RHP

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Straight Couple looking for places to find a guy for MMF

June 07 2016

My wife and I are in our early 40's and are vacationing in Sydney and Melbourne CBD areas later in June and have considered turning our fantasy of her being pleased by me and another guy into reality. Where can we go to find like minded people? I've heard of swingers clubs but those seem to be for the younger crowd (in their 20's) Also it seems like swingers clubs are more for couple swapping or a couple adding another female into the mix. Also heard about bi/gay clubs but I don't think she would be willing to go to one of those places.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    This is probably a good way to advertise and get some interest from single guys. The other way would be to pay for membership and do your own approaching on here. Enjoy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    There are two in Sydney and I don't know where you got the idea that they are for younger crowd?? That has not been my general experience. I would say you both would fit right in. I am sure there will be lovely couples there who will loan you their husband. Just be prepared to be watched by others potentially.

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    9 years ago

    Attunga & Shed 16, allow single guys in on Saturday nights. You are sure to find many single guys at these venues. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Ummm just use date finder and advertise for a single male, or use the search function and try your luck with sending a few messages to some bulls. You have joined a site with like minded people so I'm not sure as to why you need to go looking, as they are all here in one place.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'social_suicide' Ummm just use date finder and advertise for a single male, or use the search function and try your luck with sending a few messages to some bulls. You have joined a site with like minded people so I'm not sure as to why you need to go looking, as they are all here in one place. Sorry didn't realise you were guests, so just pay $52 for one month membership so you can send a few messages.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Interesting the scenario your looking for is the same . I'm a big believer in meeting first and taking things from there also. Worth your while contacting. Nothing to lose , plenty to gain.

  • Remymartin

    Remymartin

    9 years ago

    I would be interested in joining you both when in Sydney? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Somewhere on my search of the internet led me to believe the 2 clubs in sydney are attended more by people in their 20's. Hoping to find someone in their late 20's to 30''s. This is probably gonna be a one time thing and my wife is still on the fence... and I'm cheap so I'd prefer not to pay the monthly membership... lol how do you do date finder?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Get your red pen ready..... this advertisement is gonna flood your inboxed 😄 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • LeMerovingien

    LeMerovingien

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'curiouscoupleusa' Somewhere on my search of the internet led me to believe the 2 clubs in sydney are attended more by people in their 20's. Hoping to find someone in their late 20's to 30''s. This is probably gonna be a one time thing and my wife is still on the fence... and I'm cheap so I'd prefer not to pay the monthly membership... lol how do you do date finder? I guess that rules me out though feel free to send me a flirt if you might be interested. Might I suggest a few more pictures to attract some more attention. If you click search at the top of the page you should get a sub menu which has date finder on it, it's very self explanatory. @SummerWhile you first post about the couples club had me interested, the second one has me fleeing for the hills! It's great being a student...

  • Jay_London

    Jay_London

    9 years ago

    I'd be more than happy to accomodate you both somewhere in Sydney City Centre. Private message me if you're interested 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Summersolstice' Swingers clubs are twice the price of a membership, and how will you reply to all those flirts you have likely received by now? Curious: does your wife know you posted this here? She knows I've been setting things up on the internet in case she decides she wants to try it but she hasn't looked at anything yet. If she decides to go through with it, then I'll show her what I've found!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    curiouscoupleusa. I think your post was a lil premature. Putting the cart before the horse never works. But good luck anyway.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'amos444' curiouscoupleusa. I think your post was a lil premature. Putting the cart before the horse never works. But good luck anyway. Sorry, what exactly do you mean by this? What am I doing incorrectly? My wife is interested in doing this possibly while we are on vacation alone far away from friends/family. I've started the search so that if she decides to try this, we'll be prepared. Another suggestion I've heard is just go a to a regular bar/club and see who approaches us and/or have her "act" like she's single and see what happens. Thoughts anyone?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Iagree with Amos on this one. If your wife has any interest in this scenario at all, I would,as the other half, include her in every step. Even reading this thread to see what other like minded people write about their experience. So dont get defensive if ppl give suggestions or comment with their opinion. It just shows that you have already set your own plans in motion and dont like anything getting in the way of that. Perhaps thats whats happening in your 3way fantasy? And as for having your wife pretend she is single to lure a single guy? Really??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Summer was curious to wether your wife knew you were here. So was I , so that's what I meant about being premature. If she does know and is open to everything , that's excellent. I've been where your at and know the excitement and intisapation it brings. I wish you all the best.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'curiouscoupleusa' Quoting 'amos444' curiouscoupleusa. I think your post was a lil premature. Putting the cart before the horse never works. But good luck anyway. Sorry, what exactly do you mean by this? What am I doing incorrectly? My wife is interested in doing this possibly while we are on vacation alone far away from friends/family. I've started the search so that if she decides to try this, we'll be prepared. Another suggestion I've heard is just go a to a regular bar/club and see who approaches us and/or have her "act" like she's single and see what happens. Thoughts anyone? Not a fan of the acting single. Might put the other new person off when they find out the truth, we do the bar scenario but we are pretty upfront when hitting on people about what we are after and never pretend to be single.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Sorry if I came off defensive, I just didn't know how I was premature.... though I am pre-planning since she's not certain if she wants to try it yet. Maybe the acting single idea isn't good. So she knows that I'm looking for another person for a possible threesome. She doesn't want to take part in the search until she's made a decision to do it or not.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Hi, I would be interested in joining you in Melbourne... - Posted from rhpmobile