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The Itch

April 16 2014

How long before the itch starts? I do not mean the sex itch (just generally wanting to have sex) I am talking about the swinging itch, the itch of wanting to catch up with another couple, the itch to dress up, converse & meet a new couple & all the things that this entails. I am aiming this one more towards other swinging couples simply because I want to gage if I am the only one who gets this mad urge to go swinging at the most inopportune times. Like right now when we can't play due to Mr having pulled a tendon & not being able to walk properly. Do you find the itch is strongest when you know you can't play (for whatever reason) or does it regularly show up after a certain duration of time, or do you just have the itch all the time no matter what? We haven't been able to play since the start of March & recently had to cancel on a lovely couple because of his injury & I am really feeling the swinging itch. Mr not so much as he has just launched a new business campaign & is madly focused on that right now. Sometimes I think I am the male in this relationship :p Couples, do you find it is the male or the female who wants to swing more or is it an equal want?I wonder also what method you have found that works to cure this swinging itch, other than obviously.. swinging lol Fire away! Taby xx

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RHP User

12 years ago

Whether that be 7 minutes, hours, days, months or years is entirely up to you.Good luck with the injury, but you will find over time that there is a lot of life's issues that slow the adventures into the lifestyle.You've hit on 2,, injury and business, you'll be amazed at how many other things get in the way.Cheers

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RHP User

12 years ago

For us if we haven't done anything for 3 months it really starts for us!.. If we don't succeed all we do is usually amp up our sex life so might do it 2-3 times a day or go somewhere kinda public but discrete and have sex!. You will be amazed on how much the thought of getting caught really helps with a rush very similar to swinging!.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Like you Taby_Daring I am constantly faced with the same dilemma. My hubby leaves the contact up to me, and like you he has just started a new business, and quite often, more often recently I want it BAD!!! We were out to lunch last Sunday and I had an insatiable need to play, I even found myself fantasizing about people in the hotel we were dining at. I told hubby and he then started to tease me, we did eventually leave and have a play, but I think I would have been bold enough to approach almost anyone at the time! Tam - Posted from rhpmobile

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MsSuperFoxy

12 years ago

I know this Topic is directed more at couples...however I just wanted to say (cause I met your partner). I hope your partner recovers quickly and gets well soon. XX AND I do hope that itch is cured in the near future, for the two of you. Foxy

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RHP User

12 years ago

The female of swinging couple I meet on here, once told me she gets restless if she's not getting sex after a few days.. In here words ' I love the feel of being penetrated ' She is a gorgeous lady.. so getting her way would not be a problem..

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RHP User

12 years ago

I think it's the same for any one the urge is strongest when you know you cant have it wether its because of an injury, that time of the month, an inappropriate place or the other half has just simply said no

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bliss2

12 years ago

mine started after 20 plus years of marriage. Trouble is, i'm now itching three times as hard.

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Taby_DK

12 years ago

Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' I know this Topic is directed more at couples...however I just wanted to say (cause I met your partner). I hope your partner recovers quickly and gets well soon. XX AND I do hope that itch is cured in the near future, for the two of you. Foxy Thanks Foxy, I hope he gets better soon too.. lol ;)He's doing a lot better than he was 2 weeks ago when he injured it, running along the beach of all places. But he's still having problems walking on it. Nothing we can do but wait for it to fix itself. Taby xx

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Taby_DK

12 years ago

Quoting 'allverynew' Like you Taby_Daring I am constantly faced with the same dilemma. My hubby leaves the contact up to me, and like you he has just started a new business, and quite often, more often recently I want it BAD!!! We were out to lunch last Sunday and I had an insatiable need to play, I even found myself fantasizing about people in the hotel we were dining at. I told hubby and he then started to tease me, we did eventually leave and have a play, but I think I would have been bold enough to approach almost anyone at the time! Tam - Posted from rhpmobile Hey Mrs allverynew, Glad to know we are not the only couple where the girl is mainly in charge or organising the swinging activities lol. I know exactly what you mean & I am very similar to you. When we go out in public I automatically start looking at couples & wonder if they are swingers lol Mr pretty much is focused on business 75% of the time so usually I'm on RHP while he's working haha I think there should be more females from couple who run the profile and organise meets, it seems to be to male orientated. lol Although we are a small minority I've noticed girls who run RHP couples profile usually all have a really high kinky sex drive & know what they want ;) Taby xx

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RHP User

12 years ago

Taby, maybe while our significant others are "busy" with business, we can get busy with business? Lol xx - Posted from rhpmobile

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JohnAnn2227

12 years ago

Hi Taby, I really start climbing the walls (and humping the furniture) if we go more than a month without swinging. We have "date night" that John's parents mind the kids on each month for swinging (not that they know) and my parents try to help out where possible. We have a couple of close friends that wlive 10 minutes away so it is sometimes get the kids babysat for 3 hours, go to their house for drinks, spa and wonderful sex and then go home with "the itch" satisfied. It used to be John who would suggest swinging nights more than me but the last couple of years I have been suggesting swinging a lot more than him. I must be reaching that sexual peak we read about.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Well it seems we both have that "itch" this weekend!!!! I guess I had better hop to it - Posted from rhpmobile

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