The Difficulty of Finding Compatible Couples When Swinging

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I agree with alyndrew. We are new to the scene and recently had our first MFF threesome. Our guest was great, beautiful, fit (unlike us!!!!), great figure and very,very sexy. The girls had a very,very good time while I played with both. However, when both had climaxed and we were just having a drink before playing some more (we thought) our lovely guest decided she needed to leave. Her focus was definitely on my lady and once she had satisfied that, she had no time for me. No lasting resentment for our guest who was lovely, but naturally, I was disappointed and so was my lady who was looking for me to be pleasured while she watched and also looking for more pleasure herself.Ric939

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  2more4fun

  16 years ago

  Don't be disheartened. It can take a while to meet with a couple where there is amazing chemistry all round. It's also hard because you don't know if there is real chemistry until you actually play. Sometimes you need to play with a couple more than once to develop that chemistry. The important thing is that you keep meeting people and with each meet/play talk about what was good or not that great about the experience. If you keep meeting couples who seem more focused on the F (and leaving the M to twiddle his thumb), then you need to select couples who specify that they are more keen on partner swapping than girl/girl play. Better yet, try meeting a couple where the F is straight or only bi-curious. After a while, you may have made a good number of couple friends with varying degrees of compatibility (eg. F1 isn't attracted to M2 but likes his partner F2 and M3, whereas F3 thinks M2 is hot and M1 wants to take photos!). Get a small party going and that way everyone should eventually have one session with someone they are really hot for, and everything else is a bonus.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  We too are very new to the scene and I guess in a way we have been fairly lucky but I also think we are a little demanding.  We will only meet with couple that we have seen face and body shots to ensure the physical attraction is there and then we only decide to play once we have met with the couple in person for coffee/drinks.  You quickly know whether you are going to enjoy their company further or not. We are also not afraid to ask direct questions when we meet eg boundaries, fantasies etc - my friends call me anally retentive but when you have limited time you need to ensure that all the planets align before you get down and dirty.  I am sure this isn't always going to work, we have heard alot of stories that it doesn't always work this way but our stretegy has been great so far.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  hey cpls thats why we prefer  mmf...3sums with bi males are the go,,although i'm not bi i would be sure to join in with both partners hoping to enjoy and please if the man agree's ,otherwise make the lady happy swapping men... ..bi men will enjoy both and if the females is  genuine and wanting to watch her man with a man then she can,, if she loves men she would love to enjoy the bi men as well as her own..the word needs  to be remembered   >> SEX SEX>    forget the rest of the shiteeeeeee.go for it and enjoy we have..To many people have meens above there own which causes these problems..

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