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Tell me what bores you when contacting other ppl or couples
September 25 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
all of the above can send me into a coma but if it's the right person,nothing will ever bore me...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Replies with only 5 words or less. Constant complaining about not being able to get any action from this site. Not believing me when I say "thanks, but no thanks" - oh wait, that doesn't bore me, that just gets me really angry. Messages that don't allow conversation to flow easily.
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Paradisepair
13 years ago
I imagine cityfolk have a different experience than us regional dwellers. For us probably about 15% of online connection results in a real life connection. We would like to just fast forward to meeting people face to face, I suppose that's what clubs are for....
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RHP User
13 years ago
No ping-pong txt, or cam back and forth...straight forward, exchanged few pictures , i like theirs and they liked mine...and straight down to a resto or Bars no funny business ,all seems so easy...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Not listening or understanding what is said/written, they are not necessarily channelled in their thinking re: getting some, but actually don't read what is said and a totally different answer is given not related to the topic, once is ok but most of the conversation is somewhat tedious and boring and obviously we are on the wrong planets as each other lol.
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Mr_MrsJones
13 years ago
Generally people who are boring bore us. If people don't make an effort to make a conversation that is boring. We don't cam at all because real life fun is so much more interesting. Pics that are out of focus are boring. The list just goes on and on.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I never get bored , life is just to funny and interesting. Including all the mistakes people make.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi!Cheekyarses:) Thanks for the Topic... I Totally agree with WiccanB Thanks Hun but I'd like to add some of my own.. 1.Guys who don't read My Profile thinking their the exception to what I seek try and pursued me otherwise.. 2.Guys who can't banter or chat on any subject but Sex .. that's just Focused on Positions unless he's Big noting himself about the size of his cock what's up with that I don't care!! I've noticed some Guys who've contacted me are not only focused on their own cock size but the cocks of other Lovers I've Had..Geez!! Usual What do I like.. how do I like it.. where do I Like it .. I'll Love it from Him ..he's oblivious to My replies when I say No Anal etc..Or he's so self absorbed with his needs Oh! I can do that to Him so on He doesn't give a Frig who he's Farking..as long as he gets his rocks Off!! What gets My Juices flowing Big Time is a Guy who's Intelligent, Sexy , has a warped SOH and can Banter with me, tease Man... That's so Hot!! He's a Keeper in My eyes because he's just as Interesting Sexy as My Lover mmmmmYUM!Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
They love our profile They love our pics They are keen to meet When are we free to catch up ? But when it comes to chatting on the phone to plan this meet up ....... They disappear ! We just don't get it. Or The call was made, the date is set , the confirmation txt has been received ! Them bam! 2 hrs before the meet they cancel ! Standard " kids are sick " Then they disappear never to be heard from again ...... again what happen ?
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
Thanks heaps for the comments
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RHP User
13 years ago
never! lol..its all good...tho we get a bit sad that people sometimes expect to play after a simple chat and the exchange of a couple of pics... takes much much more than that to attract our attention....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Had a whole spiel in my head but Wiccane has nailed it for me.
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RHP User
13 years ago
guys pretending to be cpls.......... "I am soooooo good" give me a go. Ask for a pic and get the penis pic...... BORING.
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RHP User
13 years ago
We find there's to many "Would Be's" on all swingers sites. Lots of people hiding behind a computer screen, fantasising. Way too many fakes and frigid people, lots of talk, minimal commitment.. Oh well, alls good, we'll keep on trying..
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RHP User
13 years ago
We think too much swapping of chat on site is boring,way too many fakes and wannabe’s out there, we think its best to exchange a couple of messages on site n pics if we all like then a phone call and meet is next on the cards,if you can not talk on the phone and make the effort to meet then don’t waste time sending messages its that simple, we all just want to meet and if all click then play not all the other crap msn etc no time for it and won’t waste my time with it either, a phone call is so much easier and of course real life meets n playing xx S and W xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Hebe1' They love our profile They love our pics They are keen to meet When are we free to catch up ? But when it comes to chatting on the phone to plan this meet up ....... They disappear ! We just don't get it. Or The call was made, the date is set , the confirmation txt has been received ! Them bam! 2 hrs before the meet they cancel ! Standard " kids are sick " Then they disappear never to be heard from again ...... again what happen ? It's so annoying isn't it!! You find time off from all your other commitments that coincides with your partner only to be left twiddling your thumbs with 2 hours notice. Not nice! There are a couple of possibilities here. Either the couple chickens out.... or one has to try to coerce the other into wanting to meet another couple. I like to hope that they're just chickens, too scared or unsure to actually follow through, the other is just not nice to think about. We've had a couple lately who, after exchanging messages, numbers, texts etc still will not commit to actually meeting, every time a meet is mentioned they are far too busy to even think about it. Ehhh fail. Yeh, we're busy til mid april as well but still manage to find time to slot in a meet here or there.
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RHP User
13 years ago
There are a number of things... normally I'm not so negative but these things really get my goat:1. People who give their MSN details and then are never on MSN: This takes two roads, either you only get to talk to the guy of the relationship, who will only talk in detail to the female of the other relationship, and then only because he wants minute and graphic details about her "experience" with other females. Or you just never hear from them ever again, they never go on MSN ever... FFS just say "sorry, not interested in talking further".2. Cams/Camming: Not only is it usually just some fat dude wanking, the video quality of many webcams is plain crap, and the lighting and angle is all wrong. If I want to watch porn, I'll look up Redtube! We're interested in the real deal, not being separated by the screens, we want to touch and feel, not just look.3. Single men who don't get the hint that I (Ms Otori) doesn't want MMF threesomes ever. I don't care how hot you think you are, how awesome you think you are, or even if you think the reason why I don't want it has anything to do with Mr Otori. It's my choice, I just don't find them appealing.3.a. Couples profiles who are clearly just single males masquerading as a couple. Had one recently, wanted to meet but, oh darn, the Mrs doesn't live with him, he can still come alone. No, not what I am looking for... Delete.4. Couples that are all interested but then evaporate at the mention of a meet and greet: Happens often, you just have to accept it will happen and it sucks when you spend all that time organizing and then when you go to confirm address or time etc, they never message back, or suddenly they're too busy. When we're busy we actually tell people from the first messages that we're pretty busy at that time but genuinely are looking to meet, and give a time frame as to when we are no longer busy. 5. People way out of our age range or geographic location flirting/messaging us with view to meet. Not gonna happen. We have an age range for a reason. We don't really travel and I doubt we'd actually meet so why waste the flirt/message.6. One sentence messages/replies and profiles. Get a personality please! We want to know a little about people before deciding whether to meet. We want to develop a rapport, attraction of the mind. We're not mindless bodies to fuck. Get a blow up doll if that's the case!Ok Gotta head to work now... Rant finished
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RHP User
13 years ago
The messages saying they're keen, then never follow up. The playing profile god types, people thinking they're somehow more fantastic for paying a fee, (we pay sometimes and when we run out of people we want to speak with we let it lapse). The whole msn thing, bleh. In person the thing I dislike the most is being asked "how/what I want" more than once. Truly annoying
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RHP User
13 years ago
We had a similar thing to something you were saying above happen to us just recently. We've been around a while, seen most of the tricks and BS but this one was a new low. A couple messaged us back after some months passing from the last we spoke, well it was the male of the couple, who told us that his sex life was dead with his partner, and he wanted to meet us with his partner but not tell her where or how and seduce her, as he thought she'd be into it. Quite sad really when you can't discuss anything and try and do all of this together. That girl is going to feel pretty damn betrayed one day when someone takes him up on it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Hebe1' They love our profile They love our pics They are keen to meet When are we free to catch up ? But when it comes to chatting on the phone to plan this meet up ....... They disappear ! We just don't get it. Or The call was made, the date is set , the confirmation txt has been received ! Them bam! 2 hrs before the meet they cancel ! Standard " kids are sick " Then they disappear never to be heard from again ...... again what happen ?Hell yeah, we're hearin' that!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Ctowntwo' We had a similar thing to something you were saying above happen to us just recently. We've been around a while, seen most of the tricks and BS but this one was a new low. A couple messaged us back after some months passing from the last we spoke, well it was the male of the couple, who told us that his sex life was dead with his partner, and he wanted to meet us with his partner but not tell her where or how and seduce her, as he thought she'd be into it. Quite sad really when you can't discuss anything and try and do all of this together. That girl is going to feel pretty damn betrayed one day when someone takes him up on it. Jeez, I think he's just asking to become single!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'PerthKinkyCouple' We think too much swapping of chat on site is boring,way too many fakes and wannabe’s out there, we think its best to exchange a couple of messages on site n pics if we all like then a phone call and meet is next on the cards,if you can not talk on the phone and make the effort to meet then don’t waste time sending messages its that simple, we all just want to meet and if all click then play not all the other crap msn etc no time for it and won’t waste my time with it either, a phone call is so much easier and of course real life meets n playing xx S and W xx We hear you
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RHP User
13 years ago
We wouldn't call it bored so much as FRUSTRATED seems to better describe it. Hate when they ask questions that are clearly answered in our profile but people don't seem to take the time to read it. The read would probably be better than our pictures anyway...
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RHP User
13 years ago
We're bored by single line messages that ask questions like "hey how r u?" or "how is ur nite?", which almost always use text speak. Our profile is virtually a novel(!), so we feel our personalities are out there and other RHPers can get a pretty good idea of what we're about. We'd like to get a sense of who they are in return. We don't mind if people have short profiles, but it means they need to explain a bit more about where they're coming from when we interact. Generic platitudes are such a bore, and make it feel like they expect us to do all the work. We like interactions to be along the lines of: 1. We like who you are. 2. This is us, if you like who we are let's meet for drinks. Simple!
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