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The infamous BLOCK button

April 28 2013

As I was in the chat room last time, the conversation of blocking others came up, as well as the particular reasons certain people were both using it or on the flip side what they were blocked for... And the famous 'gang blocking' where groups of people block the 1 person for one reason or another.. I was just wondering others point of view on this and what instances you would feel the need to block a particular person/s :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I think when people hide their profile it appears that you have been blocked....it may not be that at all,they just don't want people looking at their profile or sending flirts and messages..go figure.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    That sounds nasty.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    sends a nasty message to a person...then blocks them as they are guttless wonders   the fuck off and leave me alone, for the pesky critters that think NO is a definate maybe   the I am to sexy for my own good, so I will cull you before you even think about it, you ugly fuckers   the I/we are special and you/they are beneath us and blocking makes us feel even more special..cause we live in cyberland and this is our version of "off with their heads"   I have blocked one guy because dispite all my nice messages...he could not and would not get a clue.   also its a way of sorting out your mail. if you dont like em you can block em and that cuts the emails down a bit . after all there is thousands and thousands of men that want me I only have one pussy and its made of pure gold   I think couples have to do it to flick of the single guys single girls do it cause they can   dudes do it cause they pushed the wrong button on the keyboard.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'tuscanred' sends a nasty message to a person...then blocks them as they are guttless wonders   the fuck off and leave me alone, for the pesky critters that think NO is a definate maybe   the I am to sexy for my own good, so I will cull you before you even think about it, you ugly fuckers   the I/we are special and you/they are beneath us and blocking makes us feel even more special..cause we live in cyberland and this is our version of "off with their heads"   I have blocked one guy because dispite all my nice messages...he could not and would not get a clue.   also its a way of sorting out your mail. if you dont like em you can block em and that cuts the emails down a bit . after all there is thousands and thousands of men that want me I only have one pussy and its made of pure gold   I think couples have to do it to flick of the single guys single girls do it cause they can   dudes do it cause they pushed the wrong button on the keyboard.   Dudes do it to block serial pests, usually but not always other dudes !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'tuscanred' sends a nasty message to a person...then blocks them as they are guttless wonders Yep! Few of those around!   the fuck off and leave me alone, for the pesky critters that think NO is a definate maybe Had to resort to that a few times now   the I am to sexy for my own good, so I will cull you before you even think about it, you ugly fuckers   the I/we are special and you/they are beneath us and blocking makes us feel even more special..cause we live in cyberland and this is our version of "off with their heads"   I have blocked one guy because despite all my nice messages...he could not and would not get a clue.   also its a way of sorting out your mail. if you dont like em you can block em and that cuts the emails down a bit . after all there is thousands and thousands of men that want me I only have one pussy and its made of pure gold Good way of cutting down on unwanted emails or flirts if they don't get the hint after ten messages or flirts that are way too polite...   I think couples have to do it to flick of the single guys single girls do it cause they can   dudes do it cause they pushed the wrong button on the keyboard.

  • BrightBubbly

    BrightBubbly

    13 years ago

    I have blocked one guy after we caught up for drinks and then he never called me again. Now, I have no problem with that but he would look at my profile 3-4 times a day. I left it alone thinking eventually he would get bored and move on but after a couple of weeks I had had enough and blocked him.I have blocked one guy who sends me multiple flirts at a time. I respond thanks but no thanks and then a few days later he does it again.I have blocked the nasty and rude - that goes without saying.I have also blocked those that constantly look at my profile and don't do anything. No flirts, no messages - that is just strange !!!

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    13 years ago

    But to block several bombarders in the early days of my sign up, who had sent me numerous flirts and emails after I politely said no to them. Their mails filled up my inbox quickly and it was tiring to have to separately deleting their messages each time I logged in, because not all of the mails in my inbox that I wanted to clear. So, the best solution I could think of was to block them for good! I just did myself a favour, that's all :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Really - Is that for real?? ... Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    That should have a gang style mentality, is when you're feeling the love...- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    grapewine speaks of these gang blocking and taking it further by discussing/ bitching/bastardising (dont want to leave the males out :) certain members and then attacking them in chat rooms to forums or FB (Oh my!)I'd say the blocking is a great thing when used by someone not taking a hint of NO or just plain out attacking members via messages as because the member said no to them and etc. YES! previous forums has spoken of this and the consensus would agree I'm sure.Some also send unwarranted messages when the recipients profile clearly says that their profile dont match. Go Figure.ps Meeka - NOT guided at you btw, as me have locked keyboards before. :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I've never blocked anyone.   I don't check out who has looked at my profile, so it worries me not how many times someone might check me out.   I don't respond to flirts, nor even check them, so again, it worries me not how many someone might send me.   I have a template reply to all messages, so again, i don't feel the need to make any further response to the "Hey, Wanna Fuck?" messages   I respond in person to any individual, well thought out messages who have clearly read my profile. More often than not it's a simple, sorry, i'm not looking just now.   I've never had to block anyone who was rude or obnoxious as i've never had that response from anyone.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    especially have you have a bad memory (ME!) and RHP has deleted previous messages (well thought out and appealing messages might I add, lol) sent to attractive women.When I receive an email saying "thanks for your message but I am not interested/you do not match/", I reply saying "Thank you for your message" and then block them.THEN, later, when I see their profile and I go WOW!!! and my blood rises, and I go to send them a message, RHP very kindly pops up and says "you have blocked this member, unblock them if you want to send them a message"S & P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    who continue to check out my profile where I clearly state... I AM A STRAIGHT MALE...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    The chatrooms can be ferocious... And people think it's bad on the forums. It's like play school on here in comparison. All the whispering that goes on in chat, then you can see people texting each other at the same time. Group dynamics. Getting people to conform to the group norm. And also everyone likes a bit of drama especially when things have gotten a little boring. I have about three pages of men blocked. Most of the time it's guys that keep emailing me even though I have said I wasn't interested. I just block them ... Saves them wasting a message on me as well. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I never check who has viewed me. I don't care really. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Jay_Me' who continue to check out my profile where I clearly state... I AM A STRAIGHT MALE... I'm going to start doing the same... Think its my kinda longish hair that lures em in :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Jay_Me' who continue to check out my profile where I clearly state... I AM A STRAIGHT MALE... Spite ? I mean who gives a shit if they just look.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'friskyeatin' Quoting 'Jay_Me' who continue to check out my profile where I clearly state... I AM A STRAIGHT MALE... I'm going to start doing the same... Think its my kinda longish hair that lures em in :)   To quote King Louie in Jungle Book: They wanna be like you-ou.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Can't remember why exactly but I'm sure it would have been a bad vibe. If I get the heebie geebies about someone, I'll block.

  • havingfun40

    havingfun40

    13 years ago

    What annoys us about blocking is that people who block you can still access your profile and you can do nothing to stop them. That has happened to us a few times - especially when we discover guys pretending to be couples and tell them.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    we have.....one couple...because he kept asking to play behind his wifes back...and we kept saying 'no thanks'.... the rest are all male...i wont say 'men' because thats not what i believe their behaviour showed... of these males, 3 in particular are from the forums.... sadly they showed us an entirely different face to the one they showed the rest of the forum inhabitants.......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Jay_Me'who continue to check out my profile where I clearly state... I AM A STRAIGHT MALE... many.....of the guys who contact us for meets/play have 'straight' on their profiles...but when we ask, they say 'yea I'm Bi'......so its really not an indicator at all, maybe they are 'hoping'.... maybe they are surfing with a gal pal, and you look like a prospect? either way it doesnt matter... a 'look' after all, is just a 'look'..... isnt it? you shouldnt complain, there would be guys here who never have anyone look at their profile....perhaps its a compliment.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Never had to use the block function - a happy thing I think. We've only had one 'persistent' mailer and that was only three mails after we said no. I replied with a much firmer 'no' and never heard from them again. They check our profile fairly regularly though but I don't really care about that - they don't have access to (nor ever have) our PG - our public profile is just that - public. But I love that it's an option if the need ever arises. I'm not a fan of the gang mentality generally and this is no different for blocking I guess - hmmmm, may need to ponder further....- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Quoting 'friskyeatin' Quoting 'Jay_Me' who continue to check out my profile where I clearly state... I AM A STRAIGHT MALE... I'm going to start doing the same... Think its my kinda longish hair that lures em in :)   To quote King Louie in Jungle Book: They wanna be like you-ou. " I wanna be IN you!" And i only got on RHP last saturday and already i'm in 2 guy's hot lists... i'm straight... FML

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Bear with me, every forum is always just a little different,I meant to make the joke on words: "I wanna be INSIDE you". And to add some self-humour, i joined RHP only last saturday and now already i'm in 2 guys hot lists... no girls, just guys.. FML

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Doesnt bother me if its once or twice, but after that I think enough's enough.. Got nothing to do with spite... its like a spring clean out whenever I wander in there.. which is hardly ever...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    i have blocked just a small hand full of blokes, i am a fan of the chat rooms, but just because i am the female of the COUPLE does not mean i want to be whispered to take my clothes off on cam continusly!! to me, u wouldnt walk into a cocktail bar and demand the woman at the bar takes her clothes off, so please dont do the same to myself! and yes OUR profile states either other couples, or females... but in the chatroom i will hold general chat with everyone male or female alike, if you talk to me like a respectful himan being! i have been 'gang blocked' by certain other woman supirsingly, for blocking a certain male who's opening line was take your clothes off i wanna fuck :/ this male was apart of a little click in the chatroom, and sad to say i was blocked by 3-4 others for, to me, refusing to be spoken to like a piece of meat!! i wasnt the first to be blocked by this same click.. i do find it quite sad that people who are meant to be mature enough to be on a adult website feel the need to act like high school children! i mean i know i joined to have fun and meet people with a like minded view on things... not to re-enact my high school drama xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'havingfun40' What annoys us about blocking is that people who block you can still access your profile and you can do nothing to stop them. That has happened to us a few times - especially when we discover guys pretending to be couples and tell them. Go to your Lists page and then your Block List and add a user you want to block, then they can no longer view your profile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Jay_Me' who continue to check out my profile where I clearly state... I AM A STRAIGHT MALE...