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Straight guys takin' a walk on the wild side
January 09 2008
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RHP User
18 years ago
I'd like to know too.
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RHP User
18 years ago
Great post Rockguitar as this is a topic that interests me a great deal as a woman who loves participating in mmf. My experience is that there are many men out there who not only want to experience the sensation of male on male play (usually limited to wanking and sucking) but if given the right opportunity, environment and atmosphere of relaxed safely will take that crazy walk on the wild side. My advice to those men who want to submit to their curiosity is to approach a bi friendly couple who are sympathetic to your possible reservations and shyness and take things slow. Conversely, there is nothing wrong with a blow and go job with an experienced bi or gay guy. Regardless of your style, at least give it a go. You will be pleasantly surpised at how hot and steamy the experience is. And no, it does not make or imply that you are gay. At the end of the day we are all skin and bones and regardless of biological gender, a mouth on your most intimate of parts giving you waves of pleasure is still a mouth. PS: You would be surprised how many of us women find bi action godamn sexy. Kiss
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RHP User
18 years ago
I am so with you on this one, Kiss. Such a turn on the first time it happened for me, and I've never looked back. Now I prefer a 3sum or couple play where there are no worries about overstepping anyone's boundaries if a hand or mouth should stray the wrong way lol. My playmate is bi, but in no way would you ever, ever pick it if you met him at work or down the street. He is the obligatory Aussie 'bloke's bloke'. In the right environment, his experimental side comes out. And he was a lot like you, Rock. Curious but never discussed it with anyone. Taboo subject in a man's world! Well done on bringing it up :) Cheers LIH
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RHP User
18 years ago
We, too have noticed this, and it always prompts the question.... WHY say you are straight in your profile? It could at least be changed to "experimental". On the one hand, we have the right to call ourselves what we want, yadda yadda yadda..... but on the other, I personally feel doubtful about the sincerity of someone who claims to be ready and willing for mm, but isn't even comfortable enough with that to mark it on a drop-down menu in an online profile that is essentially as anonymous as they'd like it to be. Its not a big deal, they don't have to march in the Pride Parade or anything! Lol. I will recognise that there has been the odd guy who says "straight" but when we give them a go, turns out to be worth the try anyway.... but I still can't understand the point of hiding when no one can see you. So anyway, the question wasn't about profiles, it was about mm sex, right? Lol. Well you only have to ready my profile to know what I think about that! ;) I wouldn't call it "the wild side" tho..... maybe the "hotter side"..... nadi xx
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hungbimaster
18 years ago
Kiss, From a guy's perspective I'm with you all the way there. Playing with couples where the woman enjoys seeing her guy with another guy, anf the guy enjoys seeing her with another guy is one tof the most sensual combinations around. It isn't about being bi or gay - it is all about creating and playing in an erotic and sensual environment. Forget the labels - just go for the fun :)
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RHP User
18 years ago
Labels are crudd, I am acccording to societies labelling system Bi Sexual but I prefer to see my self as Non Specific. I am attracted to the person non their pink bits, which allows me the flexibillty to be able to sample all the oookies in the jar. It allways amuses me when * so called str8 guys * view my profile, I mean if ur * allegedly str8 * then why on earth would u click on a Male profile in the first place much less read the contents. Lust and passion have no limits, my advice for all those so called * str8 bois * out there is this, get over your fear of being labelled and jump in the deep end and have a go. After all worse case senario is this - I tried it and found it wasnt for me. Happy bOnKinG !!!
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RHP User
18 years ago
perhaps we need new classification "straight but enjoys cock " anyother suggestions?
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RHP User
18 years ago
AS a hetro male, I havnt yet reach boundries..In the right atmosphere and if the ppl were right I would go with it. How can you knock I guess if you havnt tryed it...Need to find a limit somwhere I guess. If wasnt for me well Im sure the 3rd or 4th party would understand. After all it all about respect.. Great topic and great views from all SunsetSuperman
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twowithnolimits
18 years ago
sometimes its not just the guys who have straight profiles, just as often the couples have a "straight" man and a "bi" female..then the guy emails separately and tells us how much he wants to suck cock and drink cum from a pussy and maybe try anal and..... OK idea #1 for new category "im an adult but i am scared of what people think", #2 " i have been playin with guys since primary school, but i am petrified my wife will find out, especially about her brother, #3 i will say im bi if it improves my chances of getting at a pussy because the ratio of men to women here is ~1000:1 Seriously guys grow some balls say it how it is ....you ARE bi, or you ARE curious, then you can define your limits if necessary..oral only, giving only, etc etc This is an adult site after all. I discovered many years ago that there are almost as many women wanting to watch two guys together as there are men wanting to watch two women...ok guys put your hand up if you wanted to see two women together.... now do the sums... Now being one for fair play and equal relationships i decided it was only right that i try and deliver that which she wants, and my notorius past stands testament to the fact i am a pussy preferring man! Truth is it wasnt always easy and it wasnt/ isnt always fun, but you know what, by making the effort a few times i have found the combinations and stimulations and eroticism in a bedroom full of people just explodes when everyone is bi.. We have massive social programming that says guys together is bad girls together is good...bollocks people together is good.. oh yeah and as a couple we always love the one that says we want to meet bi girls but we cant meet you becuase your man is bi...go figure....so for the phobics..just cos the guy is gay doesnt mean he is going to have the hots for you..and just becuase a guy says he is bi doesnt mean he will object to only playing with your wife or gf, remember he has one of those too ;-) So who is going to reword there profile now? Paul p.s. so ladies if you want your man broken in you know where to find us.....
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RHP User
18 years ago
In a nutshell, I believe that given this day and age...We are becoming more and more aware and accepting of peoples own diverse sexual preferences, and the need (and right) to explore and express our individuality. What bugs me a bit, is that there are still alot of die-hard dinosaurs still roaming the earth who believe that it is sacrilegeous to think impure and demonic thoughts of a man sucking another guys hot and hard throbbing cock. Well let me just say that it makes my cock erect just to write that.....LOL!!!! So I'm possibly going to burn in hell along with alot of the other 'Straight' 'Heterosexual' men from this site, and possibly about 70% of the male population in the world! Phew!!!......Ok, I'm composed and refreshed again.....Burning in hell for eternity is such a small price to pay!! What really peeves me though, are the homophobic dick-wads that go around 'poofta bashing and slanging'. They are frustrated closet homosexuals and are in deep denial and in need psychiatric treatment badly. RHP has alot of really nice people on this site and it is good to chat to everyone here. I don't think that having our sexual preference profiles shown as 'Straight' and then coming on to a same sex person is a bad or perverse thing to do at all. It is very normal and natural to be curious! After all we are all multi dimensional and multi faceted individuals who have the ability and right to change our minds and or to experiment with different things that come our way. It is good to be a healthy pacifist and to live and let live......As long as all of your encounters are clean and discreet and you respect you and your partners anominity........Go for it!!!!
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RHP User
18 years ago
Well i personally am straight nad dont look at gay or bi or whatever. I have known alot of gay guys in my life and they are not something to be feared or to poke a stick out. We are after all flesh and blood every one of us. Now on my profile i have straight as i have had a male experience once before and didnt enjoy it at all. On the other hand if it is oral ( another guy sucking me) i have to be in the mood for it but i personally dont get off sucking another guy. Maybe one day i may try again or it may happen on the spur of the moment. I am very shy in this area so would never initiate the contact. So after all that dribble I consider myself to be straight and need alot of things to click before going the other way (which rarely happens) so putting straight on my profile was in my opinion the right thing to put. I am not phobic around guys but being a shy guy it takes a while for me to open up so any couples who are interested in chatting a bit more about it , feel free to contact me.
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RHP User
18 years ago
It's as hot as ffm to a guy for me. But the thread has turned from identifying yourself emphatically to ppl just wanting to explore and maybe some willing go for it and others who just wanted the fantasy. Which is fantastic!...lol.. I'm "over" the experienced wankers.....the day I know it all is the day I'd rather be dead! Thanx Mutual, great topic! Stay SnS and sexy! xx
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RHP User
18 years ago
Hey there guys. Being a fully fledged bisexual guy, I found it invigorating to find this web site as it opened my eyes to just how many of us are out there. So to have been with a few couples that claim to be straighter than my ruler when I was at school, dont knock it till ya tried and to those have taken that leap of faith and indulged congrats. Back to the topic, its amazing what a little bit or arousal and a gentle touch can achieve if the guy is but isnt that way inclined. But remember not to cross boundaries as thats not nice. Have fun getting laid all Rob
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RHP User
18 years ago
yes.. im so happy and full on gayish.. oh .. you dont mean the actual engilish meaning of the word gay? you mean.. homo?/ oooh.. right.. *tugs his neckline* *gulps* righto.. :P lmao Nah.. Gay, Bi.. Bi-curious are just human beings just like the rest of us "norms".. it just they prefer their sexual preferences. Just like we prefer our own taste in music. Most important of all.. so long you are happy with your own preferences.. you have no need toshunaway from the Bisexuals and the homosexuals and the lesbians. They aint that evil/dirty ya know Sides.. the real Lesbians/Bisexuals/Homosexuals.. knows whens teh limit and how to chase the right person. They wont "try" to get into your pants if they knew you aint inclined that way. They sense it off very well tho... I've known a lot of bi/homo/les friends in my life.. they come.. and the go.. some stay to be my good close friends.. in fact.. Im more comfortable being best friends with a lesbian.. only cos of two reason.. 1) I get along well with females than i do with males... 2) and i never need to worry about nervousness and stutter :P Anyways.. there ya have it oh to answer the original thread question: Im str8 :P and dont give a shit wether you are or not :P
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playfulhorse
18 years ago
What i have found is that this is an endless situation. There will always be people too afraid to be themselves for fear of others judgements and there will always be people who will find the actions of others offensive or repugnant. All i can say is F@&k the ones who want to point fingers, just be yourself, and most importantly accept others for who they be too. Peace out :)
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RHP User
18 years ago
is that a bum? pmsl
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RHP User
18 years ago
Life has a lot of choices , it also allows a human being the ability to change their mind and therefore affect a decision. Understand others and allow them to develop slowly , not be given a label or have them make a choice they are not ready to make. Me personally , if a lady wants to watch me suck her guy , or do I mean have fun with here partner , then it adds to the excitement. Have fun all.
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RHP User
18 years ago
Great topic Rock, and yes i agree with most of the ladies here, I think it is hot as hell to see guy action, even better in group situation where it just happens, lips lock on cocks, hands take hold.....basically as long as it feels good....hell just do it
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