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RHP

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Swingers clubs - unwritten rules.

December 29 2012

To all those regular swingers clubs attendees. I have a few questions. I have been to a swingers club in Sydney half a dozen times and each time I only saw pretty much the same thing. Although admittedly I may not have always been paying attention. By this I mean straight sex between men and women, maybe some anal, did watch some fisting last time too, obviously group sex and lots of girl on girl action. And some light spanking. But my question is.... 1. Although I don't think it is an explicit rule is there ever any male on male action? If there was do you think that would be a problem. 2. What about if a woman was walking around with a strapon. Does that happen? What if a woman was using a strapon on a man. Would that be acceptable? Assume it would be draw a huge crowd if used on another women! Lol 3. Is there ever any light BDSM play? I am asking these questions as a newbie to the scene. What have you seen in your experience that was outside the "norm" at a swingers club?

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I'll be there later on!!! ;-)- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Are you taking your strapon? I will take mine next Saturday I think.... Maybe a nice lady could use it on me ;-)

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    ..... yet! ;-)- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    So I will relate more my experience when I lived in Melbourne for a year - more clubs     Yes saw more male one on one action...loved watching it..got me hot...and it didnt appear to upset or offend anyone but thinking about it the guys were more discreet than the ladies one on one action.more like hiding in the dark, up the back sorta thing.     Must admit never seen a lady walk around with a strap on, on. But you know..hey Im sure someone would very much enjoy it being used on them, male or female ..guess you have to try that one for a more definite answer   Yep saw plenty of lite BDSM play and even heavier stuff but I also think that may come down to the kind of club that you frequent...but yes saw lots of that...again got me hot :)

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  • captainkaos

    captainkaos

    13 years ago

    apart from Arrows.....   If it does get you ladies off, may I suggest a group called Nude Bi Orgies.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Thanks for the tip CaptainKaos. Would love to know about more Bi parties. :p

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    INTERESTING TOPICI have never attended SWINGER PARTIES at this stage - am open tho.Of course I am sure there would be un-written codes/laws that is never spoken off.Will read for future education when ready to attend my first PARTY. :)

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Strap-ons are definitly a turn on. I like to see women doing men and women with them and preferably doing me!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    But I wish to god I had one for the gorgeous minx my date and I played with towards the end of the night!!! 😜- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    On her husband for leaving her upstairs by herself! We made it up to her ...- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • Bubbaj

    Bubbaj

    13 years ago

    i think most people just try to take minimum with them to these clubs....less to worry about :)the only real place with a locker is the couples place :)still havent seen a strap on at nbo though but heaps of male on male action out in the openi dont think that there are unwritten rules except for the whole no means no really. if there was a big offence in an open enviroment, it would be said upon arrival or expected of the person themself to walk away from things that they dont like.... well thats what i think anywho hoping to see you with the strapon in action one day meeks, i might learn a thing or two :P

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Helloooo! How have you been BubbaJ? I am going to CC next Saturday if you want to come along. I will bring the strapon so who knows what might happen. :-)- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Where and when are these held? And are they any good??? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Never seen MM at a club, nor strapons but I guess it might be used behind closed doorsSome clubs have a BDSM night, otherwise see good costumes but not much actual BDSMStill lots of other good stuff, its good when clubs have viewing eg chain over the door or large areas for group sex

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  • captainkaos

    captainkaos

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'Thanks for the tip CaptainKaos. Would love to know about more Bi parties. :p Well, If you need someone to hold your hand meeka, I would loooove to take you.   On the other hand, You mentioned that you are going to Couples Club next Saturday. I was thinking of going to go to a Custom Car Show at Philip Island but if you hold my hand, I would rather go to CC with you.

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  • Bubbaj

    Bubbaj

    13 years ago

    cc this saturday eh....soo tempting but i hate going by myself :P can you please tape everything for me hehehenbo, once a month and always at different places. it seems to me that its unlimited male booty everywhere lol ya know me.....im a voyeur so yes it was good lol

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I wore my strapon! And bonked a girl while she was on the swing. Woo Hoo! People watched. When the girl finished off by squirting all down my leg, I peeled the condom off and walking around the club lightly stroking my cock. Hehehe I almost convinced a guy to hope on my plastic dong but he was too shy, he did give it a wank though. Yeah yeah bebe. Just like that. :P

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    And who knew those paddles were not to play ping pong! My butt cheeks are on fire! :P

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    My rule would be always wear your thongs in the shower   ohhhh you mean sexual rules? silly me

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Never seen any strap on action at CC, sorry we missed it. Mrs C quite likes the swing (and the cross and paddles occasionally).Heard a rumour a few forum regulars were heading there last night but just the wrong weekend of the month for us :(Never seen any MM action there either. Some nights can be a bit bogan and I'm not sure how well dude on dude would go down with some of the guests.Mr C

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    At most of the swingers clubs it is actually a written rule :) No MM contact. It's just a part of our current social climate. FF bisexuality is seen by many members of society as attractive and MM bisexuality is seen as sick or vulgar. This is a big generalisation but holds true for many in society today including quite a few (strangely enough....) bisexual women. It's around if you look for it. NBO and a few others are around that buck the trend

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Not just any girl .... ;-)- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    May just have to get ourselves south of the border sometime soon:-)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    The most beautifulest girl in the world!

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  • captainkaos

    captainkaos

    13 years ago

    It would have been awesome to see Meeks but I just couldn't do it that weekend.

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