M41
The art of conversation.
July 10 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
pussy talk, guys love it haha. Firstly is this question directed at men and women? I'll give my thoughts anyway. Well, depends on the mood but I don't mind it being short messages to start with. I'd much prefer a 'Hey, how are you, great rig' opening comment, than a long speech about how hard he's going to make me cum, over and over of course. I do get stuck sometimes in those first few messages, not knowing what to say, not wanting to get too personal until I get a sense of him, so just general banter to begin with, then ease into a bit more. OP, you seem to be good with conversation, starting this thread, on it's own, says a lot. So long as you're comfortable, natural, and make the person feel at ease, the rest just seems to follow, finding mutual interests or whatever. But I think you come across really well. You asked about one liners, and I have to say I've had a few that have cracked me up, really funny and clever first messages, can't recall what was said on the spot now but humour and keeping the messages light hearted, as well as responding to what the other person has said, always goes down well with me. Ask more about things they've mentioned, showing that you're interested in the person you're speaking to and respect them. So many things can come into conversation, work, play, hobbies, sex, relationships, holidays, I tend to talk about coffee, beaches and sex a lot haha
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RHP User
10 years ago
sorry bud I can't help ya more.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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Dryphuz
10 years ago
I am me. When i converse, 'me' comes across. That makes the conversation unique and therefore memorable. It seems rinkky-dink and a bit disney, but being myself is the only thing that has ever worked for me. Possibly it works because I'm awesome, but i doubt that very much. More likely its the tendency of everyone to respond positively to honesty. If this method is not for you and you're more in the 'fake it till you make it' category, the author you're looking for is David Deangelo. His books will teach you how to be a self confident, super-smooth, pick up artist and totally hollow, shallow, paper person. Basically he teaches you to be that douche that is always picking up hot women even though he could be compared to the green scungy stuff stuck in the filter of the gene pool.
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RHP User
10 years ago
If there are guys with one-liners that work for them, I doubt they'll share them. As for me, I use something from someone's profile in my message title, and go from there.
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MissBishere
10 years ago
start a conversation like I would in real life. Generally I relate to something in their profile or a post they made so would be mentioning that in my message.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Where are you conversing with these people? Online or in person? Online, like Meander said, pick something from their profile to discuss. Why'd don't you give us a profile and we'll brainstorm. Could be fun. In person, pick something from the context to talk about.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hi, great weather we're having.....wanna fuck?
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RHP User
10 years ago
If you can't start a conversation ,then how will you continue one? XxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
I do think the first sentence can be the hardest though. Only once you've made a start can you gain momentum and keep the conversation flowing. But where to start?
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RHP User
10 years ago
How hard can it be..Just my opinion of course,something I am entitled too..or not ?..,its like profiles.,everyone wants someone else to write it for them...phttt
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RHP User
10 years ago
The expert says you have to look through your third eye and say "hello good looking, you look like trouble ". :p
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Freya70'Just my opinion of course,something I am entitled too..or not ?..,its like profiles.,everyone wants someone else to write it for them...phttt I hope that wasn't for me, as I thought we're just comparing different views? I've don't think I've ever told anyone "you're wrong" or "you shouldn't think that", opinions are our own, no? I agree about some people posting forums asking for things to be spoon-fed to them though (not saying it's the OP's motive). Hence my comment that guys wouldn't be likely to share their one-liners. I don't want to be anyone's Cyrano either.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' The expert says you have to look through your third eye and say "hello good looking, you look like trouble ". :p You might want to throw a little neg in there, to get her intrigued. Or even better, ignore her completely and use this line on her girlfriend, that will get her attention!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Why you want to start talking to the person you want to start a conversation with. I mean really... there has to be a reason you want to talk to them. If it's a woman / man on here, as stated above, read their profile, find something that you both can relate to and use that. Usually a message will stand out if it's something that holds their interest. Good luck, it's really not rocket science, I'm sure after you've initiated a few, it'll be just like riding a bike, you never really forget.
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