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Straight men: why do you like straight MMF or group?

April 25 2014

I'm making a few assumptions in this topic. I'm assuming the readers are straight men and that they like MMF, or any other situation where there is heterosexual sex with more than one man with the same woman at once. MMMF, MFMF, gangbang, whatever. I understand that not all straight men like sex with women with other men present. I also know that some of those who do aren't necessarily straight. So if you're a bi or curious man, my question is not really for you, unless you can answer as though the MMF (or similar) has absolutely no male-male contact and the main source of your arousal is the woman or women present. Pretend you have a switch and for this MMF you've completely switched off being bi. Questions: what is it about MMF or more that you like? What's the appeal? If you do it, either as a single or with your female partner, why do you? If it's just a fantasy at this point, why does it turn you on? Anything that's straight involving at least one woman and more than one man is fair game. Whether you're into being cuckolded while you watch, or bukkake or creampies or DP. Or maybe you have a straight friend who joins you and the missus and the sex is all very gentle and vanilla, it just happens to be two of you there at once. What's your thing and why? I started this topic because I think I know why women and bi guys might enjoy sex with multiple guys but I'd like to hear from the straight men. There is another topic going at the moment that got me thinking so I started this one so as not to take the other off-topic. I didn't know where to put it as it's a 'guy asking', but I'm also 'asking guys' and it's not 'secret men's business'... so I just put it here and hoped for the best. ;)

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    so I thought I could answer. You said you assumed that the readers of this liked MMF. Personally, I don't. Never have, and most likely never will. Not into having males anywhere in my vicinity when I'm having sex.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    think its part of the dominating. feeling of getting a high or a kick from it hard to explain I suppose. I find the idea a bit exciting because for me it would be new because I haven't tried it. very hard to firstly find and establish chemistry with a couple, well for me anyways and it would be nerve wracking. so I guess its the unknown which would turn me on the most, if that makes sense

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I LUV watching another guys cock enjoying my wife, and I'm straight. She enjoys being dominated by two or more guys at once. MFM play for her allows her to enjoy her submissive side.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Slippery halo, It's Mado, I am straight as that I am not sexually attracted to men, having MFM is something Tara and myself enjoy a lot, it's not everything sex brings for us we have that now, but having another guy join with us really stirs the passion and what turns me on is that Tara really enjoys having two men fuck her, shit she fucks us, she really knows how to look after her guys cocks and we fellows love that and enjoy returning the favour. I don't feel crossing swords (so to speak) is a bi or gay thing at all, just like a hand shake, we are grown ups. I feel a bit sorry that guys see it as threatening, because gentlemen it's fucking awesome too have a lady in absolute Euphoric passion, shit done right MFM we all disappear, no one knows where they are anyway, physical just takes us to another dimension. Don't have to be bi or gay too enjoy sex, MFM is just mind-blowing passionate sex that need three lovers. Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    .. not who's standing behind me... Being straight can be respected surely... ?

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    12 years ago

    That wasn't the question....it's got nothing to do with being with gay or straight....OP ask why do men like it, what is it about MFM that gets them going? I'm watching this tread with interest......

  • MrJingles

    MrJingles

    12 years ago

    I imagine your inbox will be quite full now with offers...lol Oh and the answer the question - they are just so much more fun with an extra in the mix :) Quoting 'madotara69' Slippery halo, It's Mado, I am straight as that I am not sexually attracted to men, having MFM is something Tara and myself enjoy a lot, it's not everything sex brings for us we have that now, but having another guy join with us really stirs the passion and what turns me on is that Tara really enjoys having two men fuck her, shit she fucks us, she really knows how to look after her guys cocks and we fellows love that and enjoy returning the favour. I don't feel crossing swords (so to speak) is a bi or gay thing at all, just like a hand shake, we are grown ups. I feel a bit sorry that guys see it as threatening, because gentlemen it's fucking awesome too have a lady in absolute Euphoric passion, shit done right MFM we all disappear, no one knows where they are anyway, physical just takes us to another dimension. Don't have to be bi or gay too enjoy sex, MFM is just mind-blowing passionate sex that need three lovers. Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'madotara69' having another guy join with us really stirs the passion and what turns me on is that Tara really enjoys having two men fuck her, shit she fucks us ... it's fucking awesome too have a lady in absolute Euphoric passion I've been in MFM's where both guys have said the same thing. For me me it has nothing to do with domination, which is something I'm not into. I love being overwhelmed and having my body enveloped though. It makes me feel small, but safe and secure. And bi or straight, a DP drives some men wild!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I'll paraphrase the answer I gave there: If the sight of another man's body doesn't turn a guy on in the slightest, I can understand it when he is not interested in a MFM threesome. However if his actual concern is that the other man might try something while standing behind him, I'd call him homophobic.

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    12 years ago

    Spot on Meander......

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    The song list playing in the back ground, a four post bed, with some Island fabric fashioned as curtains, low light and mirrors over the timber rails looking back at the three of us in passion. She lays on her back her legs parted, a finger slid into her bum and a thumb in her honey pot, gently massaging her inner love spots, he knelt over her, massaging her breasts as she drew his cock into her mouth she forced herself to take it into her throat, clenching my hand as she did so,writhing with uncontrollable muscle spasms the wetness running and dripping off my hand. Then we fucked............ For hours That is why MFM is a mans fantasy come true. The fucking is a bit naughty to say in just a few words. But yeah it can drive a man wild.

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    12 years ago

    Ok Mado/Tara, I think you need to be leaving the milk crate for me. I promise to wear my knee high high heel boots whilst I'm sneeking a peek......😈

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Jay_Me' .. not who's standing behind me... Being straight can be respected surely... ? Of course it is to be respected. But the question is why do you like straight MFM. What is that turns you on about it. From past posts I know you have done the cuckold thing while the husband watches you bang his wife. Now why do you like that? Surely part of it is the fact that you are dominating the other man by being with his wife while he watches?

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Lovinit28' Ok Mado/Tara, I think you need to be leaving the milk crate for me. I promise to wear my knee high high heel boots whilst I'm sneeking a peek......😈 But must stay on topic, oh hang on.........slippery halo did say "whatever" Those boots were made for walking and walking they should do, walking straight through our door they should do. Rude to have you outside in the cold. Just got too love this place, bahahahaha

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Hmm, so some find a sexy power element in it. For others the power thing isn't emphasised and it's more about two men joining forces to give the fortunate woman hedonistic pleasure, where it's sex among equals, just three instead of two. So, for those who haven't answered yet, which does it for you? Is it a sort where there's some element of power, humiliation or objectification? (Cuckhold, creampie/bukkake, BDSM, role play)? Or the 'making love with three' as equal partners?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'slippery_halo'two men joining forces to give the fortunate woman hedonistic pleasure, where it's sex among equals, just three instead of two.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    yeah especially where the term hedonhisdick, could have just been said, a simple blowjob

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Lovinit28' I promise to wear my knee high high heel boots Do perks like these often come with MMFs? Because if they do, I might just need to rethink some stuff...

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    12 years ago

    Hey slippery,Personally it is a feeling of reassuring confidence that I can give pleasure not just to any woman, but another man's woman who would otherwise be unattainable because of her attachment, knowing it is about what I have to offer in skills and sensitivity. It is also the trust which he places in me to treat her with the respect she deserves.ET xox

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    No' not at all a cuckold and when I say I dont want to be thinking of what the guy behind me might do. I mean it. I never put myself in that position anyway because I always make it clear thats not my go. Dominating the other man ? dont think so, never ever thought of it that way and never seen a man , BF or husband carry on that way. ? MsD.. Lovinit.. Because Im a straight male that does not automatically make me homophobic. That is a generalisation. I really dont care what another man's persuasion may be and I respect his right to choose, as long as the respect is returned' there's never been a problem and I dont expect there to be.. To answer the question on why I like a MFM.. I like to see a woman getting off with the attention of 2 males. It is my belief not all women can go though with it, so when you do find someone ' she usually lets herself get lost in the moment.. Not as exhausting as 1 on 1 so 2 males have plenty of energy to offer her..

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Jay_Me' To answer the question on why I like a MFM.. I like to see a woman getting off with the attention of 2 males. It is my belief not all women can go though with it, so when you do find someone ' she usually lets herself get lost in the moment.. Not as exhausting as 1 on 1 so 2 males have plenty of energy to offer her.. Thanks for explaining Jay. I agree that having a backup male there does take off some of the pressure to perform. So another vote for the not-really-into-the-cuckhold-dynamic. If there are any more cuckholds reading this, now is your time to shine! haha

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'slippery_halo' Quoting 'Jay_Me' Not as exhausting as 1 on 1 so 2 males have plenty of energy to offer her.. Thanks for explaining Jay. I agree that having a backup male there does take off some of the pressure to perform. Backup or fluffer?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    You never fail to find a negative...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    My boyfriend likes MMF because he just likes to see me being fucked by other guys and LOVING it. He isn't homophobic but doesn't play with the other guy. If the two cocks accidentally touch whilst I'm blowing them both at the same time he doesn't mind.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Totally get it. Just fucking totally. - Posted from rhpmobile