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Strange attractions

May 25 2015

I'm somewhat thin in the hair department, a fact I naturally put down to high levels of testosterone. (I mean, what else could it be ?). It doesn't bother me at all &, like many, I simply clip very short the little that remains. It's also a well known fact that women find bald men more attractive - if you don't believe me, just ask any bald man. So, just throwing it out there (to the ladies) - do you care one jot, or is it entirely incidental to the bigger package, er, picture, er, you know what I mean ? On a few occasions now, I also been complimented on having nice hands. The first time around, I figured it was some weird observation. After it's happened a few times now - I guess there must be something in it - but I still remain somewhat baffled by it. Now I've never really considered hands something that I'd pay too much attention to in a woman - much less comment on them - I confess I'm drawn to the more traditional attributes. What other not-so-obvious body parts do you ladies particularly note when assessing a fella's physical appearance ?

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  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I look at hands ! I also look at shoes ! I don't mind hair/bald/thinning just not someone clinging onto said hair and growing it long or combing it over ! I also like eyelashes ( thick) and full lips :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Love a good set.... Full bottom lip is even better, 😛

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Me says next time you go to a fancy dress party, wear a wig. You will be surprised what a full head of hair can do. But I am with you and personally I can't wait till comb overs come back, pure class if you can hold a head like that high, like you're god's gift. That's sexy LOL Once you get them by the eye it really does not matter what you are sporting.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Smell!!! A guy that smells good is like a drug for me! And if you wear Millions by Paco Rabanne OMG look out because you are not safe ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    People like.... what they like....... ...and then, Attraction can take over and can totally override most of those 'like' factors. However, you stated " It's also a well known fact that women find bald men more attractive - if you don't believe me, just ask any bald man." IF the fact is so well known.... I'm curious as to why you asked. DG

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Butts, hands and smile. And build, I like looking at guys with a stocky build. Personality is what wins me in the end . . . could be something to do with my mum telling me all those years that beauty is only skin deep (the platitude for the least pretty girl in the family)

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    Arms, I have a real thing for arms....ok I also love a guy that smells divine, oh then there's lips, oops nearly forgot eyes too, fuck then there's a gorgeous chest, Yep bums are nice too..... I just love men, beautiful, divine creatures they are, now if they could just learn to keep their mouths shut....joking btw, before I get dragged over the hot coals, I really do love everything about men....💋

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    when i read this reminded me of my dear old Dadthe stories of growing up in Europe with no availability and more so couldn't afford hair cream so substituted for olive oil'in the late 50's and 60's it was the norm to have a hair cut every Fridaydress in their Sunday best and try their hand at the local dance/church hall always remember i would laugh and scoff at the ritual and the smell of vinegar in lieu of shampoo he who passed with a full head of hair.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I just love smooth brown skin,lightly muscled skin...backs ..backs to rest my cheek on and skin to lick and kiss...hair,hair to run my fingers through..arms,arms to hold me ...hands..hands with spatulate fingers...scent..the scent of man,fresh sweat..saltiness on skin..thighs,long muscled thighs...my hands love exploring a mans body..up above and down below..stroking ,kissing all those erotic and secret places xxFreya

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I really like bald guys precisely for their extra testosterone! I think it just adds to their overall virility/masculinity. Hazel or brown eyes, long eyelashes, hairy chests (I love furry bits on men!) I too like nice hands, and am with Freya on the smooth skin thing...resting my cheek between his shoulder blades and stroking the silky skin down his back...mmm. I love guys who smell nice too but have also been known to stick my nose into a particular armpit, relishing that 'boy' smell of tangy sweat, usually from having sex all afternoon. :) The best attractants though are a great smile, a twinkle in the eye, confidence, intelligence and the ability to make me laugh. If a guy has all of these he's practically perfect (at least for me.) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Positive & happy energy - nothing is more contagious. And adds unimaginable spices to the situation.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Totally agree!

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    But have a huge fetish for hands!I prefer older men so grey, bald etc rockand deviant eyes ;) need good hands to hold me down, slap my arse...and other delicious delights :)

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Anyone been bungee jumping, stood with the ground way below your feet then to tell yourself to fall forward, you do and the ground rush effect generates sensory overload. That was the first time l experienced sensory overload, shaving my head for the worlds greatest shave was my second experience and writing this my third, as a newbie and first post, leaving the platform and no turning back. For years l was hiding or in denial of being folically challenged, grew my hair and had big sideburns and goatee to compensate (distract from looking towards the top of my head) and wear caps that l call "my rugs" that only come off inside at home. Reading the question and comments l found encouraging perhaps inspiring thank you. l feel that before accepting something there's a need to be comfortable about it, understand and weigh, sounds like being and embracing bald is better then denial, limbo or the comb over. I found a couple of other comments interesting, l didn't realise women look at hands and obviously didn't pick up on what was being said the couple of times ladies commented on my hands and l'll have to get me some 'Millions'. Cheers

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'sammyfunxo' Smell!!! It's been way too long since I've experienced the sexiness that is the smell (and look) of a man just out of the shower...

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Exactly what Freya said.....men are divine, love everything about their bodies. I quite like guys who are a lttle eccentric......

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Welcome to the fora Adam xxFreya

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Loads of things, various lil individual quirks and idiosyncrasies that make me gulp. Recently events remind me of something I find strangely sexy ... when people have calves thick enough, that they struggle out of their skinny legged jeans, when in suddenly in a hurry.