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The Art of Seduction, Flirting and Foreplay ....
January 09 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
I suppose it depends on the situation? For me, I only want to be seduced and build intimacy in a real relationship with a man I love. If it's going to be a casual encounter, then I wish to establish boundaries, and do not want to get my emotions involved, thus I'll only want to keep to the nuts and bolts. Does that make sense? Certain acts are very intimate IMO and I'd like to reserve them for a special man and not do it with just any Tom, Dick or Harry. Just my two cents' worth.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I love seduction. The book the art of seduction is very good. I think it's a lost, unlearned, not taught and completely missing from society in general. I love a man who can seduce me omg it's hot. If you find one let me know.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The more seduction & foreplay shared determines how great the sex is. Wish my partner thought as you do ! I miss it so much. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Building a connection, for me, is the equivalent of seduction. If i'm not seduced, I don't go ahead with meeting them, and that happens a lot, meaning communication starts, then I end it if it's just not happening for me. Like you say though, some guys are just masters, they ooze sexiness and know how to build up the sexual tension, seem to say all the right things at all the right times, natural for them. And yeah, i'm also tired of quick hookups, whatever happened to the slow tease, driving you wild with desire, everyone seems to be in a rush, like calling into the corner shop for a litre of milk lol strangest thing happened to me tonight, I can't kiss and tell, completely unexpected, but i'm a happy girl 😀😉
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RHP User
10 years ago
Flirting and seduction We live in a era of instant gratification and therefore we do not have to work hard at getting what we want sexually or otherwise. We deny ourselves nothing in any shape or form, we want it, we go for it I do think porn has contributed to the lost art of seduction, but I also think our PC ordered society now condemns or ridicules those who are seen to flirt as not respecting boundaries. You only have to look at the backlash against Chris Gayle last week, although the tide of opinion has changed on this issue in the last few days. I think people are scared to participate in flirting in case it is misinterpreted as unwelcome attention and next thing you know, one is accused of sexual harassment. I love to be on the receiving end of flirting and seduction but in saying that I do not think I am very good at reciprocating because I have forgotten how
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RHP User
10 years ago
not about the porn as i don't watch it ..but isn't that how we all rollshow them the door if they don't appeal and if they do ..keep them around for a while..
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Katkat
10 years ago
For me is a must otherwise it will be just too plain & boring nothing is more alluring & exhilarating feeling being seducted by someone who knows what building up the anticipation over & over. Be nice too if they know how to make someone squirt. As for porn that's just an appetiser 4 me before sex just to get you in the mood. I want the main meal & dessert after 😜💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
But it does require some emotional intelligence in choosing an appropriate moment and interested participant. Hassling a women shopping with kids or conducting an interview is a fail. Responding to eye contact or a smile could be a win. Reading the response and respecting disinterest are key to not getting arrested or being dismembered in social media. I love it. Also I don't believe it is restricted to the romantic, incredible sexual tension can be built with flirting and innuendo, nothing like being ravaged by sexual tension of your own creation. 😇
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RHP User
10 years ago
as it says in my profile. I am a natural flirt and love innuendo and double entendres. But..... I have flirted with people from RHP and upon meeting them I have not wanted to continue for a variety of reasons. Some have reacted angrily, claiming I am a tease and other name calling. So I try not to engage that way until I have met someone and decided I want to play with them. But sometimes I just can't help myself 😇😈
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RHP User
10 years ago
Screw them, it's your choice and right to walk away anytime. Like i've said before, i've done that a few times, mostly because they either misrepresent themselves or don't turn me on. We're here for pleasure and fun, whatever form that takes, however different we all are, at the end of the day, we're not paid sex workers, so good for you 👍😀
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RHP User
10 years ago
Bazingal. ... i agree with you. Either they take themselves too seriously and lack a sense of humour or they are in too much of a hurry to enjoy just being in the moment. Keep doing what you do. If they can't handle it then, as you say, you know they probably wouldn't be a good choice to take it further. LG
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RHP User
10 years ago
Building up sexual tension, absolutely, very 'stimulating' even prior to meeting and like you say, explosive when you get together. I live for that, fuckin love it lol 👍
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RHP User
10 years ago
The age if the internet/ technology and a throw away world has. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I love foreplay touching and teasing a woman is my favourite thing, it gets her nice and wet for the big game too. I however am terrible at dirty talking, I can't do it I hate hearing it, especially in a threesome situation where a guy is asking his wife do you like it ect. I like to make noise but feel the movements to get off not talk about them! A girl moaning loudly will make me cum though!
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RHP User
10 years ago
A truly fascinating thing, to learn about people and what makes them tick. Body language, attraction rules, understanding the oppisite sex, how to converse or even give a look to someone. I have never really had trouble with this subject. But I love what I have learned along the way. I even use some of it at work. (Not sexual). All In all, well worth the time to understand better. And then there's building of mind blowing sex!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I find that seduction, flirting, and foreplay are the key to the best interactions. None of us want to wait too long and waste our or others time, but when the right person comes along, keeping your finger on the pulse and extending the tension until just before you meet is the only way to a mind blowing intimate connection. Some people still have it. Many now don't unfortunately, especially on sites like this and I've found especially in experiences where more then two or three are involved. I agree with Inspirit that it is the internet that has killed it mainly. For one on one situations I feel it is much easier to seduce and be seduced.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Rod11201573' A truly fascinating thing, to learn about people and what makes them tick. Body language, attraction rules, understanding the oppisite sex, how to converse or even give a look to someone. I have never really had trouble with this subject. But I love what I have learned along the way. I even use some of it at work. (Not sexual). All In all, well worth the time to understand better. And then there's building of mind blowing sex!!! - Posted from rhpmobile and yes it does come in handy in everyday life too ... doesn't have to be sexual but gives you confidence to be able to create banter to relax people and sometimes get a laugh out of them too. LG
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hungry4love007
10 years ago
Foreplay is essential for prolonged sex. Without foreplay, tease, seduction, flirt, dirty talk, some roleplay and fetish, and after sex fireplsy and cuddle sex is just a pelvic exercise. But in the end its an art becuase there is a thin line between tease and flirt and killing libido. Its an ongoing process which we only can master through experience and mating with as many people as possible. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've always enjoyed the connection, just stripping down and going for it has bored me, even at parties and clubs, a good conversation of the minds and the flirtation is fabulous. Of course being a socially anxious person can really screw you up. Porn on the other hand can create some really unrealistic expectations. I myself have done a lot to grow myself and learn the art of flirtation, which is painful as F at times.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sometimes seduction is a cynical exercise for someone to achieve what they want,particularly sex xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Freya70' Sometimes seduction is a cynical exercise for someone to achieve what they want,particularly sex xxFreya The best salesperson gets sex on RHP in my view, and all to often the receiver just gets screwed. As for me I don`t bother seducing without genuine interest (not worth it), but I`m not just after sex. The package is important to me, so when sex is all that is on the menu I patronise to avoid saying no (that is easy) as happened today (I didn`t meet her on this site so not offending with this comment). I will add that in the past 8 years I have said no to marriage 3 times, that is harder than to patronise at the beginning.Everyone is different and I love the art of mutual slow honest seduction, for the long term is my wish.
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