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TIMEWASTERS......FFS 0:) grr....

September 24 2009

Hi, _ I've not been in forums much..... but in my wanderings round rhp.... i see a lot of ppl talk about timewasters.... and it made me wonder.... _ Q. WHAT IS A TIME WASTER TO YOU _ Q. AND IF YOU DONT LIKE THEM.... Y DO YOU LET THEM WASTE YR TIME???? _ _ Am just curious........ guys.... i will post another one in girls ask if i can you for you to answer.... _ Thanks 2b :)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    people who waste their precious life on me, there are two i get great joy out of watching them waste their time on me as I loveee attention

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I'd says it is people who say they want to meet, and talk and talk but never have any intention of actually meeting up.Or people who arrange to meet, but then are no shows without any (or sufficient) notice.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Time wasters are the people who present themselves as one thing,,and are another.. If ur site says straight why do gay/bi people even bother. If ur lookin for fun why answer people who are seriously lookin to find a partner. Casual is casual, fun is fun and curious? well either try it or rack off i say.. I hate as a woman men who just wanna try u on for size then dont have the ettiquette to address u afterwards its rude ad not wanted in my books. if u took the first look maybe a 2nd or 3rd before meeting be honest. If you wanna be a rootem and bootem person  tell the person first...thats fair... anyways just my thoughts

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    People who write a zillion emails about seeing pics of my dick, asking "what are you into", arranging meetings with you and who finally agree on a venue and time, but then don't show up..... they are time wasters. People who send txts like "can you meet now" at 2.30am in the morning are in the same vein. These are nearly always people who appear desperate for a shag. when you think it through, nobody worth shagging is that desperate. They're obviously dud roots so I'm always glad to learn if someone is a timewaster. Hugs Gaz Hugs Gaz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Time wasters, My x husband and the 14 years i was with him..lol The only good thing out of it was my 3 darling children..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Oh i forgot to add, why i let him waste my time...Ummmmm, he did have a big dick, and he was good looking, but he was a right royal pain in the arse...and he didnt know how to use it...pmslI dropped him at a train station one day so he could go to work and never returned to him  and took the kids...The best way to not waste one more minute with a wife basher i say!14 years was enough..!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I've got a zero tolerance for domestic violence. If there is anything I'm passionate about, it's the sense of wrong I feel for people suffering from a bully in a domestic situation. If I see it, I report it to the police. No questions. You are a very brave woman, CI. Nobody should tolerate wife bashing for a minute, let alone 14 years. There are no grey areas here. Guys need to know.   Hugs Gaz

  • tamworthguy46

    tamworthguy46

    16 years ago

    Well said gaz........"spanks you"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    It takes a lot of strength to stand up and say I'm not going to take it anymore... from reading many of your posts, it sounds like you are so much happier now... as you deserve to be!HugsMrs P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Leesa hun....Good for you babe..oxoxox   timewasters..hmmmm..the last guy I was seeing for about 3 months..He said he didn't want to lose me..Then 2 weeks after he said that.He stopped answering my calls............pmsl..I have spent the last week wasting my time wondering why he not answering the phone...DEEERRRRRRRRRRRR ME!!  ..But wait!! I feel better now....Stuff the wanker!!! LOL   *happily skips around*   sweetpetite41

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I'm also passionate about this...who the fuck would lift a hand to a woman..   Karma comes to people who are bullies or are violent to women.   I have recently had a chat to my 7 year old son about this..not that he is violent, but no way do i want my offspring to develop a abusive attitude to women...no matter the circumstances...Ever !   Trev (very passionately)   Oh and on time wasters, people who don't read our profile (or know what's on their own profile) tend to be time wasters in the end.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Think it's been said. People on here that have a profile saying they want to meet then when they talk to you they say they would never meet anyone from online, huh....wake up.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I know it sounds a bit like I'm up on a PC high-horse (and going wayyy off-topic) - but how about making sure your kids are taught not to be abusive to anyone - male, female, TV, TS, alien, etc.Gender shouldn't really come into it - we've all seen those emo kids out there with the girlfriends who look bigger and tougher than, I'd say that is as equally defenceless as the damsel in distress. IMO only focusing on violence against women also contributes to the shame and problems in speaking out when men are victims of domestic violence (what would people want their sons to do if they (the son) was attacked by a woman?)*steps off soapbox*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I think the term 'time wasters' is curious.  Everyone has some specific requirements. If your profile is honest then only people interested in what you want should apply.  I think that there are a lot of people that figure if they reply to lots then they're bound to get one or two replies - a numbers game.  I have the right to pick and choose who I want to fuck.  If you don't read my profile and reply hoping that I'll respond then you're setting yourself up for a fall.  I also reserve the right to say no even once I've met you - it's very easy to pick people who are pretending or who have hidden agendas.  I'm through doing sympathy fucks and know that it's better up front to say what you think right from the start.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    this is to lovenlust72.. cause me and my wife haven't met up with any1 from online yet that makes us time wasters?   On the subject of domestic violence women make up the majority of the victims of it. Sure some men might suffer from it but seriously i don't think there is any comparsion.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I wish I could waste time with a sexy girl :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Way to go sweet,    I've been trying to organise a small gathering of couples for a weekend in coffs, looking for people of a similar age group with similar interests so all involved can feel comfortable and have a good time, after all that's why where here isn't it.  There seems to b a lot of people on this site that are not what they say though, and yes I do read all of a profile. So if your not into the lifestyle, don't say you are.  Anyway, thanks to the sexy couples that are for real, you know who you are.    Deano

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    They are the people who say they will meet and then chicken out, or they probably weren't going to meet anyway. Or the ones who exchange a few messages and then we get the phone call and then you discover they cant meet daytimes anyway, even after you have specifically said that it is daytimes, or even like the guy who exchanged many messages, phone calls and then at coffee proceeds to tell me he is very single and wants someone to go to the movies with etc!!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Xstatic87 I think what Lovenlust is really getting at is the people who are on here who say they want to meet up and yet they are happy to chat online or whatever forever, when they have no intention of meeting up with anyone, not necessarily him. It is okay not to meet anyone, but surely it would be more appropriate for people in that situation to at least put something in their profile, so that those who definitely want to meet know not to pursue that person/people. I dont believe he is referring to someone who intends on meeting people, but just hasn't found the right one yet. i am always sceptical of guys who have been on here for years and have never met anyone at all. I just dont want to spend hours corresponding to find that they have no intention of ever meeting anyone. they should be upfront and say so.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Gaz... I agree with you about the 2.30 am desperate = dud root indeed. CouplesInt.... Sad to hear you had to suffer a wanker of a time waster.... ppl like that are more than just a timewaster... Sweet... a real timewaster indeed.. y after 3 months... crazy.... yr better off wout him lol Hunnyslut.... hear hear. Blashphemer.. hahah.. me to mate.... pmsl Desserts.... right on both counts. But i especially agree with you on the curious part.... a timewasting comes down to both the presenters candidness and honesty, but also down to the accepting persons expectations.... Thanks to all the replies and interested to read any new ones. 2b

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    My time wasters is when you send someone a message actually take the time to come up with something good and different they just look at it like your just written " hello Lets Fuck" Grrrr,,,,,

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    From my experience on here, a lot of people see time wasters as anyone who doens't want to meet up and fuck after 2 emails.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    You got it wrong.Surely you meant after one email! :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    we joined up here becuase a certain forum user kept sending flirts etc to us and as we sent a message they wen quiet i find that a time and money waster... why pretend like you interested then run away as an effort it made

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    im not sure about the term. To be honest i think people use the term too broadly. and label most people in that category. I think most girls would think i am but i am genuinely wanting to meet and chat and see if things can happen before the meet obviously. I mean getting to know someone but not knowing your life story of each other is sufficient enough to know each other... i have delt with many women who want to but dont and then the vanish... so i think the term is used in too general terms

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    hello extreme fun from glen waverley how are ya i read your profile and im also looking for a bit of fun;) wat do u think?