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The knowing.

January 10 2010

While on holiday, poolside, deckchairs, lots of fancy cocktails, we made up a little drinking game called "spot the swingers' my reckoning was if the wife is openly flirting with me with hubby there ....swingers,,( my wife dont concur).but the hard bit is to work out are they been friendly or are they been FRIENDLY.  Then that got me thinking about our own transparency,can other swingers tell , maybe unconsciously we are unveiling ourselves with our body language and conversational paterns. ( i ask my wife this same question...she told me to get out of the sun) but then there was this great couple we befriended i could feel the sexual energy but i couldnt rule out that it was all coming from me so i ask my wife how friendly she thought our new friends were, ''i'm not sure" the reply. Its a big bomb to drop if you"ve read it wrong,and the bar is about to close,..tick.tick. SO maybe we need a sign something small very small like a penant or maybe a hand signal say..touch the nose twice pull the left ear once. But the sigh would only be known to likemind people and be change once a month to keep it safe from others. So next time i'm at the pool and someone catches our eye, a pull of the ear, wipe the brow, tap the nose sends the message we want. ....ha

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    If we saw you at the bar rubbung your ears and tapping your nose, we would probably think you had some sort of mental disorder....lol But hey ive got it....doh ...lamp slowly flickers into illumination, amidst much clanking grinding and wirring of cogs...yes you clowns.. clanking not wanking!You know the male and female symbol, well if you had jewelry like a necklace or bangle with two of the male and two of the female symbols interlinked.....hey presto!!!!Now wheres Wayne, he could be doing something usefull with manufacture amd marketing!Cheers Nev......The Ideas Man on Sunday.......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Maybe a pendant of a silver apple with two bites taken from each side, you know..the forbidden fruit.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    This would have to be one of the best and most original ideas I've seen for this.  The actual question gets floated quite frequently here in the forums. Where is Mrs. P when you need her? Mr FF.  Quoting 'SORRENTOSEXY' Maybe a pendant of a silver apple with two bites taken from each side, you know..the forbidden fruit.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    fucking great idea ,,,,make some tastful little sign that only fellow swingers would recognise ,,,,,,,a bit like the rainbow symbol that recognises the gay fraternity,,,,,,,,only a special swingers one ,,,may be a different coloured stone to symbolise bi guy or bi girl or something along those lines ,,,,and make it a world wide symbol ,,,,,who knows we might make a million .........love and licks ..............

  • MandN

    MandN

    16 years ago

    YES - There's been a post like this before but people are lazy to look back into the past.   I'll let Mrs Peachy track it down and list it (cause I know how much she likes to do that), & because I'm too darn lazy too do it myself... But in essence it's a Chameleon Symbol, one is for Straight Swinger and one is for Bi Swinger,   Google it is you don’t believe me, you’d be amazed what you can find if you actually go looking yourself   You can buy them online.   www.swingersproducts.com   Pendant's Wrist bands, and other things like fake tattoo’s as well.     Good Luck   M & N

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'SORRENTOSEXY' Maybe a pendant of a silver apple with two bites taken from each side, you know..the forbidden fruit. Love the symbolism for forbidden fruitHermes

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    This comes up again and again.  It seems a symbol already exists - the chameleon.  Pink for a bi-swinger, yellow for a straight swinger.  I figure all of the other possible swinging options can be worked out once people start chatting. So maybe instead of endless speculation about what the symbol should be, it's time for everyone to just adopt the symbol that is. You can wear a pendant, a temporary tattoo, a badge, brooch, earrings, whatever.  Check out this site ... http://www.swingersproducts.com/English/products_home_eng.asp. lilmiss x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    how about that a chameleon, thats for the heads up missfussy do you have one? maybe rhp should have a online shop linked, or maybe when you join you receive your penant free..(.now i'm really in the land of fantasy) but what about something simple? i surpose you could draw the chameleon on a napkin and send it to there table with a drink, or a comment like "how about all these chameleon about the place, i do like the yellow ones"..ha..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    how about a shirt that says im a swinger?? id wear it just to role some heads haha   scott

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Straight to the point, and unambiguous, and you will have every guy hassling you all night long. Personally i wouldn't have the balls to wear one in Goulburn, to small a place! know to many people.Cheers Nev

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Bugger...I may be Bi...but i aint wearing a pink chameleon!.....not  now....not ever!...lolCheers Nev

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    The RHP Fans store is coming... :-)  now we need to get the marketing out there.... anyone know how to contact someone in authority @ RHP?   Wayne

  • RedHotCoast

    RedHotCoast

    16 years ago

    They would have read your post already.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'sexshinecoast'They would have read your post already. Yup - that is why I posted it :-)  Still waiting for someone to contact me :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    besides pendants, what other useful goodies might we have?  maybe rhp could go 3D with there gallarys and sell us the sexy eye wear, can you amagine it with all the cock pics on here someone will lose a eye. A nice lube that not sticky and yuck, i heard of a couple that fell asleep while having sex when they woke his penis was glued inside her, i hear they still together.