M38

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October 16 2009

Hi everyone I'd like to thank you for taking the time to drop by and read my first post.I don't intend on creating this as a double post - from the couple of pages i've looked through there isn't a similar one like what this is intended to be.I post this not for personal attention but to pull some ideas together that i've been having and hoping to gain input.Obviously i want to market myself to women but i also want to make good friends with people regardless of gender or sexual orientation.I've been wanting to update my profile - So what i wish to ask is what you'd like to see on a profile?I have a pretty generic profile at the moment with a few things about me, not anything really deep or too insightful and i have posted some pictures. Being a guest member it's safe to say i won't attract as much attention as a paying member would so i would like to stand out in a good way.I have a few ideas of my own like; -> Currently wearing (cologne): -> Currently reading: -> Currently listening to:among other things like maybe getting a mate to write a story about me that may provide some further insight that i may not be able to provide myself.Thank you for taking the time to read and/or post a reply.I look forward to your input.Cheers, HH

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RHP User

16 years ago

Hey! Currently wearing (cologne): I rushed out and bought a bottle of Burbery "London" as soon as I read that Miss Sophie likes it... lmfao.... true story... I've been looking for a new flavour... Not bad at all Sophie, thankyou! HH_Aussie, I'm going to be straight shooting with you mate. You've got a great lean body and some nicely shaped swimmers muscles and you really are a handsome devil, but man, the majority of your photos are crap... under exposed, out of focus..... you aren't doing yourself any favours there bud because you are photogenic. Start there with a good set of snaps of those washboards. As for the rest, well your an articulate man and it's obvious that there's more to you than you say on your profile. You don't need to say much. What you'll find is that most of the women are guests and can't contact you, so its just about useless trying to work up a relationship or meet... you get one message a month, right? Hugs Gazza

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RHP User

16 years ago

Gaz, as a guest and male he doesn't get any messages a month. Females are the only ones to get any free messages. So HH as Gaz suggests you aren't likely to get any action without being able to send messages. Even when you can there is no guarantee you wil get anything

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16 years ago

Oh Gazza.... A sexy guy who listens to what I say, takes my advice and will give me all the sex I want with anyone my little heart desires, be they boys or girls, is too good to be true :P lol..... run away to Italy with me baby, please?? HH_Aussie - seems to me that lovenlust is right about there being no guarantees on this site, there aren't any in life, either... the best you can do is be totally honest about who you are and what you're looking for so that you NEVER end up compromising yourself for someone who doesn't accept you... take it from a girl who knows ;) I haven't looked at your pics yet... will do that now!! :-)

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RHP User

16 years ago

Your profile seems pretty well typed up, if anything there's too much info on it. gaz is right with what he's said about your pics though. I'm new here, but active somewhere else, and it's just a fact that girls call the shots online.So until you start sending messages you'll get nowhere. Even then it's a struggle, there's nothing worse than coming across a fantastic profile of a girl, you spend an hour typing up the best message you can think of to her........ and then she doesn't even respond . Oh well. A mate got me online and his profile which is on the other site is all bs, literally all of it. About the only thing true is that he is a guy, sad thing is that he's very successful with it. He advised me to do the same and I refuse to, anyway I'm at home by myself tonight so here's to integrity

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RHP User

16 years ago

....your profile is fine just like it is.... Gaz is right about your photos, though... and please take lonely off your current mood... there are so many more positive things you can be... find one and live it! :)

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16 years ago

I changed it just for the birthday girl My profile may just be fine but i still feel that i can improve it and make it at least a bit of fun.Mainly it's just curiosity on my half, i always planned on updating my profile with some of the ideas i currently have - just wanted to hear everyone's two cents on the matter.As lovenlust put it so well i have a better chance of getting any sort of profile response from a female when pigs fly I'm well aware of that but i don't think i should let that get me down and just throw in the towel.This is an exercise of fun and curiosity. Plus i don't let guest membership stop me from getting my voice out there to the rest of the community.A guest member can always communicate through the forums and for that i am very thankful that RHP has let that be.Who knows maybe a guest lady that wishes to contact me might be bright and use the forums as a way of communication.I really appreciate the feedback guys.I hope to hear any more ideas that you may haveCheers, HH

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RHP User

16 years ago

I thought i was the only one that loved Gaz I've just updated my profile, its pretty much the same as it was, with different wording.Pictures are (i believe) the single most important thing, after all, if your photos suck, no-one will view your profile, thus it doesn't really matter how fantastic your write up is.I went for the casual pictures, matching what im hear for, with what i want from others....needless to say I wont be winning best arse or tummy awards anytime soon.....but 'best photo of you on the beach with your dog' Im totally in the running for that one

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16 years ago

Lmfao Sophie- I'd love to elope and live in Italy! Hehe. we can live on the streets like Gypsies!! Gtx- what happened to your dog's face? It's a face only a mother could luv! HH - I spent roughly one year as a guest and I can tell you it's difficult to take advantage of your opportunities as a guest even if you have access to this forum.... a couple of Dead gazpacho accounts are testimony to my attempts... but hey, I still made contacts so I'm sure you can. Hugs Gazza

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16 years ago

I hear that currently wearing/reading/listening - cool but one of the first things we look at is the"practice safe sex" any answer but always and we move on to the next profile......Bryan

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16 years ago

> but one of the first things we look at is the "practice safe sex" any answer but always and we move on to the next profile...... Whats wrong with "If required"? It depends on the circumstances. If I think they will be with many partners then i'd be with and if they don't have multiple partners I think without should be acceptable, assuming they agree. Its something that should be discussed at least.

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