M61
The jokes will come out on this one
July 20 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you truly like and love yourself and treat others the way you would want to be treated, you will attract people for reasons other than lust.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think the jokes are just a little fun. But you are asking a honest question here. When you find the answer let me know. Ha! I don't know but sometimes peoples desperation for love or a relationship shines through and this can be off putting. I am not suggesting you are like that... that's just an observation. All I can say is keep an open mind and go to events and things where women your own age are ....... and don't have sex with them first up. Get to know them first. :) Good luck.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think that love comes when you are least expecting it (well it has for me anyway). Being that if you try too hard you will come across as being desperate and needy which is going to scare a lot of people off straight away. Compared with being happy in yourself first which then comes across as being assured and confident in yourself (without being arrogant) and then look but also being open to possibilities. People will be interested in someone (for either relationship or friendship if no attraction) more, who is happy in themselves compared to unhappy INHO.
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RHP User
12 years ago
try a different dating site, and refrain from picking up 20 year olds for a while. You have to be in the right frame of mind, and go for women who actually have similar interests to you. Try dating rather than just bonking
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RHP User
12 years ago
In today's fast moving society what more do/would you expect. I am sure if the stars aligned and the moon was in the adjacent parallel, then just maybe whamo.I believe Aldious Huxley had it right as we move into the next century, as we know it and the likes of RHP is the relevant sex house which becomes our meeting place. Find love yeh right, maybe in the retirement Village!!Where there is light my friend, live in hope for real.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Araps' I think that love comes when you are least expecting it (well it has for me anyway). Being that if you try too hard you will come across as being desperate and needy which is going to scare a lot of people off straight away. Compared with being happy in yourself first which then comes across as being assured and confident in yourself (without being arrogant) and then look but also being open to possibilities. People will be interested in someone (for either relationship or friendship if no attraction) more, who is happy in themselves compared to unhappy INHO.You nailed it in one! Pusscat xxxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think Arabs and MsD have it down packed. Love yourself first, be your authentic self...Take time out for YOU. Know your strengths and weakness and accept both...Sometimes others have the ability to see our inner and outer beauty when we fail to see it ourselves...The more you love yourself the more we can offer compassion not only to yourself then others too. Once we learn that, our emotional intellengace grows and then we are able to make better healthier choices. What the heck would I know...the only love I know is free. Don't quote me Chevron, I maybe wrong as I've never been "in-love". FOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
chevtrek with all the sex you are having it must be hard to get anything done let alone find love. Not sure how you find time to be so prolific here.Rather than picking up down the shops, try the highest room in the tallest tower, everyone knows that's where you find true love.Mr C
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RHP User
12 years ago
Change your approach ! Don't look at Women as Sexual Objects . There is Sooo much more to a Woman than Her sexual attributes. If Love is what you really want , don't use Sex as a way to get to know someone you've just met. GG♒ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
For me, I need someone different, same values but someone that inspires me, and different so my g/f, partner can be inspired- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
To chickara Forget my sex life the question is finding true love with a genuine woman
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
Jimmy23 that's a good response - nice
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RHP User
12 years ago
Perfect :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's not like fishing..Have you tried women above the age of 40? You know, the ones you seem to like to slam.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'tickled_kink' It's not like fishing. Yep, and it's not a fairy tale either.But if you do find a formula chev let all the teenage girls know, they really need questions like this answered.
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RHP User
12 years ago
One would hope, if they are into YOU, they will see YOU for the person you are...to me, love bring out the best in one not the worst...Don't self yourself short by using sex. You're gonna get burnt big time. Love comes in many forms -look at yourself, there you will find it. You appear to be just in wrong head space right now, by your other posts Chev. It will come one day when your head space is clearer-your journey has just begun. :) FOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
If your in the wrong head space and you meet a good guinune woman...She's gonna rock your world and pull you in line cause she's not going to accept anything less, devalue herself, loose her dignity and pride, if she knows who she is. She won't support your behaviousr is all over the place..sorry if I sound like a preacher, must be having a bad day. FOXY
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Nice pic!!! Lol distracted I am...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Will find you my friend, that just seems to be the way it works. A door has to close for another to open. Good luck, not that luck has anything to do with love...
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RHP User
12 years ago
You can find love, it finds you when you open your eyes. the person who is right in front of you, be it the woman at your local coffee shop the person who teaches your kids the guy that picks up your garbage bins the trouble is that the internet makes us all lazy, expect to much from another person, in terms of looks, how good they are in bed and all the other crap that is fed to us through the media, and internet. look for the human, not the illusion of how its supposed to be. lights do not go off, bells do not ring for all of your relationship but what lasts is that person who gets you , warts and all . love lives and grows in the land of compromise and reality Lady T loving it in the camper van and loving it even more that her husband decided to come on the trip. funny thing he thought I would have liked go without him, a girls adventure but I am happy I am having my adventure with him sex and hot men are fine, but love is something all together a different animal. good luck and to be honest, the bragging about the sex with hot young women , well it makes you a target. men that get it don't have to brag at all women like me who get it are so fucking grateful well we do shout it from the rooftops but that attracts the guys. if men do it , it repels the women. or get a dog LadyT here with six dogs , four cats and four horses..gotta love the country have to hit the road more often. next stop no power at all nor showers nor loo but hey got my shovel, that's all a girl needs. goes of singing what's love to to do with it , do with it
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On_Safari
12 years ago
haha there's not much more to be said after that kind of wisdom is there? "A Mirror Has Two Faces" is a favourite movie of mine....yes a chick flick, there's a part where Barb's character "Rose" is giving a lecture on love and it's is sooooo true, so I'm gonna share it: This is the scene at my sister's wedding. She's getting drunk, regretting that she got married for the third time. My mom's sprouting snakes from her hair in jealousy. lt was perfect ... We've got three feminine archetypes: The divine whore, Medusa - - and me. What archetype am l? - The Virgin Mary? - Thanks a lot, Trevor. No, the faithful handmaiden. Always the bridesmaid, never the bride. lt proves what Jung said all along. Myths and archetypes are alive and well and living in my apartment. As l stood beside the altar beside my sister and her husband to be, - - it struck me that this ritual, a wedding ceremony, - - is the last scene of a fairy tale. They never say what happens after. That Cinderella drove the prince mad by obsessively cleaning the castle. That she missed her day job right? They don't say what happens after because there is no after. The be-all and end-all of romantic love was ... Mike? - Sex? - You have sex on the brain. - Marriage. - But it wasn't always like that. The 12th century had ''courtly love'', which had nothing to do with sex. The relationship between a knight and a married lady of the court ... And so they could never consummate their love. They rose above ''going to the toilet in front of each other'' love, - - and went after something more divine. They took sex out of the equation, leaving them with a union of souls. Think of this. Sex was always the fatal love potion. Look at the literature of the time. All consummation could lead to was madness, despair or death. Experts, scholars and my Aunt Esther are united in one belief: True love has spiritual dimensions, while romantic love is a lie. A myth. A soulless manipulation. And speaking of manipulation ... lt's like going to the movies and seeing the lovers kiss ... The music swells, and we buy it, right? So when my date kisses me, and l don't hear the phliharmonic, l dump him. The question is, why do we buy it? Because, myth or manipulation, we all want to fall in love. That experience makes us feel completely alive. Our everyday reality is shattered, and we are flung into the heavens. lt may only last a moment, an hour, but that doesn't diminish its value. We're left with memories we treasure for the rest of our lives. l read, ''When we fall in love, we hear Puccini in our heads.'' l love that. His music expresses our need for passion and romantic love. We listen to La Bóheme or Turandot, or read Wuthering Heights, - - or watch Casablanca, and a little of that love lives in us too. So the final question is: Why do people want to fall in love - - when it can have such a short run and be so painful? - Propagation of the species? - We need to connect with somebody. - Are we culturally preconditioned? - Good, but too intellectual for me. l think it's because, as some of you may already know ... While it does last, it feels fucking great. I am INDAGINE ON SAFARI and I AM an addict!!! lol xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
shit that was epic!!!! I need a lie down now....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Don't listen to most of the women here as they have no clue, what would they be doing here if they had love. Don't listen to those that say sex has nothing to do with it, it does big time. If not then you are just friends. Hate to say it love starts with you. It is you that falls in love, it starts in your mind and the reasons are so varied. What you are looking for is love in return. To find someone that loves you back. Oh what a wonderful thing to have love returned.So be desperate, be passionate, wear it on your sleeve, show your need to be loved and love. For most people there is nothing like being loved.Earth angel, earth angel, I am just a fool. Earth angel, earth angel, the one I adore, please be mine. I am just a fool in love with you. You will find it if you can love. xxx to all I love.... mmmmmm
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RHP User
12 years ago
it happens when it happens I guess. W
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well your looking thats a start. Next time you meet someone instead of turning it into an orgy invite her to dinner find some common ground. Take it slow it will happen if your open. I like many others on here I have been hiding from it but recently I have paid attention to the youth.....they are so much more open not yet hurt by years of unhappiness.The young meet and are nstantly open to the notion of a relationship. Its not a dirty word, I'm not even sure of its definition but I think many link it to their past and not future.
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RHP User
12 years ago
to find older women,just go to the CWA bake offs.....no competion there and who doesn't love a snowball recipe.
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