RHP

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Sugar dating?

January 31 2019

Hi there. I am looking for clarification on the Sugar dating criteria in profiles. I feel my initial response must be wrong, what am i missing, this seems to suggest gifts and or money for company. I would even go so far as to think attractive younger women are willing to broaden their acceptance criteria im exchange for this. Am i off the mark here? - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • Mister_Miss

    Mister_Miss

    7 years ago

    Our concept of sugar dating is the guy offers experiences or different situations, that would not necessarily be engaged with in normal day to day life. The person entering into a sugar date should propose these experiences, without any pressure from outside, and certainly it is not about material gains, but girls do like to be valued.

  • horneycouplewa

    horneycouplewa

    7 years ago

    I think you have this site confused with another. I thought it wasn't allowed. But I know little :)

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    7 years ago

    WA Couple.... its common.... if it wasn't allowed then it wouldn't be a preset for the "Seeking" options.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    7 years ago

    There's a couple of dudes doing it up here in Cairns..... "just a nice way of saying you're an escort"..... verbatim, their words not mine .... interesting lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Not sure about it not being allowed. I mean they have the option listed here.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    So I if we are thinking its not allowed does that imply money and or gifts in exchange for favours? I.e. prostitution? I dont want to offend anyone thats why i wanted clarification. Put it this way. I dont contemplate any involvement with a profile with that associated with it.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    7 years ago

    OP, most sugar daters are very clear and upfront on their "payments".... its not illegal or not allowed and pretty simple if you're not happy to "pay" in the way they want..... dont pursue a meeting with them

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    7 years ago

    Mr_Miss..... as you're the only respondent's that actually state they're after a sugar dating experience..... please expand on your part in the scenario?? You've stated you'd receive an experience but what do you have to give ib return??

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 years ago

    If all parties are happy in the sugar bowl, with the arrangements (sugaring) in place, then who is anyone to judge. Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    It's not every man who suits the position. It's not an escort position either considering the attention is limited to a specific 'daddy' rather than spreading the favours around, as I understand the theory. I'm too sour for to be a sugar baby! Peachy

  • sugar_vanessa

    sugar_vanessa

    7 years ago

    Every arrangement is different, just like other relationship types, so it's best to just ask the person. Everyone wins with a quality arrangement :)

  • horneycouplewa

    horneycouplewa

    7 years ago

    It's here in the seeking is it...learn something new everyday here (almost)I guess if you don't seek it you don't know. My point was I thought it was a similar situation to prostitution but instead of money was other forms of payment, like rent etc.....No judgement here. Which I gather is a way of being justified legal on sites. Please don't get all fricken heady on me LOL >>>> I get it I get it

  • Howling_Izzy

    Howling_Izzy

    7 years ago

    Sugar Dating is best described as mutually beneficial, no strings attached dating. It is the fastest growing type of dating and has seen explosion in participants mainly due to the acceptance and popularity of sugar daddy dating websites. It has been covered extensively in the media on shows like Dateline, 20/20, Dr. Phil, Tyra Banks, CNN, and in publications ranging from New York Times to the Huffington Post. Sugar dating’ is upfront, casual dating. Men and women express want they want out of the relationship in terms of romance, fun, adventure and fulfillment of each others needs up front. Those needs could be the desire to feel young, sexy, attractive, wanted, important, or be the gratification of intimate pleasures which may or may not include sexuality. The Sugar Daddy’s ability to spend money on the dating experience and in the relationship is essential. This can come in any form including cash, clothes, computers, allowances, gifts, paying bills, tuition, cars, rent, puppies, or other gifts. Financial assistance or help through connections or teaching are, more often than not, part of the equation. Friendship and enjoyment of each others companionship is necessary for ongoing sugar dating. Spoiling by both parties in a mutually beneficial and uncomplicated arrangement is paramount.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 years ago

    Yes, I agree. It's an agreement between parties with both agreeing in an outcome. Yes, best to ask that person rather just assuming. Sometimes it is not just sex. There's companionship side of it too. Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Ok so it still feels uncomfortable. I guess its just not for me and i will stay clear of those profiles

  • sw1ng3rz

    sw1ng3rz

    7 years ago

    Think of Geoffrey Edelsten...... all the 20 something blond big boob girls aren’t with him for his personality lol. He provides them a lifestyle they provide him with ....

  • Hawt1

    Hawt1

    7 years ago

    I avoid these profiles also. I have come across something called MGTOW (men going their own way) on utube. Seems the women folk in the USA have pushed things far too much with expecting men to pay (Dates, sugar daddy, alimony, compensation for false me too claims, child support for unwanted pregnancies etc, etc, etc.) Many men there had a gutfull and are rejecting women in droves, avoiding the noose so to speak. Yet to have an opinion on it, so far I am a curious observer. I'm not going to comment on others sugar arrangements, that's their business.. just seems like another type of prostitution though.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    It's the American way...

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 years ago

    Our America, Lisa Ling does a really great documentary called "Sugar Daddies, Sugar Babies". It's an eye opener. Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    For me irrespective of the reasons for being on this site i hope to only meet people genuinely interested in meeting me. What comes from that will be a result of good old chemistry, charm or lust. Not because of an agreement to part with some kind of gift in advance.