Suitable night to go to swinging club

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Each night at a club can be totally different with different people. Never the same, so could be easy to go to a few and see how you enjoy it.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Beginner nights may or may not have lots of beginners. You are probably better off with experienced couples, as they are typically better at helping you ease into it, having been there, done that so to speak. When beginners are with beginners, you are not only navigating through your own anxieties, but the anxieties of the other beginner couples. I hope that helps. Enjoy your first time. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  there are lots of different clubs, groups and places but you need to find one that fits with who you are, what you want and the people you enjoy the idea of playing with.Sometimes, it can be a watch only to start with, to get the feel for the place, and the people who attend vary with each gathering, so a little luck of the draw.Do some research, ask people for their experiences regarding clubs in your area and then roll the dice.I hope it works out for you, it really is great when it all comes together with great people.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Simplez. Would you have someone drive you around in a car who has never driven before. Perhaps go with an experienced couple. But lay down the rules to that couple even though you go together that there are no expectation for you guys to do anything. Go early. See everything from the start. And just watch, chat listen and watch. Then go home and ask your paRtner if that is some thing you would like to venture in again or not. The next time you will know what it is really like and your off and running like naughty SWINGERS that you arrrrr.....

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  We are looking to attend our first club in brisbane soon and have picked a Saturday night to simply take in the experience first. Unlikely we'll get involved first visit as we are new to this and taking baby steps. As suggested prior, set boundaries and enjoy the experience........we can't wait to see what all the fuss is about 😍 - Posted from rhpmobile

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