Sugar Daddy's and Mummys

December 15 2013

Sugar Daddy's and Mummys, have you been one, are you one or are you looking for one? I my self have had a sugar mum, and I have also been a sugar daddy. I am interested in others interactions within this niche area. Have you felt a loss of power being sprinkled, or a gain of power by doing the sprinkling? My first sugar experience was at the age of 18, she was 40 and for me at the time very worldly. The year and a half that followed was an eye opening experience. The things I learnt in her company are with me even now. I thought I knew at the time what I was in for, which retrospectively I had no idea what was going to happen to me. She taught me to appreciate a woman's intellect first, then their figure. She taught me about anticipation, flirtation, intimidation and yet also to be a considerate lover. And the meaning of the word lover, not just sexual partner but a lover. She was the first to introduce me to BDSM, FFM, MMF, FFFFM, MMMMMMMF, couples, water sports, etc. She took me to see modern art, classical art, architecture, jazz, classical music, the list goes on. I attribute a lot of the man I am now to her. She took me on holidays abroad with her, showing me the world and helping me experience it differently then I had as a backpacker years later. And then a few years ago I just happened to repay these lessons to a young lady who was similar to me when I was younger. I had not at the start realised that I had become her sugar daddy, I was just happy to pay for the room or dinner or if we went out for the day whatever we got. I would enjoy taking her shopping as she would try on anything I asked and if she liked it I would buy it for her. It came to me when I left my wallet at my place when we went out to the taxi and she said I need my wallet to pay for the taxi. After that I started to take note of my spending. I am not complaining as I kept doing it but it was the realisation of what I had become that surprised me. I introduced her to things she had never heard of, Jade eggs, yoga, BDSM, a little fetish club in Melbourne ( some will know the place), snowballing, etc. Took her to places she had never been, the Louvre, NY, LA, Waikiki. She knew how to get a mans attention, but outside of her looks she hadn't realised she had more to offer. She had a way of getting me off really quick, yet she at the start she didn't understand that she could make it last a lot longer. Once she found the sensuality of making love, She slowed down and enjoyed exploring her self and our interactions. I openly encouraged her to talk about her fantasy's the way I had been encouraged all those years ago. I am still in contact with both women and catch up regularly. I am grateful for both women and the experience they gave me. Obbi "Autocunnilingus? Go fuck your self then!"

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Sugar Daddy: A rich, older man who gives money, gifts, etc., to someone (such as a young woman) in exchange for sex, friendship, etc..I think you don't qualify just yet. .But to answer your question: No, I haven't and I wouldn't.

  • Originalbadboy

    Originalbadboy

    12 years ago

    Me 28 she 18. I would believe that that would qualify but hey, that's my opinion. I would think 10 or more years is the standard but happy to be corrected. Obbi "The elephantitis of your ego is a very large problem!"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    50 shades? Story sounds eerily familiar.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    no, and no.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I don't know....your 'sugar daddy' experience just sounds like you were in a relationship and your girlfriend didn't want to pay her own way. You say that was a few years ago and you're only 30 now, so I'm assuming she was only young as well, so it's probably not surprising that she didn't have a lot of experience with BDSM or fetish clubs, and hadn't travelled much. And no, I have never had a sugar daddy and do not want one.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    But i can see the advantages.....there is a "dating" website by that name that attracts a lot of wealthy well travelled businessmen who just want a "date" be it for a single night or a week or a casual thing when they are in town. Feedback from someone who used it was that the guys were mostly independently wealthy and decent people looking for some companionship when they were in town. She found it successful for her needs as she was a full time student and wanted to be treated to a nice night out occasionally. Probably not something I'd ever feel comfortable doing, but then I have issues around men paying my way. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You were still a child. It's a bit disturbing to be honest and then she supposedly introduced you to all that group sex.... That's abuse really. As an adult she should know better. Seriously, you look at an 18 year kid.... And I see a kid not a man. That is not attractive at all. :(

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It's not really Mes, it's the fact that your posts are very hard to believe, actually I would say impossible to believe.

  • Originalbadboy

    Originalbadboy

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' It's not really Mes, it's the fact that your posts are very hard to believe, actually I would say impossible to believe. I do understand that, so I ask you this. What have you done, or been told you can't do as it is impossible? People said that splitting an atom was at first impossible then they said it would destroy the earth. If Einstein had of listened to them I hate to think of where or how we would be today. I would have said had I not experienced these myself to be more improbable than impossible. Now rocking horse shit, that my dear meeks, is impossible, sorry highly improbable! Now what if by some circumstance my life or someone else's mirrored that of Shakespeare but in the current millennium? Could that be impossible? Not really, just highly Improbable. Obbi "I see your Unicorn and raise you an Alicorn!"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Is a sugar mummy another name for a cougar, or is it one's nature to nurture and the other's nature to devour?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'd much rather devour than nurture 😈 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    at my age,I am more an Equal Granny

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Marriage?? Man works.....gives his paycheck to the woman of the house, gets sex in return??? Or is that prostitution?? :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Obbi, You are a very very lucky man to have had such an experience to learn from, enjoy and savour in years to come. Only 10 years ago going by your age. Did you ever stay friends. Like Meeka, part of me thinks 18 is a bit young for this sort of engagement. I have 20 year old son now and can't imagine him in this situation for a few more years.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Are you trying to set a record for the number of topics started in a one-month period?! DG

  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    12 years ago

    its not for me

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    .....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Are you trying to set a record for the number of topics started in a one-month period?! DG Obbi's got a bit of work to do to catch up to wiccan_beltane who set a challenge of one new thread per day for a month in Sep 2012... . Lol Obbi, I've just been looking through your posts... you have been a bad boy haven't you? Cheers...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Perhaps OBB simply feels he needs to recover lost ground and is working hard to "re-brand"..... .....after his grand and inglorious entry into RHP saw him caught out using other people in his photos. HE referenced shakespeare... Quoting 'Originalbadboy'Now what if by some circumstance my life or someone else's mirrored that of Shakespeare but in the current millennium? Could that be impossible? Not really, just highly Improbable.Shakespeare wrote stories of others and presented them in performance piece. OK. Paging Dr Freud to reception.... Dr Freud to reception please..... DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Or whether he's started 100 threads in the past month, no-one has to participate, no-one HAS to comment.And Freud might say OBBI is deluded and dangerous, he might say he's got a great imagination, or he might say he's been very lucky to have had such wild sexual experiences at such a young age. And really, 18 is the age of consent so why is it a big deal he was introduced to BDSM then. People who live the lifestyle say they knew even when they were in primary school that they had "unnatural" desires. I enjoy your stories OBBI. Fuck, what was the question? Anyway enjoy your kinks

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    well sugar daddy or sugar mummy I think either would have been fantastic. unfortunately I was not so lucky. I don't think I could be either I am missing the quintessential part for being a sugar daddy, the buckets of money.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I put out for water !

  • wingman2014

    wingman2014

    12 years ago

    Isnt the age of consent 16 ? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    I can afford you come here, I pump my own!!! Water dear.... 😊and I can freeze some so you got ice water too!!! Ahuh yerrrrr baby..... 😘

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'WildSong' Or whether he's started 100 threads in the past month, no-one has to participate, no-one HAS to comment.And Freud might say OBBI is deluded and dangerous, he might say he's got a great imagination, or he might say he's been very lucky to have had such wild sexual experiences at such a young age. And really, 18 is the age of consent so why is it a big deal he was introduced to BDSM then. People who live the lifestyle say they knew even when they were in primary school that they had "unnatural" desires. I enjoy your stories OBBI. Fuck, what was the question? Anyway enjoy your kinks I really struggled to know what to say last night Wild, your post says it well. . LOL DG, I saw all that kerffuffle about Obbi's pics. Meh.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    Legally yes.....morally? FFS I'm nearly 42 and still think anyone younger than 35-ish is still wrong for me!!! Kinda weird really....at 16 I was sleeping with a 34yo (shrugs) go figure. Older men just do IT for me....if however there's a under 35yo out there who thinks he can shatter my complete belief that under 35's lack genuine respect and caring in a casual aexual relationship with an older woman such as myself step up now or forever hold your piece. Gauntlett thrown down and OP pls don't put your hand up....no thanks.

  • wingman2014

    wingman2014

    12 years ago

    Im curious, will you be requesting a seat next to a senior on your flight down here? Never too old to join the mile high club lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' Older men just do IT for me....if however there's a under 35yo out there who thinks he can shatter my complete belief that under 35's lack genuine respect and caring in a casual aexual relationship with an older woman such as myself step up now or forever hold your piece. Hahahahaha... too funny Indy! Perfect! I love it... I can't begin to describe the visuals!!!... Please form a tidy line to the right fellas...

  • Originalbadboy

    Originalbadboy

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' Legally yes.....morally? FFS I'm nearly 42 and still think anyone younger than 35-ish is still wrong for me!!! Kinda weird really....at 16 I was sleeping with a 34yo (shrugs) go figure. Older men just do IT for me....if however there's a under 35yo out there who thinks he can shatter my complete belief that under 35's lack genuine respect and caring in a casual aexual relationship with an older woman such as myself step up now or forever hold your piece. Gauntlett thrown down and OP pls don't put your hand up....no thanks. (Said tounge in cheek with big shit eating grin) Well Indy double standards are better than none! Thats ok, very few have got me to say my safe word... And a big hello to you hunter. I see you've kept the cock and balls ;-}. As for my safe word its still the same.Who are you out to torture now? Obbi"True love is hard to find, sometimes you think you have true love and then you catch the early flight home from San Diego and a couple of nude people jump out of your bathroom blindfolded like a goddamn magic show ready to double team your girlfriend..." - MM

  • twowithnolimits

    twowithnolimits

    12 years ago

    My then gf and i were hitting swingers parties at 18, and a number of the women were considerably older and did i find their education or marathon sessions in any way bad, ........LOL And as for not wanting your kids to do it... it is a very western concept to practically equate 18 year old males to helpless gullible infants... in most parts of the world they would be working men with families by then......let go the apron strings and never ever try to second guess another human being...of any age... so yeah i believe you OBB Paul

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Interesting "development" :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'WildSong' And really, 18 is the age of consent so why is it a big deal he was introduced to BDSM then. People who live the lifestyle say they knew even when they were in primary school that they had "unnatural" desires. Age of consent in this country is 16 years for most states. The exceptions are South Australia, where the age of consent is 17 and in Queensland anal sex is 18.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Too old to be a sugar baby, too young to be a sugar daddy... will just have to sit in the corner and be sweet all on my little lonesome. SG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Amicus75' Too old to be a sugar baby, too young to be a sugar daddy... Always thought (assumed?) that sugar daddies and mummies would have to be old enough to be the parents of their young protégées. .*Hands Amicus a spoonful of sugar to make the bitter pill go down*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Mesmerised' Quoting 'Amicus75' Too old to be a sugar baby, too young to be a sugar daddy... Always thought (assumed?) that sugar daddies and mummies would have to be old enough to be the parents of their young protégées. .*Hands Amicus a spoonful of sugar to make the bitter pill go down* Thus my point Lady Mes... you and I had the same assumption/thought on the age bracket thus the exclusion. SG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    She expected you to pay? That sucks. No, I'd never be a sugar momma, my kids take up enough of my money. And no, I'd never have a sugar daddy. It embarrasses the hell out of me when someone spends their hard earned money on me.