Straw poll: Play together and/or apart

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  We always play together, well at least in the same room where we can see each other, so much more sexy that way :) Summur xoxoxo

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  we only kinda fo play together as a couple un less its another female and then mrsB might play alone with her. But we do also like to sit back and watch each other been play with the other person also..

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  Mr_MrsJones

  15 years ago

  For us it is about us as a couple so we like to play together and share the experience that way. However one of our big rules is 'never say never' and so we don't rule out any situation without at least considering it or trying it. There are some situations where solo play is a good thing and so we are open to them but they are the exception rather than the rule. Plus sometimes it is good to have an adventure by yourself because you can live it again when you tell the story to your partner later

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I was going to reply but Mrs S has said everthing I was going to say..... so I say Ditto. Mrs W xx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Though we are pretty much word for word a pair like sweetiepie2010.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  We play alone.I haven't come across a couple i'd feel comfortable with... basically.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  we play together and alone

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  playfulminx

  15 years ago

  It really depends what we're after at the time I guess? We certainly don't routinely meet and play on our own but if the right circumstance came up and we are honest about what we want to do, it's not a problem. We barely have time to meet couples these days so it's not likely we'd play separately with singles :| lolIf we are meeting couples though, our intention would be to meet and play together. Same place is fine. Same room isn't a must.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  First of all totally agree with Mrs S. We find it difficult to get away together for couple time due to work and family schedules. However when we do enjoy the cpl play immensely. Just love watching my man do it for another woman..... We have started doing solo plays with select people. Safety is a big issue for us.... We are enjoying all sorts to experiences.... And yes a great believer in saying "never say never" LOL! MRS SRFUN

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  The universale rule is: Partner swapping of committed couples same or seperate rooms. If you do it seperately at different times it is not swinging. Call it a open relationship/ playing around,,,,lets be honest here Swinging is reserved for couples play ......

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  We usually play together, but play alone if we both agree first that it seems reasonable at the time and only in certain settings, such as at a swingers club. Lately F tends to be more popular than M, I spose when you're hot, you're hot hehe

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' Open play or swinging....it really doesn't matter. Couples have the freedom of whatever kind of play they choose for their relationship. I don't see any value in splitting hairs or tagging or pigeon holing everything and putting it in a nice tidy box. Doesn't really matter to us what it's called. right now it's called FUN! :) Mrs S xx I'm with you, I think couples get to make their own rules between thsemselves, just the same as singles do. So long as everyone's open, honest and having a good time, who cares what it's called!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  we play together as we enjoy seeing each other with others, its a huge turn for us knowing we watching each other,and seeing the other enjoying the pleasure, but saying that we are open to all possibilties, if we found the right couple to enjoy we would make it a regular thing,and if it got to that well would try the idea of seperate rooms,and see if we could do it.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' Quoting 'swingersnsw' The universale rule is: Partner swapping of committed couples same or seperate rooms. If you do it seperately at different times it is not swinging. Call it a open relationship/ playing around,,,,lets be honest here Swinging is reserved for couples play ...... Open play or swinging....it really doesn't matter. Couples have the freedom of whatever kind of play they choose for their relationship. I don't see any value in splitting hairs or tagging or pigeon holing everything and putting it in a nice tidy box. Doesn't really matter to us what it's called. right now it's called FUN! :) Mrs S xx We often come across a couples profile start talking and the playing alone bit starts. We feel that we have been decieved and drawn into contact by false pretences and allways then have no interest in the bedroom with that couple again, if the same person approached us under a singles profile and stated they are married thats fine with us. They are being honest with us up front and the agreement within their marrage is their problem we are not going to judge. We will judge however on profile type at intial contact. All couples have the right to play how they want, but just dont call it swinging when it is not, You are right call it play, fun, etc when only one part of the couple plays and swinging when two or more couples play.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Same as sweetiepies, we would love to be able to play more together but its just impossible at times due to kids so a lot of times its one or the other, its not to say we are missing out, quite the contrary some of the stories of escapades when the other partner returns are most, well lets say "inspiring". just cant wait for the kids to be older so mummy and daddy can have more times away and not worry so much about the baby sitters

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Elektra and I like to play together for many reasons. The only exception to this would be is if we went to a party and we fancy some fun. Other wise outside of the party scene we play together as we enjoy seeing each others reaction to the fun that we are having with the people that we play with. One of the other reasons is that we dont play seperately like some couples on here is because only one of us can drive and so if one of us wants to go somewhere the other has to come (safety reasons, obviously). So there is no point with one of us playing and the other missing out. We want to know if any other couples out there have a similar situation to us? Linkin and Elektra.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  We are with you guys, allways swing as a couple same room even at a party or club. (otherwise it is not swinging) Safety is an important issue plus the way your lady is treated, together and same room gaurantee this.........outside this enviroment we feel we will not take the risk again. Well said Linkin and Elektra Quoting 'elektralink' Elektra and I like to play together for many reasons. The only exception to this would be is if we went to a party and we fancy some fun. Other wise outside of the party scene we play together as we enjoy seeing each others reaction to the fun that we are having with the people that we play with. One of the other reasons is that we dont play seperately like some couples on here is because only one of us can drive and so if one of us wants to go somewhere the other has to come (safety reasons, obviously). So there is no point with one of us playing and the other missing out. We want to know if any other couples out there have a similar situation to us?

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