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Talking during Sex

February 23 2011

Ever since I have been a kid I have tend to think out loud when I am concentrating on something be it at work I talk my way through a job and really amuse my workmates with some of the rubbish that I am talking, I do it playing footy as well as reading. Its not like I talk to myself just walking down the street. Anyway I also do it in the bedroom I basically give a running commentory of what is happing out loud. Most girls laugh and find it pretty funny and laugh. After watching a video of a session one girl could not stop laughing so much and wanted the video 2 show her mates. It is not always dirty talk just what ever is happening in a humrous way. However on the weekend one girl stopped me and told my to shut up she can not concentrate she needs to concentrate. Girls this one is for you is it a turn off or on for you?

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    It could be a little off putting yes. The sex talk is fine, that is not gonna annoy me at all but sheesh...dont think I would be too happy if you started compiling a grocery list or something. I may think you were not turned on or on the other hand...reciting the times tables may be a strategy to help make you last longer.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Nope I can't say I do, verbal is pretty minimal, the non verbal language tends to take over. The eyes say it all.Though a vocal lover is pretty hot.If your in each others head and soul, not a lot needs to be said.I know, I know its complicated... and contradictions.......its passion!Its as close as you can get to another human.Cheers Nev

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    that's cool. If it's boring or annoying, you're getting the ball-gag xx Sarah

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    At least you're not at risk of getting cancer of the throat. :p Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I tend to prefer silence other than the odd 'roll over' or 'move to the left'. My touch and taste and senses are busy and my ears go on a semi holiday and get a little fright if they are called back into service. Then I lose my touch and taste focus.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Knew a guy who would tell me exactly what he was doing to me as he was doing it to me - with the odd aside of how hot my ass was from his angle...and it was a total turn on!!Now, if you're doing a grocery list, like Fionabee suggests, um....no.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Hey Irresponsibility,Can our ears get a twin share discount on that little holiday....I apparently am vocal...however damned if i can ever remember a thing I say......I think its pretty limited to a few precise adjectives mostly....I think..... Im pretty sure i dont give a commentary....that would frankly P### me off......love the dirty talk...but if your going to say something......consider my age and make sure you say it clearly..."do you want to use other toys"......or was that "do you want some other boys ""...bit of a fright with a blindfold on ...

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky'At least you're not at risk of getting cancer of the throat. :p Hugs Stalky BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA thats solid

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Another Canberra girl in our midst! Cheers Trev

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    There is actually a name for that...it's called Akataphasia and really, is nothing to be worried about. It's just a disorder, a thought expression in speech...due to dissolution of logical ordering of trains of thought and things just come flying out of your mouth when you concentrate, sometimes what you are thinking or sometimes just random stuff that hits the right speech triggers. Most folks in the neuro/psych field don't research it much and it can sporadically happen to anyone... | A few months ago I was in the elevator on the way out and a drop dead gorgeous lady who must have been shopping at that store for hot chicks, you know the one "Fuck Me Now"...got on a few floors down. What I meant to say was "Hello" but just accidentally said "If you push the stop button I will go down on you right now in this elevator". How embarrassing. | Probably the worst was over breakfast a few years ago with a woman that I had been living with for a while. I meant to say "Please pass the marmalade" and just blurted out "You have ruined my life, you fucking bitch". Oh well...the relationship was pretty shakey then anyway. | Just enjoy it...be careful of what you say again, Sam.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Just be careful you don't start thinking about another girl mate! you might get a little more than "shut up"!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I imagined a david attenborough style commentary and couldnt stop laughing. I obviously cant give a womans opinion, but I would personally find it pretty hot if a woman did that during sex... as long as she didnt sound bored or try to change the subject :D

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    A '12th man' style commentary would certainly be amusing! I think if I did this though, most girls will find it a little strange. Don't need to be saying stuff like 'in it goes, out, in, out' etc But some dirty talk like 'ooo your pussy feels so good, I wantttttt it moreee' it probably a good thing :) have fun x dave

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Chuzzwozza' I imagined a david attenborough style commentary and couldnt stop laughing. I obviously cant give a womans opinion, but I would personally find it pretty hot if a woman did that during sex... as long as she didnt sound bored or try to change the subject :D Yeah... dirty talking women... "you're a dirty bastard ... I said lick my pussy and you go sticking your tongue straight into my arse like that ~ again".... oh... and women who aren't afraid of a little bit of spit even when there's a tube of lube right nearby. :P Besides.. vocalising it keeps all the people who like to watch well informed!HugsS

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky'Yeah... dirty talking women... "you're a dirty bastard ... I said lick my pussy and you go sticking your tongue straight into my arse like that ~ again".... oh... and women who aren't afraid of a little bit of spit even when there's a tube of lube right nearby. :P Besides.. vocalising it keeps all the people who like to watch well informed!HugsS Lube is for whimps Stalky. So....... NO lube for you and the mighty strapon coming your way. :PWould love to hear some of your commentary Stalky - give us a little excerpt!! Meeks

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    At least you are good friends with yourself. don't fall out with one another coz there's nothing worse that a bitch-fight involving just one person and two opinions. . Seems the the "Little voice in your Head" has 'Got Out' at some stage and now you cannoy silence him. . To the woman with concentration issues, I'd have said back to her "What are you talking about, I have'nt said a word for ages?".... And seehow that affected her concentration.

  • Mr_MrsJones

    Mr_MrsJones

    15 years ago

    Sometimes dirty talk or running commetary during sex is HOT. Other times like your friend I wish that they would shut the hell up especially if they are talking about a fantasy or something that doesn't really do it for me. A while ago we were at a party and one of the guests walked around, and fucked etc. The whole time he was commentating about everything happening in his eyeshot. At first it was funny, then it was a little irritating. By the end of the night there was more than one person who wanted to tell him to shut the hell up and I know of one woman who actually did.