M56
The "Normal" lovers encounter
July 14 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
Maybe they were following your lead.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well my basic understanding is that the formula is written in the media, for example log onto a porn site and you are bound to see the same scenarios, girl loves anal, girl rides hard, etc etc. You may have encountered the same situation with two different women but you have to remember most girls are only comfortable to follow what is written in the rule book( if that even exsists), or what they have viewed. A good example of this would be to ask a handful of girls ' what is your ultimate fantasy'? I can guarantee that 80% of the answers will be unoriginal or the same. ... I don't know this is my thought, however don't give up on the creative, willing ones ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
maybe it was not them but you ie they took their cues from you.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Or maybe they read the same Cosmo mag before meeting you! LOL
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RHP User
16 years ago
Maybe there is something in the secret womens forum that they have come up with. Maybe if you give a better breakdown on what actually happened we may be able to explain it a bit better. It might be more normal than you think. Or others may have experienced the same.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks for the suggestions people. I can pretty safely say that the lady took the lead in both situations and was in control the whole time. Any suggestions I made were kyboshed pretty quickly. Both times the lady wanted to organise the room. Doesnt the bloke useually do this? They were both extreemly distant to the extent of not only having the TV on but constantly flicking channels. The sex was extreemly short and there was no kissing or eye contact. I know were were just meeting for sex but it didnt have to be so mechanical. I dont want to go into much detail incase these ladies were genuine but the more I think about it the more suspect they were using me just to get the room. Lol, if these ladies did read cosmo they didnt open the sealed section :) The experience has left me feeling slightly disheartend but still optimistic.
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playfulminx
16 years ago
This kinda sounds like something someone I know experienced. If you'd like to message me I can discuss in detail. Otherwise, hey... you got laid twice!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Oh Please, do tell me more Playful
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes, Descreteover, those circumstances sound familiar. I presume you paid for the room. She watched tv while you gave her the massage she demanded. She basically ignored you, and sex was really ordinary.... then you left... Two different women? So there are two of them now? This "person" has been discussed in secret men's forum. You did the chivalry gig, paid for an expensive hotel room... and see what happens? Tough love.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sounds like an encounter I had which was the absolute worst sexual experience I've had in my life. Actually sounds almost too similar. This woman was married and older than me also describes herself as attractive but I think she is kidding herself there. Anyway here's how it went. I paid for half the room and was told to get undressed and put a towel on in the bathroom. Came back in the room, She's lying on her front watching tv with just a bra on. She told me to massage her. All the while she watched tv, I was not allowed to go higher than the bra strap. Wasn't allowed to take the bra off, thought that was a bit weird. Shenever took her eyes off the tv. 20 minutes of massaging her then she puts a condom on me and wants it doggy. I'm not allowed to touch her pussy, she says she doesn't want fingers only the real thing. Still she's facing the tv. Then after only 2 minutes or so she tells me to 'cum with her' . I'm thinking she's gotta be joking but she orgasms then after only a few more minutes she says it again. I'm thinking, it's fine her husband obviousy has a problem and she has programmed herself to cum quick (I met a woman like that before), but this is only the start. Well I thought it was. After about 12 minutes and her 4 orgasms she tells me to lie on my stomach. Then she gives me a massage one handed while switching tv channels till she found something she wanted to watch and massaged for maybe 8 minutes. Then I'm told to go get dressed. I actually asked her if that was it, isn't it normally the girls have that line...lol. She said she had a family to get back to and she didn't have a lot of time. All in all I was in the room 48 minutes. Such a waste of time, had to come home and masterbate instead. I've never been to a hooker but it made me feel like it would've been better valuse and the hooker would've done a far better job. Will have to pre-qualify a lot better next time.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Gaz & Lovinlust, The more I think about it, the more I’m thinking that it was the same person both times. (Hangs head in shame at being duped twice) The first time I met here was in sydney three years ago then this week in newcastle. I didn’t make the connection because I never expected some would be doing this touring the country. Maybe we should make her some tour shirts LOL. What you describe is exactly what happened. She arranged the room. She asked me to bring protection and she brought the massage oil. I met her in the room. She showed me a receipt for the room but for privacy reasons she didn’t show me the top with her name on it (or the hotels name come to think of it). We went dutch and I paid cash. She lay face down and asked me to massage the back of her legs and butt. I wasn’t allowed anywhere near her bra which stayed on the whole time. After a while she got me to lie on my back, gave me a bit of oral while facing away from me. Once I was ready she wanted it doggy (again no eye contact). About two minutes is how long it took before she said "cum with me". Yes ladies even MEN think this is short! After this she gave me a back massage with copious amounts of oil then bounced me off to the shower. When I came out of the shower she was (apparently) on the phone, I think a tactic aimed at killing any potential conversation. I was bustled out of the room and, she stayed in the room. Sighs, Annother day older, annother day wiser.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yeah I didn't mention the phone, but was the same for me when I came out as well. Could well be the same woman. She said she hadn't met anyone since August last year, but this is to much of a coincidence to be seperate women unless there is some secret underground hopeless lovers cult. I do find it hard to believe you say you had it twice and didn't realise it was the same woman. I mean you surely would've recognised her the 2nd time even if it was 3 years ago. She couldn't look that much different.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Im sorry guys but WOW thats a very funny and surprising story there!!! Maybe she's a free hooker lol but not a very good one by the sounds of it...unless she's in training... LOL Hopefully you wont get caught out a 3rd time DescreteLover!! xx OhSoBi xx P.S this does sound exciting though...maybe i should do the same sort of thing...except i'll be alot better than that and no massages from me, i just like the good hard sucking and fucking!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sounds like a lady with a control problem who needs sex but hates men. Maybe her vibrator broke down. Its almost exactly the same as a story I once read in a collection of erotic womens short stories (about a hitchhiker in Ireland) I certainly will be asking women in the future if they can do without daytime TV during sex. Maybe it should be a checkbox on RHP. Thanks for the warnings
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RHP User
16 years ago
I was trying to work out how she could be using this as a scam and I think I may be onto something. If the guys she meets pays half the hotel fee and she is keeping them around less than an hour each, she can see several guys. This might explain why she was very particular about the time (originally said she had time at 6pm, no good at 7pm but was available at 10pm). It was around 20 minutes to when I was told to have a shower and get changed. So think about it, use the get dressed and phone trick to get them out the door with at least 10 minutes to spare. That would explain the hurry up and once out the door she is ready for the next guy. If she saw 6 guys for the day/night she would rake in around $700 after paying for the hotel. Not bad for little effort. Of course I have no proof of this but it would explain a lot of things.
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playfulminx
16 years ago
Based on a friend's experience on another site, I'd say so lovenlust. But what a sad woman... Is she that unattractive that she can't be a proper pro? Would doing it this way not get her charged for soliciting? The mind boggles... Can't someone contact the police and get them to catch her in the act? That would be awesome...
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think legally she would get away with it because she is just 'meeting people' and not asking for money for sex. Instead she is asking for money for the room. That is a key legal defence for her (no I don't work in the legal system but I watch Law and order...does that count...lol). As for the rest, if she worked as a pro she would actually have to perform, something she might not be interested in doing. It would be the client who tells her what to do which I think she would have a problem with. She would probably find it harder to find clients and not get paid as much (although others may be able to clarify this, I don't really know the going rates for these things). If she worked in a brothel they would take their cut and once again she probably wouldn't get as many clients due to competiton. So all in all I think it is a combination of those things Minx. Legally I believe she has set it up to protect herself and also probably doesn't expect people to cotton onto what she is actually doing. It wouldn't surprise me if she is on other sites as well and goes between Newcastle and Sydney setting days and nights up as a regular thing.There are so many guys online looking it wouldn't be hard for her to do it.
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RHP User
16 years ago
How were these women your lovers? ...I'm interested to know what you expected?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Playfull, As you said she's relying ong the fact that married men arn't in a position to stop her. The only thing that can be done is educate people that this woman is out there. Where was your firend when they were stung by this woman? We know for sure that she's covered sydney and newcastle I wonder how far she's traveled?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi XS, I try to keep my expectations to a minimum for a first meet because you dont know if you & your partner are going to click. What I do expect (and my profile states this quite clearly) is that my lover respect me and I will respect them. Beyond that everything is a process of negotiation. I hope this answers your question. DL
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks descret ...but I still don't understand how these women were your lovers?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi XS, Well I thought I was meeting a lover but as it turned out she was a scammer. A lover is someone who you have sex with for your mutual enjoyment. A scammer has sex with you for financial gain through deceptive means. At least a prostitute is honest enough to say "I'm not doing it for fun, just for money" I just feel sorry for the woman. It must be a lonely life running away from all these people she's hurt. DL
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playfulminx
16 years ago
Descrete I think XS means that she doesn't understand why you'd term what basically were one-stands as lovers as opposed to a shag, a f%^k or you know... I guess I kinda equate a lover as someone who you have a longer-standing sexual relationship with as opposed to a one-night stand but on the other hand, some people consider all sexual partners as lovers. Am I on the right path?
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RHP User
16 years ago
OK, I see where your comming from. It was the first time I met this woman and I went into it expecting that becoming lovers (havng a longer term sexual relationship) was a *possibility*. However, this would very much depend on if we clicked. I was quite happy to walk away from it as just a shag and leave it at that if things didnt gell. As it turned out, it would be a stretch to even call it that. I suppose the heading on my post is a bit missleading. I'll have to choose my words more carefully next time :) DL
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RHP User
15 years ago
I guess you've got stuck in a Groundhog day type of situation - you lucky you.
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