M52

The female body

July 28 2018

So I’ve been in here for a few years now and have met some lovely ladies, this one is for the guys though. I read profiles that say women’s bodies are average and a little extra padding, these ladies don’t know what they have, they are gorgeous bodies that someone has obviously given them a complex about. Women who are (from what I can tell by pics) that wouldn’t even have a muffin top saying they have an average body, up to women who might have a little muffin top saying they are large. Don’t get me wrong, I think all women are beautiful and hav dated lovely ladies from size 6 right up to a size I wouldn’t even know a number, but come on, you ladies on here need to know what you’ve got and not be so harsh on yourselves. Let me know what you think guys.

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RHP User

7 years ago

Is in the eye of the beholder What we as men need to do is to encourage and worship our women - regardless of size. When society constantly tells a woman she is not good enough because of her size then after a while she will begin to believe this and measure herself against other women. It’s through our words and actions as their partners and lovers that will help them see their beauty. Once they see their beauty there will be no holding them back - so we’d best be prepared for when they unleash - trust me, it’s beyond words how amazing it is!! MrRedmustang - Posted from rhpmobile

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FeistyFatty

7 years ago

Maybe dudes referencing their "muffin tops" dont help the conplex either lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

Perhaps they are overestimating their size to avoid being accused of lying about it? We all know the tales of people arranging meets only to find when they rock up that their prospective dates' profile picture was clearly taken in leaner times.

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RHP User

7 years ago

I am a size 12, and I call myself average. I see ladies who are probably a 18/20 call themselves average and that I disagree with. It's not a case of being hard on yourself it's a case of women not being honest about their body shape. I was a size 16, I didn't like being that size, I did something about it. It all depends on how you view yourself.

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RHP User

7 years ago

..The women you're talking about are just being humble by describing themselves as Average or A little extra padding.I would, if I was a woman with a fit body...humility is just part of my make up. It's like the "My info" bit on looks. Maybe not everyone is comfortable describing themselves as Attractive or Very attractive, even if they are in the traditional western sense.And the "See my photo" option is there for the rest of us.

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RHP User

7 years ago

The options are thin, slim, athletic, average, a little extra padding & large. By that, I'm average. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

Quoting 'Koolgrey' ..The women you're talking about are just being humble by describing themselves as Average or A little extra padding.I would, if I was a woman with a fit body...humility is just part of my make up. It's like the "My info" bit on looks. Maybe not everyone is comfortable describing themselves as Attractive or Very attractive, even if they are in the traditional western sense.And the "See my photo" option is there for the rest of us. Kool, your constant bragging about your humility is starting to come across as oxymoronic. As for the OP, I have always found that most women on here are rather aspirational when rating their body type but you get the occasional stunner who undersells herself and I would guess a certain percentage of these are fishing for the "you're far from average" compliment.

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RHP User

7 years ago

They are just pigeon holes and I don't think many women know where they fit on that scale. I see many here and in real life that see themselves as extra padding and what I would like to ask is where the hell is it. Yep, like so much it is in their minds. Societal ideals and values have to be blamed. Every generation has a particular look that is the popular for the time. The Bottcelli's, the Rubens, Twiggy and if I were more knowledgeable so many more. Males also suffer but to nowhere near the extent. I do love the young women and girls of today seemingly not worrying so much on these things finally. I say love yourself as you are and everyone else.

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MsSuperFoxy

7 years ago

Because I know my perfect imperfections. I'm more than super ok with them. 😊 Ms Foxy

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Seachange73

7 years ago

Women's bodies can change from week to week, month to month depending on what's going on in Their personal lives. I'm between 10-12 depending on my hormones and how busy I get with work n travel. For most of the time, I'm comfortable with myself and my body. I'm body/health conscious. The time of the month also makes me bloat a bit and I have to work out harder in the gym, time permits. So I put mine as athletic because I am, despite the fluctuations. Would I change my body type to slim when I'm a 10 this week? Or during my 'bloaty' days (period or just too many work lunches/dinners), should I change that to average? No. Can't be bothered as Im.busy and don't login into rhp that often anymore. People who met me can verify I pretty am like my pics as I have full body pics, not just the cropped close-focused cleavage or propped shots. It's about perception. One may perceive themselves, male or female, slimmer or larger than reality. And that is ok. It is up to the other party/parties to judge when they meet them in person how far the person has strayed from reality. I've met some people who seem attractive on their profile pics but are 10-15 kilos heavier. For most of the time when I walked away, it wasn't the weight difference that was disappointing/turn off, but the lack of personality. Too quiet, too boring for me. So physical attributes is important and a good start but not all encompassing. My opinion.

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RHP User

7 years ago

Can't be accused of being a fake then. Peachy

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RHP User

7 years ago

No size does not matter it's whats in the heart and mind. You lady's be happy with whatever size shape you are if they don't like it there drama not yours

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FeistyFatty

7 years ago

I think women and men on these sites need to be more brutally honest about their bodies when ticking the boxes. Ive seen alot of mens (majority) state they're athletic.... but to me they're average or slim at best. Whilst females ive seen who are easily size 18/20 Plus and they too say average..... unless they're 6 foot 2 they should be honest and say Large. BUT, at the end of the day it's how present yourself, and thankfully... beauty is in the eye of the beholder - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

People have their own preferences and assess themselves in their own way (Ie.... “ athletic” seems to be a reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeally broad term in here ....... it’s as if darts players are athletes lol) That’s where photos help people make their own determination, if they so choose DG - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

first step be sober , 2nd , put glasses on , 3rd step get on scales before hand , then decide if ur a 6 foot muscled 9in god with a heart of gold , or a tight assed blond bimbo that should be a gold coast meter maid , its called delusions of grandeur, but dont let that stop u achieving ur limits

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