SecretGarden2

SecretGarden2

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The couples scam

July 24 2025

It seems to be an interesting tactic now that is being used by single guys ( or guys in a relationship looking for something extra ) who post a couples profile, contact couples and then suddenly for a myriad of reasons suddenly the female half is unavailable but the guy is keen for a mfm. I know it is really hard out there for single guys as the competition is fierce but it has happened to us sooo much lately! Was just wondering if others have noticed this as well. Just curious 😀😈

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 months ago

    Men pretending to be couples or even women is about as old as the discovery of fire. What’s your vetting process? How stringent is it to ensure the people you’re talking to exist? I’ve genuinely been catfished / scammed early in my Rhp exploration (some 10-11 years back). Good education, however. Also, you can really tell the difference between a male and a female taking. It’s like different species’.

  • Cucknshells

    Cucknshells

    10 months ago

    It reminds me of the Rockefeller killing in Melbourne. A man posing as a couple meets another couple on his own. Once things lead to another and he gets chopped. Its deception and it has always happened as long as I have been on here. Some men (not all) will do anything to get their dick wet. Just saying. I wish it was easier connecting with like-minded people who are looking for the same thing but it isn't. Its hard for everyone and it goes both ways. There are a lot of fake men and women profiles. Shells xx

  • OpalRose

    OpalRose

    10 months ago

    Not new. This is considered a ‘classic’. I wonder how often it works? Never heard a single person ever say “yeah we said fuck it doesn’t matter just come on over”.

  • TwoPlusOneIsFun

    TwoPlusOneIsFun

    10 months ago

    We have found that there are a lot and I mean a LOT of single women profiles that are created by non English speaking men.. If you read their bios or if they message you, you can 100% tell it’s not a woman and English is not their first language.. We stay away from non verified accounts (but even some verified accounts aren’t safe) and if they only have 1 picture or no picture we don’t bother.. Also, if they ask for pictures up front without even a little polite conversation then we delete them.. We’ve found it takes patience (a lot of patience) and serious detective work 🤷‍♀️ It’s such a shame because there are some amazing, genuine single women on here but it’s these types that ruin it and can make you feel like it’s not worth it..

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    10 months ago

    Noticed? This is nothing new and has been commonplace since we first joined donkeys years ago. They are actually fairly easy to spot...... Pics lacking both together and the conversation reeks of married male playing without permission.

  • Nightglider

    Nightglider

    10 months ago

    Seen this to many times. Part of the reason I no longer entertain looking for couples. So many where it becomes clear they’re only after one on one play, and there is no Mrs.

  • ElectricDreamers

    ElectricDreamers

    10 months ago

    A party hosted once told us a funny story - a prerequisite for an invite was a woman to woman phone call... When the man called she insisted on talking to the wife... He then tried a very unconvincing woman's voice...

  • Switch0820

    Switch0820

    10 months ago

    We tend to ask to speak to them on the phone early. If they decline, it normally means they are not who they say they are. We also had "we don't talk on the ph as we dont give our number out." Which obviously make meeting for a date near impossible. Not sure what they think someone is going to do with it. As numbers can be blocked in a heartbeat. Our experience has found those that wont speak on the ph are full of it. Pick hunters and will never meet up. So we now move on really fast from them. Love to hear how others deal with them?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 months ago

    Yeah noticed this a lot by bi guys wanting cock too

  • JSfantasies69

    JSfantasies69

    10 months ago

    We find this so sad, but it is a regular occurrence. Be mindful peeps! 💕

  • Generousgent

    Generousgent

    6 months ago

    No different to a 'single Female' profile which states my partner 'maybe involved. Just put a couples profile on. Funny how the comments indicate a bias to men cheating but a single woman's profile isn't.