M32

The idea of inviting another or couple.

March 06 2021

So me and my other half 6/10 times always discuss inviting another or couple into our play lives mid-way through sex. Just the thought usually kicks in another sexual boost and gets us both rowdy and talking about how we'd like it to go down. It's come into talks alot over the past year & its kind of getting to the point where I don't want to talk it out any more and want to put the intriguing talks into play. I know for a fact that she wants too see this out just as much as I do, at least give it another go. As we have had the joys of having another F join us a few years ago before children. We've discussed whom of our friends would definitely be up for it but I'm not sure about that as I don't want the privacy of our sexual lives impeded on, as if we're *that couple* amongst friends. My question is though...is it worth wild planning a weekend away and surprising my other half with the thoughts she just so happens to verbalise during sex? As I more PREFER the idea of another F. she by the sounds of it would like a M too join us. She is Bi 100% and myself 100% straight. Anyone else been in the predicament & made this happen? Would love too hear someone else's experience 🙂

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MsSuperFoxy

5 years ago

Absolutely do not surprise her. You would be removing her choice and setting yourself up for an embarrassing situation for all involved. If you want a successful outcome, involve her and let her choose. After all, its all about her. Have you tried attending an event first? Like a local Adult club or something like that. Meet people, get a feel, dip your toes, then go from there. Ms Foxy

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hotcouplexx

5 years ago

Surprise her she'll love it.

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AnnieWhichway

5 years ago

A surprise..... You'll be surprised at her reaction...lol Let her drive the vehicle. If you drive, your erection will get caught in the steering wheel and you'll crash and burn. It's her journey, let her drive it

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FeistyFatty

5 years ago

Hells no. Get a couples profile and explore together.... equally. And tread carefully. Not all fantasies are meant to be fullfilled. This lifestyle is not for everyone. Best of luck to you both😊

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SpicyKale

5 years ago

We’d say hell no too! Besides the lack of informed consent (no matter how well you know your partner) you’re involving someone else you don’t even know in it! I can’t understate how pissed we’d be if someone pulled that on us and one half of the couple we were meeting didn’t know why we were there

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RHP User

5 years ago

Just do it anyway. What could go wrong ? Lol

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nightingale8

5 years ago

Go halfway and choose a selection of delicious males you think you would be ok with. Choose ones with experience not just fantasy (eg who have stated they have experience in MMF or validated) so as to lessen the chance of being let down. Get a face, clothed pic, and dick pic (if desired from the lady). Present the selection to her for her perusal. Make a meet first play later date! So much fun ‘shopping’ for a stud this way. Even though you’d prefer another female, if this is for her fantasy act accordingly 😉

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Sawadee

5 years ago

Sex is such a powerfull thing and is why our fantasys are so damn good.. But faced with the fantasy when your not expecting it can be downright scary. Personally ' l love the idea ' but common sence tells otherwise. Maybe you should ask her how she feels about being surprised and wether its worthwhile pursueing? She might surprise you with her answer but then again maybe not. But at least you both know... Mrs S had 2 great experiences , but we discussed both , both times..

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DonnaBrett

5 years ago

For a start , you have a single profile here. so that immediately rings alarm bells. If your wife is truly up for some couples fun make a couples profile and include her in the process. We can absolutely guarantee that some unsuspecting couple is not going to want to be caught in the middle your domestic blow up if your "surprise" suddenly heads south when your wife freaks out.

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