental maturity. But I have been proved wrong with younger guys on the very odd occasion, so it really depends on the individual.
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RHP User
12 years ago
that because (sigh) "life is a journey" ... it is not possible to engage with any real purpose in this kind of discussion. Personally, I have a different kind of sexuality now than I did when I was younger.And my generic approach to life.Personally, I like it.Personally, I have no difference in sexual "energy" but my sexual aptitude is different, and probably "better."Your results may vary. Is not just solely based on experience, its also about your own evolution, and that of your partner.Time is not an easy thing to substitute. Some people appear to learn little as they go through life, others go through monumental shifts.So, therefore, your results may vary. My personal view is that most women don't really understand, or fully own their sexuality until they are in their 40's. I suspect this last comment will garner some commentary.
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makoman22
12 years ago
always wanted older women,i grew up around them,i find them aqttractive because they say it as it is.my mother told me I would grow out of it,but she was wrong.a woman with confidence is always more appealing than a young hotty,that's not saying that young women are not hot,just in a different way.bed a 21 yrt old and ask her what she wants,she will tell you LIKE whateva you want,ask an older woman and shes already got your head in hands while shes showing you.
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RHP User
12 years ago
The simple advice of 'listen' while sound advice. In many cases does not apply as few women know what they want, or if they do they are unwilling or unable to communicate it. Obviously the fine ladies of rhp do not fall into this category. And would make great teachers as they know exactly what they want! Unfortunately for you and I, its rarely a young man! Goodluck with that one... some usefull advice then? In the real world most women have body image/ self esteem issues. You could be hung like a horse and know every trick/angle/position in the book. But if she isnt comfortable with herself she wont enjoy it nearly as much as she should. some you may never be able to convince them they are sexy. Although if you can show them you alone truly find them sexy and unresistable. wont take much to get them to the big O. Getting them to let go of baggage gaining trust etc is not easy however and takes time and effort. Wait.. after writing all of that just find a girl that can communicate doesnt have hang ups and 'listen' much easier option. Sorry for all the generalizations - Posted from rhpmobile
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