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The fantasy I can't even give away...

August 14 2011

I love men, that's a given I think from my previous posts.I have a huge fantasy of spoiling a man, in a NON bi 3 some. I don't want any interaction with the other female ( apart from smiles, conversation and consent )I'd love to spoil a man with my attention, lavish it on him, and have it not be anything about the women in the room. I'd like for him to do what he pleases with us, and us to him.....seems enticing enough right?I can't get it going on, seems most women feel like I want to steal their man ( don't need another I have a good one already) , or that will be cold or rude ( I am not at all, very friendly just not in ANY way bi) I have tried to get this going for about 2 years now, is it just not appealing to anyone ( in a relationship) I would like for it to be a committed married relationship, something the man perhaps has lusted after for a while, nt just a fuck buddy type thing....perhaps I am being to specific with my needs :) Anyone done this before? was it fun?

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RHP User

14 years ago

I'm trying to find it in my head, where a guy wouldnt let you do to himwhatever you wanted to ??? and what woman wouldnt want to watch you do it ??? god help the world... what has it come to when a sexy woman cant have exactly what she wants! (and to think i'm only just down the street from you today Bris? lol)

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RHP User

14 years ago

And you can't get this in a swingers club situation? I think you probably could.

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RHP User

14 years ago

Me and another girl. Just lie back baby and take it..... Yes very nice for the man it was too. If you have a perfectly good man of your own, why not try to find another woman and do that for your man instead of another? I am sure he would like it.....what man wouldnt?

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RHP User

14 years ago

You're a stunning woman Del, I can't imagine not wanting to play with you, but perhaps there is a fear factor in there..but that's others insecurity and not your issue..hell if I had a play partner I'd invite you! However, I will just have to remain all yours all on me lonesome :P xx

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RHP User

14 years ago

Another couple complaining they aren't getting any. Oh wait, they're actually serious? Thats not so funny anymore.

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RHP User

14 years ago

I have done this to my hubby , and we had a lot of fun, but I want to be the other woman in a couple's bed.Meeka nope, the women at swingers clubs are 90% very BI, and don't want a non bi woman, I very rarely get any action there!! ( we have been to many) seems hetro is a dying breed

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RHP User

14 years ago

Your right it maybe harder than you think to find I agree loads of play at clubs is Bisex for girls and yes its a sharing senario for most. I still think you can find it but its a senario that needs to be pre arranged with a couple that are very comfortable..We have met a number of couple that for the female of the couple it a fantasy of just seeing her man with another women. Yes they often do like the bisex idea but I think with a bit of assurance to the other half (yes women get a little worried there guys are going to run off, look at your pics ....those curves .......HELLO )..We have had this work for us so it can happen. . Brae .............

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RHP User

14 years ago

... Why you are having trouble finding a couple prepared to share themselves with you in order to cater to this fantasy! . Whilst I am bisexual and personally prefer threesomes to be an activity all parties can share in equally, I could still appreciate this as one very hot encounter that I know my other half would delight in! Perhaps your problem really does lie with females who are compromising on their comfort levels and not being prepared to "play the game" willingly and share their man with you unless there's something in it for them ... don't know *shrug* ... Still, I would have thought there'd be plenty of couples out there who were open-minded enough to participate and love every minute of it. . I tend to agree with Brae that if it is discussed and prearranged as a scenario, surely you can find a couple with a female open-minded enough to take part! Keep up the search, that sounds like one hot encounter from where I'm sitting!! . Flirty x

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RHP User

14 years ago

There would be many! I know 2 couples at least that would!!!

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RHP User

14 years ago

if you go to a club as a couple then go looking for FFM ?For a hetero woman at a swingers club not to be able to find a hetero couple wiillng to play is a bit hard to believe.

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RHP User

14 years ago

I know it sounds crazy...and you'd think i'd have all these messages and offers after this post.....?One, and her hubby works away for months and is gone right now.The thing is (I guess), i am not just going to jump into bed with anyone, of course I need to be attracted to them, so, if I was not a little fussy, I guess this could have been ticked off my list years ago.Puppy, but do they live in Queensland? :)

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RHP User

14 years ago

We missed many a opportunity with couples because she is nearly always bi.. We dont want that either. Im happy for someone to please my man like you say.. Good to know someone thinks the same way.

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RHP User

14 years ago

...Ever becomes a Sydney suburb, consider that fantasy sorted.That will be all.

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