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Talking to women, and keeping interest

January 18 2026

What's good yall, as a young lad I know I'm very passionate and can please a woman in bed, at least I think so. Though when it comes to actually flirting good openers and maintaining a conversation at the start I find that I am the weakest link. I've always had this struggle of being able to please physically but that mental/emotional conversation the draws her for me to seem like an interesting guy to talk to let alone even holding a conversation is trouble. I'm new to the talking, can I please get some help from the professionals/experienced blokes here?

Comments

  • Screamqueen

    Screamqueen

    4 months ago

    Professional blokes!

  • JustAManNextDoor

    JustAManNextDoor

    4 months ago

    If there’s any advice I can offer, it’s this: listen, and offer conversation that’s interesting, compassionate, and stimulating, not just one-sided or stuck on a single subject. For example, loving footy doesn’t automatically mean she does. Do your homework and read widely, stay curious, and keep up with local, national, and international news so you have a sense of what’s happening in the world around you. It’s also perfectly fine to be honest, tell her if you’re shy or if it takes you a little time to warm up in conversation. Just remember, she’s a person too, and she may be carrying the very same anxieties about conversation that you are. Good luck!

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    4 months ago

    Respectfully, the confidence is noted. 😏 But if you’re already “good in bed,” the real mystery is how you’re getting women into the bed in the first place. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ Foreplay starts way before the bedroom. Conversations are part of the package. Get curious, ask questions, listen more than you flex, and save the "I'm good in bed" resume for later. Good chat gets you the attention. Everything else comes after. Ms Foxy

  • PolyT73

    PolyT73

    4 months ago

    My advice as a non professional would be always be yourself and the right people will connect. It sounds like you are getting replies so you don't need openers and lines once you've got the attention. If you want to just get people into bed that might be enough. But if you want to connect, have great sex and see them again steer the conversation away from sex more and try for normal, interesting conversation. Flirting and dirty talk are great but fairly quickly they (and you) will get bored with that alone

  • RHP

    RHP User

    25 days ago

    Ask lots of questions