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The Elusive Unicorn...

May 17 2014

I'm new here on RHP, and was wondering....what is the elusive 'unicorn'? It's referenced all over the forums. Sorry for sounding ignorant :P

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Couples that are looking for a lady to join them in 3some fun. This lady that they are looking for is the "unicorn" as they don't seem to exist.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Its a horse that was born backwards and the mare horse mother horse had to twist its foal out like a cork screw and in doing so the umbilicle chord is twisted tight like a horn and stretched out over a day or two this chord may become rigid and infact stuck to the foals upper region of the nose or long face , and becomes very hard and over time becomes a permanent feature of this new born foal , legend has it that this deformity has wings also but thats bullshit i have never seen a fucking horse with wings , these days they are known as unicorns and poached for there horn , leaving the unicorn almost in a state of extinction if you are lucky you may spot one with this horn , but most have been cut off in which case they are really just fucking horses without wings ! And i personally have ridden a couple of those fuckers !!!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • tamworthguy46

    tamworthguy46

    12 years ago

    Hi Erotic Novice, The Elusive Unicorn, is known to swingers circle as a single bi Female, I suppose it just means almost non existent, well as far as getting one who wants to play with a couple any way. Actually you are probably almost in that category yourself......prepare to be inundated with offers lol And lucky those, whoever you choose....as you look and sound like quite a catch ! Tam

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'tamworthguy46' Hi Erotic Novice, The Elusive Unicorn, is known to swingers circle as a single bi Female, I suppose it just means almost non existent, well as far as getting one who wants to play with a couple any way. Thanks for that. I have always wanted to ask that as it has been mentioned a few times but being a novice myself, just went pass me... well, I believe I do not belong to that mythical tribe. Seems like hard work. I like focusing all my attention on just pleasing and getting pleased by that one male FWB. Now, where is he? Must be off with the mermaids...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    They aren't elusive, there is just nothing in it for the female. For example, I have a choice of a beautiful young man who takes care of himself looking to please me, or a couple with a very 'average' male and his wife. There is nothing to turn me on in a couple situation, its all about the unkempt husband. Also, as a side note, every couple that I have been speaking with turns into the male telling me he will meet me without her. Everyone so far! So the unicorn is not elusive. There is nothing in it for the extra female. NOTHING! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It's a gorgeous, mythical, horny bi-sexual creature. Rather elusive and requires a very gentle approach as they are easily startled.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    That people would call me dilusional. It got to me after a while. So much so I nearly fell off my unicorn :) Source: Facebook.....where magic happens, and truth still is spoken by all :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    For guy that wants to have sex with your wife but cannot handle another guy with his wife.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    The elusive unicorn is probably in a tangled mess of euphoric intense passionate throws of having two dirty fuckers counting her orgasms, or losing count. With all due respect, trying too hunt a unicorn will always be more difficult to find, catch or achieve, than the Unicorn finding you. Food for thought Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Big Ocean - love your detailed discription, maybe we could go unicorn hunting one night My bad? I thought a unicorn was the elusive male with a huge sustained erection!! Guess I'm looking at this all wrong!

  • luvsilver

    luvsilver

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Melbourne_Babe' They aren't elusive, there is just nothing in it for the female. For example, I have a choice of a beautiful young man who takes care of himself looking to please me, or a couple with a very 'average' male and his wife. There is nothing to turn me on in a couple situation, its all about the unkempt husband. Also, as a side note, every couple that I have been speaking with turns into the male telling me he will meet me without her. Everyone so far! So the unicorn is not elusive. There is nothing in it for the extra female. NOTHING! -There are plenty of beautiful young couples out there to choose from (we are way too old to be one of them)who both take care of themselves and are looking to please you.Playing with a couple is a very different experience from playing one on one and understand it may not be for you but for many single females they have has some great experiences playing with couples.You say nothing but nothing is in it for the single female- I think you are very wrong . Mr Luvsilver.

  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Annabella237' My bad? I thought a unicorn was the elusive male with a huge sustained erection!! Guess I'm looking at this all wrong! I like that description

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I shall polish my hunting boots miss anna and prepare for the hunt.i have the cornnet patched from last seasons hunt strong and ready !! And you shall provide the carrots but remember carrots must be halved in equals and soaked in the essence of a woman and the odour of a man each being exactly equal as the unicorn will always turn with the oneside smell of greed - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Melbourne_Babe' They aren't elusive, there is just nothing in it for the female. For example, I have a choice of a beautiful young man who takes care of himself looking to please me, or a couple with a very 'average' male and his wife. There is nothing to turn me on in a couple situation, its all about the unkempt husband. Also, as a side note, every couple that I have been speaking with turns into the male telling me he will meet me without her. Everyone so far! So the unicorn is not elusive. There is nothing in it for the extra female. NOTHING! - Posted from rhpmobile I am not into the threesome scene but I believe there are a lot of young beautiful couples here who have contacted me. As a matter of fact, I have been contacted by a young couple recently, actuallly last night, but just not my scene. They sound wonderful but sadly must decline.Your views or opinions on couples are very limited and not fair on the couples here. You are in your own right to turn down any offer but to label them all ' average looking' (maybe, but valid to you) and all husbands unkempt males (harsh) is just a biased blanket statement that is based on your limited experience. To say there is nothing for the female in the mix is just another biased statement. Hmmm. You seem intelligent and open minded but maybe had a bad experience that have tainted your view?I would just let the people here judge for themselves how it is to be with a couple, and make their judgment based their experience rather from someone who may have a bad experience or two with the couples. They have to make their own reality than have someone's reality shoved down their throat.

  • JessicaRabbit

    JessicaRabbit

    12 years ago

    There's plenty in it for a unicorn if you find the right couple. I love playing with a sexy couple where I'm equally attracted to both and am not made to feel like a toy. It's the best of both worlds. I love being a unicorn! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    And have come across some amazing hot beautiful couples.. I love the freedom of being a unicorn... Xxviolet

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ... just makes it harder to laso 'em.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm a unicorn too :). I can play with anyone and enjoy myself. Maybe I should start a unicorn club. It would of course be a very elusive club ;). Just kidding. I think men and women can be unicorns. I have met many nice interesting people on this site. Look forward to meet you, if you can catch me ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You're right Annabella. A unicorn, a great white stallion with an enormous erect cock! ;). Let's go hunting. There are some nice fields in the country where they run wild.You might catch two at the same time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    What a grossly incorrect generalisation. I have to "politely" agree to disagree with your statement about the "averageness" and "unkempt" nature of the men in a couple. We are one of those MANY couples looking for a unicorn and I think my hubby is as hot as fuck (excuse the language) and just gets better and better with age. It would be a privilege for someone to share in him...... In my opinion naturally........ Perhaps it's in fact you that has nothing to offer a loving and sexual couple...... Food for thought. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Apparently it can only be captured by a virgin so that might be why it is so hard for some people to catch it ;)

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    12 years ago

    Unicorns are out there.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Wise words from Tara Quoting 'QLDtwo4fun' Unicorns are out there. Well, actually, it was the words from Tara's very average hubby with nothing too offer, but Tara does have a little tattoo of a unicorn, it is in an elusive place and only some are lucky enough to see it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Unicorns are rare. A bit like diamonds. I doubt they'd be so desired if they were common. I am attracted to the female form. So is MrTri. So we like to share the pleasures of the right woman every now and then. Just makes us stronger as a couple. As to what's in it for the unicorn, this is often the issue. They enjoy good company and indulgent sex. We can't offer a lot more than that but a 'relationship' of sorts is certainly a possibility and that might be attractive to some. In our experience unicorns come, stay for a while and go as is their pleasure (and ours). Currently we have a position (well several) vacant.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    are you sure that you want to identify as a unicorn man? According to the Urban Dictionary unicorn men are wimpy and stupid :-) :-) xx Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Melbourne_Babe' They aren't elusive, there is just nothing in it for the female. For example, I have a choice of a beautiful young man who takes care of himself looking to please me, or a couple with a very 'average' male and his wife. Speak for yourself, will you? There are some smoking hot couples on here! Only just got home from a very steamy encounter with an incredibly hot duo. *Shakes mane*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'surfsmurf'I think men and women can be unicorns. I Allegedly single bi girls are hard to find, hence the title*. Bi men aren't. The number of times I've been contacted here by "straight" men who only said they were so they wouldn't scare off women, is over twenty. * I actually don't believe this, even on the forums there are about ten of us. I think the reason couples can't catch a Unicorn may be because Unicorns can be very picky and run at the first sign of being an "experiment" for a curious wife (read: I'm really not convinced...) or a pushy husband.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' being an "experiment" for a curious wife (read: I'm really not convinced...) or a pushy husband. I meant the wife thinking "I'm not convinced". I've received too many messages from women saying "I've never been with a girl, and I'm wondering if it's something I'd like." Thanks, but no.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'surfsmurf'I think men and women can be unicorns. I Allegedly single bi girls are hard to find, hence the title*. Bi men aren't. The number of times I've been contacted here by "straight" men who only said they were so they wouldn't scare off women, is over twenty. reminds me of being told that bi men are even rarer than women, and hence known as alicorns ;-) Although I will admit that bi men up here are very elusive creatures....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I thought the same thing, so I just had to point out they are not as rare as they think...

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    ⏪⏪⏪⏪⏪⏪⏪⏪ neeeiiigggghhhhhh ~ stamps foot prettily and runs off, catch me if you can 😊

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hi, Erotic Novice! Welcome to the sandpit.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    Miss Novice

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting 'Melbourne_Babe' They aren't elusive, there is just nothing in it for the female. For example, I have a choice of a beautiful young man who takes care of himself looking to please me, or a couple with a very 'average' male and his wife. There is nothing to turn me on in a couple situation, its all about the unkempt husband. Also, as a side note, every couple that I have been speaking with turns into the male telling me he will meet me without her. Everyone so far! So the unicorn is not elusive. There is nothing in it for the extra female. NOTHING! - Posted from rhpmobile I am not into the threesome scene but I believe there are a lot of young beautiful couples here who have contacted me. As a matter of fact, I have been contacted by a young couple recently, actuallly last night, but just not my scene. They sound wonderful but sadly must decline.Your views or opinions on couples are very limited and not fair on the couples here. You are in your own right to turn down any offer but to label them all ' average looking' (maybe, but valid to you) and all husbands unkempt males (harsh) is just a biased blanket statement that is based on your limited experience. To say there is nothing for the female in the mix is just another biased statement. Hmmm. You seem intelligent and open minded but maybe had a bad experience that have tainted your view?I would just let the people here judge for themselves how it is to be with a couple, and make their judgment based their experience rather from someone who may have a bad experience or two with the couples. They have to make their own reality than have someone's reality shoved down their throat. I was referring to my experience this week with couples claiming to be couples and its just the man trying to pick me up

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Melbourne_Babe' They aren't elusive, there is just nothing in it for the female. For example, I have a choice of a beautiful young man who takes care of himself looking to please me, or a couple with a very 'average' male and his wife. Speak for yourself, will you? There are some smoking hot couples on here! Only just got home from a very steamy encounter with an incredibly hot duo. *Shakes mane* Only talking about the couples where the male wants to pick me up alone. Should have been more clear.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I have been contacted by a lot of couples and most have been polite and respectful. @ Melbourne Babe, I totally disagree with you. I am friends with a couple (Yes, just friends in real life) and they are beautiful people. It is seldom that I have been made to feel so welcome the first time I have been to visit people in their home. The other night I saw that a couple had viewed me. I looked at their profile and sent them a message telling them how hot their profile and pics were. To generalise like that about couples is just so wrong.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    New to the forums also... What does FWB mean? :/ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    For the definition, and the welcomes :) My query has been answered with gusto, and seems to have sparked a bit of a debate :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Ha ha ha ha. I love this thread. Especially are you sure you want to be identified as a unicorn man. Hey you are 99 years old according to your profile and still going strong. Are you sure you are 99 Qefenta2? I had a very interesting read on Wikipedia today. Lots of interesting things there. I asked people at my work today what sex a Unicorn had. Most of them answered that they thought a Unicorn was white stallion. Interesting indeed. So when I heard that I felt even more sure that I'm a unicorn. A white stallion ;).But according to the Urban dictionary i might be wimpy and stupid. I must try my unicorn outfit at my next gathering. Could be interesting to fuck someone with a horn on my head :).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm sure some shop somewhere sells unicorn helmets, especially a shop that sells pony gear and bit gags. If there's not, we should market one. And you are right, unicorns I thought were always a stallion? Might explain why they are extinct, I mean elusive. Can't imagine surfsmurf putting up a good chase so you definitely have to be a hunter. Big Ocean! I read that in a cafe and laughed out loud! Go the carrots! We still need a virgin though for bait.., if she lasts long enough with surfsmurf and big ocean twiddling their um thumbs while we all lie in wait... I'll be too distracted with binoculars to keep tabs on them.. Go the commandos

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    For your questions, is the forums, never worry about sounding ignorant. Of course you are placing a lot of trust in getting the correct answer :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm a unicorn looking for a hot couple.......hard to find the right mix of looks and age...and availability ........i will keep looking....lol some couples have two many variables to consider for it to be fun.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    FWB means Friend With Benefits and FB fuck buddy :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Thanks you ! :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Whilst not looking for a couple specifically, have struck up a friendship with a great couple that if it was something I was willing to try, it would be with them. I get contacted by a lot of couples and most are very nice and polite. There have been the odd couples where whilst I can appreciate the need to for rules and boundaries, it felt so restricted that I had to ask what exactly I was meant to be there for since it seemed like I wasn't allowed to do anything. Talking to some of the females in some couples they sounded very unsure about it all and didn't seem that excited by the though of a female so I got the feeling also they were doing just to please their partner. Each to their own though I hope they all found what they were looking for in the end...

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    12 years ago

    Quoting "Meander" * I actually don't believe this, even on the forums there are about ten of us. I think the reason couples can't catch a Unicorn may be because Unicorns can be very picky and run at the first sign of being an "experiment" for a curious wife (read: I'm really not convinced...) or a pushy husband. Exactly.......and yes there are defiantly some smoking hot couples out there.......😍 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It absolutely depends on the couple you 'unicorn' for. I've thoroughly enjoyed one particular couple (and have a great but now-non-sexual friendship with them), but one can either feel like a circus performer or a third wheel pretty quickly and that's not fun for anyone!There's also issues re what one can/can't do with either partner: eg don't kiss my husband, don't make her squirt (!!!), etc etc etc. It can be a very trepidous line....

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Two swollen cocks and one swollen clitoris, or two swollen clitoris's and one swollen cock, very intense way too cum and too do that together three as one, that's magical, hardly mythical, very intense, extremely passionate and when it happens it is a teamwork experience. If it aint like that it aint a threesome, just a three way thing. Three ways? how boring! Mado Tara xx

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    12 years ago

    NSA means No Strings Attached. OR No Satisfaction Always OR No Sex Always. Depending on the situation... Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    We're an attractive couple (but by no means supermodels) and we've been lucky enough to count ourselves part of the 'unicorn club' a few times now! It's all about your attitude as a couple and the attitude of the single bi-girl that joins you. We had a long-term exclusive situation at one point as well and it was amazing for all involved. We're very happy full-swap swingers too, so the idea that the male doesn't want to share his spouse with other guys isn't true in all cases. Must admit we've seen a lot of these types on here though, and steer well clear of people not willing to share their 'toys'. ;) Everyone has their needs, you just have to find those that match yours.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    No Spooning Afterwards :-(

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Beautiful analogy- three as one not a threesome - I totally get it xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I wont make enormous generalisations about the couples looking for a unicorn (tho there DO seem to be a lot of Him:Average, Her:Very Attractive couples out there!) but I do agree that males in the couple approach me a LOT re meeting up on their own... (or, perhaps its just men pretending to be a couple...??) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • abcplus1

    abcplus1

    12 years ago

    But they are rare. Have recently found one that we hope to hang on to for some time :-P Part of that is to treat her the way she expects and hopes to be, after all it is her fantasy too. She wants to be third to a loving couple.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Curiousplay1980' What a grossly incorrect generalisation. I have to "politely" agree to disagree with your statement about the "averageness" and "unkempt" nature of the men in a couple. We are one of those MANY couples looking for a unicorn and I think my hubby is as hot as fuck (excuse the language) and just gets better and better with age. It would be a privilege for someone to share in him...... In my opinion naturally........ Perhaps it's in fact you that has nothing to offer a loving and sexual couple...... Food for thought. - Posted from rhpmobile Further to that it is not always about looking after said 'unkempt' husband. In our situation it is the lady of the relationship that has made the choice, she loves being with a woman, but has no interest in being with another man, however loves watching me with another woman hence our choices, the point I am making is it isn't fair to generalise that it is all about the male in a couple. To make the choice to play at all in the first place both of you need to be open and comfortable with doing so otherwise its off the table.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'looking4quality' I have been contacted by a lot of couples and most have been polite and respectful. @ Melbourne Babe, I totally disagree with you. I am friends with a couple (Yes, just friends in real life) and they are beautiful people. It is seldom that I have been made to feel so welcome the first time I have been to visit people in their home. The other night I saw that a couple had viewed me. I looked at their profile and sent them a message telling them how hot their profile and pics were. To generalise like that about couples is just so wrong.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    They can be found if you search. My partner and I had some uncomfortable experiences with couples. whether we were planning to play together or me making sure that she'll be looked after when she goes as a unicorn. We noticed that there's a lot of cheating from the husband's part specially if they say they'll turn up alone.to avoid that, simply ask for the female's number and talk to her to make sure she's ok with it and that she wants to. Regarding the attractiveness argument, I think it's subjective; what someone considers attractive or super hot isn't necessarily what others find sexy or desirable. When I'm part of a couple looking for a unicorn, it's a bit different. I find it easier to hook up with a unicorn in a sexy party or a social event than finding one here. Maybe because of the huge difference in numbers between unicorns and singles/couples... or maybe it's just that they're too picky.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'twopeas74' Quoting 'Curiousplay1980' What a grossly incorrect generalisation. I have to "politely" agree to disagree with your statement about the "averageness" and "unkempt" nature of the men in a couple. We are one of those MANY couples looking for a unicorn and I think my hubby is as hot as fuck (excuse the language) and just gets better and better with age. It would be a privilege for someone to share in him...... In my opinion naturally........ Perhaps it's in fact you that has nothing to offer a loving and sexual couple...... Food for thought. - Posted from rhpmobile Further to that it is not always about looking after said 'unkempt' husband. In our situation it is the lady of the relationship that has made the choice, she loves being with a woman, but has no interest in being with another man, however loves watching me with another woman hence our choices, the point I am making is it isn't fair to generalise that it is all about the male in a couple. To make the choice to play at all in the first place both of you need to be open and comfortable with doing so otherwise its off the table. Ditto!!!As to unicorns, like all things magical they're only real if you believe in them. We believe, and magic does happen- sometimes in the most unexpected places. Happy hunting (or being hunted) all.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    And it was certainly some of the best sex available for all parties. A seriously standout month. This was judged by the very wet bed, lost counted orgasms and three exhausted individuals after. I do think the key was the interest between the girls to add that extra dimension. However that was some time ago and unfortunately the unicorn has remained elusive since. We are still friends with the girl but she gained a partner who wanted monogamy.... So disappointing. Lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I doubt either of us would be classed as unkept, neither was there any of the three left out.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    What a shame that the unicorn doesn't really exist and the single female gets "nothing" out of it? Really? I was under the impression being a previous unicorn that there are many friendships and fun times. If your looking for love then you wouldn't gain much as a unicorn with a couple but if your happy to have a fun weekend with a couple - a unicorn can get a lot more than "nothing"! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Last week, I'm shopping at my local Iga, I've bought the cutest little monkey ears- monkey head poncho blanket thang for my own 5yo cheeky monkey who is coming home to me later that night... Little chikky babe, check out chick exclaims "oh these are the cutest! I wish they did them in adult sizes". I say "I know right! But you can get those animal onesies..." Again a cute squeal.. "Oh I got one for my 18th birthday!" I prompted her for more... "It's a unicorn!!" I held my tongue and inwardly slapped my face for how I was thinking about how I had just found the (maybe) virginal, mythical, unicorn! BAHAHAHAHA

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Go and woo her for the hunt we can always take her out for a test run to see if she attracts i mean we will have to wait for smurf to return :-)) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    There there but they have the pick of all around them! Like a queen I assume lol... I'm to old now but my FFM tiem I was to young (age 12) such is the life of hoping

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Erotic_novice' For the definition, and the welcomes :) My query has been answered with gusto, and seems to have sparked a bit of a debate :P So so elusive yet so passionately pursued. Ah! The wonder of time spent with the unicorn!

  • Enjoylifealways

    Enjoylifealways

    12 years ago

    We love to spoil our unicorns they come first in our play . There are no rules about what they can or can't do.Our job is make sure they leave happy with a huge smile on there face.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    We're a couple alsi seeking a unicorn and I can guarantee that they would would havw alot of fun and would cum more than twice, my man is not average, in fact I think he is the most sexyist man I know. Wewould never ttreat or make them ferl like they are just a toy. Its a big thing to share what's yours with another person be it male or female. Any unicorn that finds us or we find them will have the option to always come back or be a constant, and my husband would never ever turn around and say thst he'll meet her alone coz he's just not that kind of person (men who do that are obviously very unfaithful). For you not to be turned on when joining a couple your either not fully interested in bring there in the first place or the couple aren't being very good. Maybe you shouldn't paint all couples with the same brush.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Perhaps my profile is unclear or I've written something in there that's off putting. I have had a couple of couples approach me but I certainly haven't been mobbed ;) I'm talking about couples who understand and are seeking a unicorn. I actually only learnt there was a name for it a couple of months ago. I knew I couldn't be alone in wanting / needing that type of relationship, but I had no idea how to find any information on it. So I just googled a series of phrases and words until I came across a site that was discussing it from a Unicorns perspective. It was pretty mind blowing to realise it was an actual 'thing'. Anyway, it is a special relationship and it can't be forced or rushed. With regard to the disparity of attractiveness between male and female lovers, obviously you need to have a connection and an attraction. Hypothetically though, I might find the woman more physically attractive and sexy, but the man might fulfil other needs of mine. Obviously I would have to be attracted sexually. I mean, obviously lol ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Very new to the site also ! ...and well my first forum read has been very enlightening :) ... But I do think we need to come up with an appropriate name for the male version of the unicorn .... I mean after all, it would be nice to be able to refer to myself as something, when I find the right couple on here ! :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Had a unicorn... Would much prefer a couple! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    No that's the name for young single males wanting to get in on the action. Alas Not elusive.

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'HornyBoyTJ'it would be nice to be able to refer to myself as something, when I find the right couple on here ! :) I'd call you all bats. You're bloody everywhere, hanging around squeaking. Most of you pretend to be regular flying foxes so you don't scare the wildlife, but when asked you turn out to be total fruit bats.

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'PlaywithAbby' Perhaps my profile is unclear or I've written something in there that's off putting. I have had a couple of couples approach me but I certainly haven't been mobbed ;) I'm talking about couples who understand and are seeking a unicorn. I actually only learnt there was a name for it a couple of months ago. I knew I couldn't be alone in wanting / needing that type of relationship, but I had no idea how to find any information on it. So I just googled a series of phrases and words until I came across a site that was discussing it from a Unicorns perspective. It was pretty mind blowing to realise it was an actual 'thing'. Anyway, it is a special relationship and it can't be forced or rushed. With regard to the disparity of attractiveness between male and female lovers, obviously you need to have a connection and an attraction. Hypothetically though, I might find the woman more physically attractive and sexy, but the man might fulfil other needs of mine. Obviously I would have to be attracted sexually. I mean, obviously lol ;) Hi Abby, I read your profile and it sounds to me like you may have a problem with men. Not saying you do, but it does sound like there is something there. Also you mention "relationship" a lot. I will tell you now that using the "R" word is like a death knell on RHP. Nobody wants to have a relationship here.... so you should use words such as friends with benefits or something similar. Sounds stupid but it's just the way it is. As a single woman I was inundated with messages when I had things like " I am looking for fun", I would like to experiment, etc on my profile. I got so sick of it so I decided I wanted to stop the messages so I replaced the above statements with "I would consider a relationship if I meant the right person" and I removed the word fun from my profile. BAM! All my messages dried up instantly overnight. hahaha

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'HornyBoyTJ' Very new to the site also ! ...and well my first forum read has been very enlightening :) ... But I do think we need to come up with an appropriate name for the male version of the unicorn .... I mean after all, it would be nice to be able to refer to myself as something, when I find the right couple on here ! :) Hornyboy, women wanting to play with couples are called Unicorns because they are rare to find. Men wanting to play with couples should be called "men"

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    11 years ago

    Is that top new? Very sexy x

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    11 years ago

    No it's a PVC coreset I have had for awhile. :-)

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    11 years ago

    Men wanting to play with couples should be called "men" That comment made me snort my coffee - brilliant! - Posted from rhpmobile

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Hi Abby, I read your profile and it sounds to me like you may have a problem with men. Not saying you do, but it does sound like there is something there. Also you mention "relationship" a lot. I will tell you now that using the "R" word is like a death knell on RHP. Nobody wants to have a relationship here.... so you should use words such as friends with benefits or something similar. Sounds stupid but it's just the way it is. As a single woman I was inundated with messages when I had things like " I am looking for fun", I would like to experiment, etc on my profile. I got so sick of it so I decided I wanted to stop the messages so I replaced the above statements with "I would consider a relationship if I meant the right person" and I removed the word fun from my profile. BAM! All my messages dried up instantly overnight. hahaha Thanks for taking a look Meeka, I only noticed your post above by pure luck. I'll have another look at my profile, but the thing is that I do want to be in the relationship, not just a FB and maybe a bit more than FWB, I don't know. I'll have a think about it and rewrite it if I can. The thing is that I ended up writing those bits about no single men because I was just getting so many contacting me even without a pic... But Thanks! I really appreciate your thoughts and I will take a look.