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The Social Aspect
April 26 2015
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
We have made a few good friends, off this site, that we see regularly for drinks, dinner and if we are in the mood, sometimes a little more :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have made some wonderful, open minded friends that I can chat to about anything. My social circle continues to grow as I meet more great people through the ones I have met on RHP. I am loving it. Oh and the sex is great too 😉 See you tonight Koko. Baz xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
As so many of us are in the same boat after a divorce. Joint friends decide who that want to keep friends with or you have to choose for them as interaction can be tough for friends once this happens. So I joined the site to make some new friends that had nothing to do with my old life at all. Also to sexually explore to find who I really am in that context. So the first 12 months was pretty exciting to say the least. Now settled a little as I know more about myself now then I ever have. Looking to explore more now but hoping to find a partner to share that with. I have met some wonderful friends on here some now for two years. The last 6 months I have met some other great people as well. The last few catch ups have been awesome and really enjoyed meeting some genuine people. I agree RHP is more than just a sex site. Looking forward to tonights meet as well.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well Koko I am here for similar reasons like your own, without the break up side thank goodness. I would like to see some male comments as women seem to find friends in situations that arise through the meet and greets and couple time (if they are into it) more than I think men would. So nice to know you found this though and by taking time in the forums it is clearly easy to see why some have.
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RHP User
11 years ago
if it weren't for the social aspects of the site. The people I've become friends with (both with benefits and without) from the forums, the chat room and the social functions are the best things to come out of the RHP experience for me. I've traveled to Brisbane for a meet and greet and I'm off to Melbourne next month for theirs. Oh and I'll see you lovely ladies tonight too.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Than lovers I have found here..And a biggie has been the fora,and the meet and greets ..love it xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am looking forward to seeing you there xxFreya
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MsJonesy
11 years ago
than playmates.... they tend to come and go (pun intended). I love the social side of the site and have traveled a lot to attend meet and greets in Qld and NSW. It's a great way to meet up with friends and indulge in some sexy fun if I feel like it. I have great friends in a couple of different states, people I know well enough in other states who I could contact for a drink if in town, and some close friends here in Victoria. Some friends have been playmates, some haven't, some are yet to be.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am only here for the social side of things, for the sexually charged banter and to learn a few things along the way. Am not here for the sex side of things (though am never saying never) I have met some awesome people on here who are just as, or even more awesome in real life and they have all have opened my eyes to a lot of different ways people live their lives. Cheers W. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
For me it's not a sex hunting site! A couple of lady's here know my story so hope they understand. For me it's more about building up the trust and confidence I once held in people... I guess like many it's a journey for me... Yes I was hit for six but hit 3 times in a row... Proud as punch I raising my children :))
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RHP User
11 years ago
Meant to add like minded people here...
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RHP User
11 years ago
There wouldn't be much here for me on RHP. There are so many template profiles and women, even married women, looking for unattached men that the chances of me finding a lover here are minimal.I've made a few cyber friends here, I'd like to meet a few people face to face but realistically it's unlikely to happen. I have enough fun trying to discreetly meet up with my FWB as it is. To get out and about more would not be fair on Mrs D who knows I'm on sites like this and probably chooses not to inquire to much even after seeing a couple of clues...Yes I do tell little black lies about where I'm going and what I'm doing but if/when I'm asked specifically I will tell it like it is.She still gives me a hard time about my going to see Robbie Williams in Perth...he was good but he's not really my style and I don't think she bought the line I spun when I went
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Freya79' I am looking forward to seeing you there xxFreya xx
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Way2go70
11 years ago
I too am enjoying the fantastic social atmosphere of RHP, both in the chat room/forums and at the meets / social get togethers. Have met some truly amazing people on here and guess what,,,, they are normal people (and not sexual deviates as some vanilla's would have you believe!!!). The Perth meet last night was exceptional and everyone looked like they had a fab time. Old friends caught up and new friends were made. So chink chink to that. Here's to many more social outings like that all across the this fabulous country of ours, and to the RHP world that brings us all together. Looking forward to the Melbourne meet now. New friends to be made ;)
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
This site has no doubt changed my life within the 10 months I have been here. I will not go into my background, a few of you know, but it is true to say I arrived here with no friends and very little social skills in dealing with a friends situation as far as my female personality goes. Of course, the original aim was to meet people for sexual encounters but the ship altered course once I engaged in the forums and made some cyber friends. I learnt that I could be the real me again by chatting with very real people. That fact has made me reassess my situation in my everyday life and I am embarking on a different path in life that may take several months or many more to achieve. It's not without heartache and pain and cannot do it without the support that I have found in here from both my listed friends and others that simply care enough. And once on that path, the only friends that I will have, at least at the start, are those that I will have met within here. But with the positives of the friendships and interactions, there are several differences that cannot be overlooked when compared to the world outside of here. I can compare with the interactions that my male personality has in the outside world. It is so very dynamic in here. With a click of the mouse, a long term friend can be demoted or defriended at the whim of an emotion. Often once done, there can be no going back to repair that action. In the outside you may choose just not to interact and just not see them for a while and take that as a chance to think about thinks until you do bump into them again and choose to take up where you left off or keep things on ice for a while longer until you or they forgive or get over it.No chance of doing that when you are blocked or their messages are shutdown in here. It can be abrupt. The mouse button is a very powerful thing........... And friends that you have made or beginning to know suddenly shutdown their page and quietly vanish. Never to be seen or heard from again. Just a name left in the history of the forum, to remind you of someone you once chatted to. If you had not got their contact details, they might have well just died as you will never see or hear from them again. An empty spot in your thoughts. An empty spot on your friends list.............. So in answer to the OP's question, I have found it far more than a sex contact site. Yes a social site for sure but one so very different to what you may be used too. One that I am still learning how to use and trying very hard not to trip up with, again and again.So forgive me for rambling but wanted to share those thoughts.Annie xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Agree with everything the OP said, I wasn't expecting to make friends from joining a Sex Site, but over the last 3 years, I've met some of the best open, honest and friendly people that I am now proud to call some of my best friends.
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RHP User
11 years ago
We've made a few good friends we see pretty regularly through parties, meets etc and just drinks in the backyard or picnics. One thing we didnt see coming was a friendship with a couple which has been one of the best things to happen in our lives to date. We all get along famously, no topic is taboo per se, a little play session here and there and good fun whenever we catch up (which is pretty much every weekend). We even went on a family holiday together for Easter with our kids. If we don't meet anyone else from RHP it would be worth it for that one friendship alone, though we truly value the other friends we've made along the way as well. To be honest I don't think we use the site as a hook up site like others, more so just a means to find out where events will be held to attend as we'd much rather meet people in the flesh than trade messages ad nauseum and get shot down cos we dont fit someones ideal.
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RHP User
11 years ago
..... and continue to do so. It is very different to any other social network site I have been on. I have laughed and cried with many from here.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Love your work.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have been on and off this site for nearly ten years now (veteran I am ha ha!!) but only recently had my first social meet for a cuppa with a lovely lady that lives close to me a few weeks ago. I have to admit I was VERY nervous at first. It didn't take long for our conversation to freely flow as we'd had prior correspondence via RHP. In fact, our first time meet was quite stimulating and encouraging. Personally I am not on "here" for sexual encounters. Friendships first and then take it from there. Chemistry is a must!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm here to meet for sex....who honestly would knock it back??? But.... It's quite the road to get there for me - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I joined for sex but the friends I have made have been an absolute bonus! It's just so awesome the variety of people I have met...and being able to just be myself and not worry about being judged is so refreshing. I now spend most of my time with RHP people, and when I get invited to a muggle party I always think BORING! So, who's coming bowling....
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RHP User
11 years ago
were just discussing this on the weekend....for us the enjoyment of this lifestyle is 70-80% social. We honestly did not think we would make such wonderful friends whose company we enjoy with our clothes on or off. Some of our friends we see as often as we can, others our only interaction so far is chat or text. Though with the Melb Meet and Greet coming up, we will finally get to meet some face-to-face!!! I wonder if those who see this as purely a sex site are the ones who get cynical and bitter over the interactions they have.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Long ago when my marriage ended I made a vow to get out of the same old crew, the same people I had known since primary school, a very conservative crew, all married, kids, careers, Sunday BBQ's Football, and showing off the latest extensions to the house and land... YAWN I turned my back on it all, but the pubs and ventures into town where not really helping me find the type of people I was looking for. Then I went online, in reality I always thought of people that needed to use the net to find and make friends as socially inept, how wrong I was. So I happened on RHP by luck, the first social adult site I had ever joined. How little did I know, how much I had missed out on. Now 7 years on (gee almost 8 now) all my friends, everyone I see regularly, is either someone I met on RHP or indirectly, friends of RHP friends. I am a sexual deviant, I can not hang out with conservative family types, they shit me to tears. I enjoy my friends very much and I have completely blurred the line between lovers and friends. RHP is for me a source of friendship, that I get to have sex with many people I meet is a bonus but not the reason or the need. I love talking all night long, maybe more than sex, and RHP has given me access to many very interesting and wonderful people.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I thought this site was all about pies and baking. Not ONE recipe Not one. hmmmmm
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RHP User
11 years ago
I didn't expect to make the strong friendships I have here. But I have. Incredib;e mates. I've also been hung out to dry. I take it all with a pinch of salt. Short story, I win.
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precious142
11 years ago
And take it all - social or sex - as it comes!!!!! But do love hanging out with the RHP gals I have met on here.........bring on the bubbles!!!! And Uni....see you @ bowls Sunday.....x
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On_Safari
11 years ago
And am proud to say that I can count my RHP family if I use my fingers and toes plus someone else'. My orofile states I'm only here for the social scene and my existing platonic friendships. When I joined nearly 3yrs ago I never expected much. Now I have some awesome, brilliant, wonderful, verbose and inciteful/insightful people in my life whom I would sorely miss if they disappeared. I have a wingchick, a houdini, a soothsayer, a grammatically correct Angel, a saucy pocket rocket with a strapon, a country gent, a warning, some old Jack, a pussy whisperer, a pirate, a turtleman, ok kisses, a masseuse, an educator, a lawyer, a wet nurse, and so many others who don't post but peruse who bless my life, my facebook and my very existence. There are others who though we aren't "friended" and have had heated moments with I feel are friends anyway, maybe it's a better the devil you know thing (shrugs) but I think if I needed them they'd show support. If I don't have their number I know someone who does and ultimately if we value each other we may block each other but eventually via the forum or other means kiss and make ups DO happen here. The meet and greets are a wonderful investment for everyone, not necessarily sexually but definitely d socially. Bring on Melbourne in 17 sleeps and hopefully Sydney will be on again soon. Brissy well......had a giggle......zero fuss next time. Maybe a BBQ at Southbank (winky face) bring your own snag. Wonderful topic Koko, see you soon ~ Indy
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RHP User
11 years ago
What a great day we had yesterday! Lawn bowls, a few drinks, kids running around, and lots of laughter........not forgetting the BBQ. Hope we have a few more of these type of days in the future. Love spending time with my RHP friends, hope to meet more people at the gatherings in future xxx
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precious142
11 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' What a great day we had yesterday! Lawn bowls, a few drinks, kids running around, and lots of laughter........not forgetting the BBQ. Hope we have a few more of these type of days in the future. Love spending time with my RHP friends, hope to meet more people at the gatherings in future xxx I agree.......and here's hoping more peeps join in.Friendly, happy people in Perth......
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' I'm here to meet for sex....who honestly would knock it back??? But.... It's quite the road to get there for me - Posted from rhpmobile Daddy........ are we there yet?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Bummed I missed yesterday!!!!! Planned to come ah!!!! :(
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RHP User
11 years ago
Not being a very particular social person I would love to meet up with others from here and not just for sex but socially. I am not one that gets out a lot as my friend circle is is pretty non existent due to work and other things I commit myself too.......time to enjoy life I think hahaha. I quiet often head to the forums and read the comments that people post and have posted the odd one or two myself and I must say have learnt a few things from reading them, so thank you guys always good to read someone else's views, always good to get a mixed view on various topics. You all seem like a lovely lot of people woUld be nice to met you some day. How often are there meet and greets held in Brisbane? Time for this chick to venture out before I get too old hahaha.
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RHP User
11 years ago
This is the new social group for Perth people who want to meet up for purely social events. Some are suitable for children, as the Bowling Day was. Have a look, and if you are interested, add yourself as a friend Hope to see you soon! xx
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sweet_cherry69
11 years ago
The friendships I have formed with like minded women at parties- like at ted and jeans has been nothing short of amazing. Wendy - nor lady is my new BFF and we txt and talk every day. She is a hoot and I know I've found a friend for life. Cheers Rach 🍒
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