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The hope clause
January 09 2015
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
means nothing to me. Experience has taught me that if your heart falls for someone, common sense ends up making absolutely no sense at all.
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
if you put NSA on your profile to protect your existing circumstances, such as an existing marriage or partner for example, you should not be here. It's something that cannot be controlled and you are risking a world of pain for a lot of people including yourself. All for a root.......
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RHP User
11 years ago
Because Im now looking for a regular FWB. Not marriage.......... just one regular guy to hang out with and have fun. Its so much better with someone you know. like and enjoy their company. However - I think some guys write that on their profile as a lure, with no intentions of having anything more than a one night stand.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Its used mostly.... as a rejection-bomb defuser, as Koko has said. To me.... if you're genuinely single... and that one person comes along who you just have to be with... and its mutual...... the "open to more than NSA" part just... sorts itself out.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Couldn't agree more, happens way to often for my liking That's all I want too just one regular FWB, and they say unicorns are hard to find haha.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Some women write NSA as a lure when what they really want is a relationship. Pity people have to play mind fuck games instead of just stating what they really want so no one is fucked over. The truth is if big attraction happens writing NSA on your profile won't change a thing.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Any mention of NSA and I tend to avoid the person :/ clause or no clause. Sounds strange on a site like this but I'm really here to find open minded friends to chat and hang out with rather than shagging... And if they have NSA they are here looking for a shag :) so it's cross purposes and we are likely to not get on Xxviolet
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RHP User
11 years ago
Interesting comment :) we have flirted with you but you profile now says man only??
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RHP User
11 years ago
is usually where I stop reading a profile. There are always exceptions to any rule and if they sound interesting in their description of what they are looking for, then I might reconsider.*No string attached to me equals someone who just wants a quick shag and is not interested in me for anything else. That's not why I'm here. My screening process tends to quickly weed those out.*LG
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RHP User
11 years ago
No not really an interesting comment, I wasn't referring to me as a unicorn, I was just saying that finding a regular FWB seems to be as elusive as a finding a unicorn.
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RHP User
11 years ago
U6me9 sorry, fat fingers strike again duh
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6exxy
11 years ago
Most people are looking for someone but doesn't want to look desperate, maybe they have fears from past relationships or whatever the reason. However if something strong comes along most people yield to their heart💗
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RHP User
11 years ago
Have what you could call a hope clause on my profile, as I would like to find a partner one day to live with. Otherwise it's FWB. I used to have NSA listed until I realised that it apparently refers to one-nighters, not what I want. Yes, even FWB is like looking for a unicorn, as though I am out of town, and state I am in town (Melbourne) several times a week, people still want FWBs to live quite close to them. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
that more people don't actually think about what they want. They just sign up as they're missing intimacy. But I think that that intimacy is defined differently to the sexes. So in the meantime they just write whatever it is that they think that will simply increase their chances of obtaining their intimacy.....which is detrimental to their cause really, for both sexes. A little acknowledgement and/or personal acceptance of what they truly desire goes along way in being honest with others. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
With you SirStir. Ps..saw you grocerie shopping a couple of days ago Freya but I didn't have the fortitude to introduce myself💕 K xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'u6me9' Interesting comment :) we have flirted with you but you profile now says man only?? I'm a unicorn, but am now looking for men only as well. We can change who we are looking for as our needs change, no?
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RHP User
11 years ago
For me means No Spooning Afterwards. I don't want a one night stand but steady lovers, and I think there are always some strings involved in anything ongoing. Also, abbreviations in profiles turn me off in general. Looking for a NSA FB who is DD free and has a GSOH? Good for you, not so much for me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'u6me9' Interesting comment :) we have flirted with you but you profile now says man only?? I'm a unicorn, but am now looking for men only as well. We can change who we are looking for as our needs change, no? Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'u6me9' Interesting comment :) we have flirted with you but you profile now says man only?? I'm a unicorn, but am now looking for men only as well. We can change who we are looking for as our needs change, no? People who never change their minds and are always right end up being the dumbest of our species. Epigenetics, please contribute.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Naughty K..I am actually quite friendly😃..Next time say hello..Hugs xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting your response to u6me9! Elusive ? Didn't think I was elusive lol ;),,
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RHP User
11 years ago
Anywhichway you took the words out of my mouth. And this NSA what does it mean????Nothing RHP should take it out. I saw on profiles they took the two last columns away too, so now people have to write in their own words what they are into and their status, or nothing. I take it as it comes, I don't write NSA, again this three words have no meaning for me......In my mind I am open to all, what will come will come. Nothing is written in stone.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting '50zcool' Some women write NSA as a lure when what they really want is a relationship. Just like some men write they're open to more with the right person, when they're not.
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MissBishere
11 years ago
I read profiles but they don't always mean a hell of a lot.. People stretch the truth, say what they think others want to hear, leave bits out and outright lie. I put more emphasis on their actions. However I do hate the abbreviations on profiles same as I detest text speak and I do hate the phrase no strings attached...I don want a few strings in that I want ongoing and I want a movie occasionally and then a night of mind blowing sex. Its not rocket science!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Wasn't that assumed already ? Whatever. I'll except your tit for my tat. 😃
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RHP User
11 years ago
Bftf. Boyfriend that fucks. Gftf. Girlfriend that fucks. 😍
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RHP User
11 years ago
one 50zcool like it better the NSA
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RHP User
11 years ago
Off topic - apologies in advance. Love the new profile pic & name. Why the hell aren't you 10 years older and living in WA?! Much love, Elle xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
I also stop reading when I see NSA, and that's because I want strings for sure. I agree that most profiles that say the person is open for something more are probably using that as a lure and yes, I know this a sex site, and my chances of finding what I'm looking for here are very limited, blah, blah, blah. But I'm still going to take my chances, because it beats the hell out of the vanilla dating sites lol. Plus I enjoy the forums too much :) Much love, Elle xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
I use NSA or FWB to communicate that I'm open to anything from a single hook-up to a long-term string of encounters – including friendship or some sort of emotional connection (something a single hook-up is admittedly unlikely to yield) – but that I don't want a relationship. Ah, but what's a relationship, you ask? Well, that's where personal definitions become important. In other words, you'll have to ask me.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
I'm off to update my profile now!!! (Runs off to the poota in the office)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' I'm off to update my profile now!!! (Runs off to the poota in the office) That's awesome, love how you used it, exactly what I envisioned. It's true, that grey area between one night stands and serious relationship is simply that people want a Girl/boy friend ! That fucks real good !
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting '50zcool' Quoting 'On_Safari' I'm off to update my profile now!!! (Runs off to the poota in the office) That's awesome, love how you used it, exactly what I envisioned. It's true, that grey area between one night stands and serious relationship is simply that people want a Girl/boy friend ! That fucks real good ! A consistently good fuck is just not enough to push me into a relationship. Sometimes love isn't enough, either. In my relationship experience (including one lasting 15-yrs), numerous factors have to align for it to work.
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