RHP

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The less you get.....

April 13 2016

Ahem - so a couple of years ago I was going through a ripping purple patch in terms of meeting people and so on, and in short getting plenty of physical contact....... I had a conversation back then with a friend who, like me, had separated but was in a prolonged drought. He told me that the longer he went without sex (I'm talking a period of months) the less he thought about it and wanted it. In short, the longer he went without the less he cared about it. At the time I called bullshit - until I went through a drought of my own until last week. The longer the drought went the less interested I was, but after a very fully occupied last week the motor is well and truly up and running at max revs again! My question - this can't be restricted to just me, surely? Anyone else been in the same or similar positions - enquiring minds (mine!) want to know!!! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It's like exercise, the less you do the less you remember how awesome it makes you feel. A negative feedback loop, less sex = less desire = less sex and round it goes. I've been like that the last few months as the odd sex I have been getting hasn't been great, so that almost reiterates it. But hormones are quicking in now, hence my new membership here 😂 Fingers crossed the drought is gone soon! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    nice one Yes I have to say my week was especially nice and today mmm greedy girl, love it when they come back for more From a female perspective, and male from what I've heard and read, the more sex you have, the more it increases your libido, and I know for a fact that's true for me. So if I'm not getting time with men, I self pleasure, which has healing/health properties and maintains sex drive, not that I have an issue with that. But for both sexes, if your libido is down, have more sex. Even if I'm talking shit and it's not medically true, can't do any harm right?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You see the more the body has sex the more your body want sex ! The less you have sex the less your body wants sex!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    The more sex I get, the more interested I am and the higher my libido. Less sex , less interest and my libido tends to wane.And sex is good healthy fun so its important to have it a least daily! That's my excuse for wanking anyway.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Yes. That was me for some of last yr.after being quite a busy little bee for a few yrs. At first I thought I had lost my mojo and was concerned. But it was just a calm and a stand still where my mind/body/emotions took a rest and reconnected internally. And as Summer said, a spark will reignite the libido.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Agree...in some ways, it's a bit like being on a diet. When you're eating ice cream and double fudge mud cake every day, you go about batshit the first day or two you're without it. After a week or so, you don't really miss it. There's a lot to be said for a daily diet that's well-balanced and nutrient rich! PS love that new pic, DP. That...stays on the menu regardless!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If I'm not having sex I'll go for months without even masturbating and sex in general is far from my mind (well except when I read these forums). Once I start having sex again - boom it's on - I start thinking about it all the time, am horny all the time, and masturbate a lot.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Agree with the others on this one. When I was out of action for some time, l found the longer I went the less important sex became including a tug. In that last drought I was starting to think I was drying up, that was until I meet this super shy sexy girl who just by being cute and shy ignited the inner feelings I thought were gone. Phew , it was a nice relief when the tingles came back even though nothing eventuated , it was good to know it's still responding when it mattered.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I can go with out contact with another human. I cant go with out my bed time or morning play. I believe it is great for my immune system, so its a medicinal thing.... ;-) From she who has not had a cold in years. 👅 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    the more i get the more I want

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If I played in the morning , it'll send me back to sleep. ? No wonder your immune system is good ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    habit forming. Hearing everyone !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    whether with a lover or self loving, an orgasm keeps me sane!

  • Katkat

    Katkat

    10 years ago

    I remember before 8 months no sex, no dates couldn't careless just hang out with my friends that was a long drought for me. But after I met this guy we were constantly like bunnies lol I'd keep him awake till 3am 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Flew out of my pants.... I need to check for cobwebs... Tumbleweed blows across my bedroom floor... Funny the stages we go through with our libidos lol Mine needs a kick in the pants 😀

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    However i am interested in endocrinolgy. Having a novel partner boosts a man's testosterone levels (allegedly ) hence why the mid life crisis bolting off with the young secretary / intern has merit. My idea is that if my man has access to more novelty in his partners he will inevitably stay a bit younger. I think novelty in sex keeps us hormonally healthy. So if you are not getting any action your hormonal response might be a little dulled- unless you are taking matters into your own hands. No links to a pub med study. If you want to look it up I'm sure there will be something. There also is research linking overuse of porn to hormonal fatigue (resulting in erection issues) but likely other endocrine disruptors might be factors also. Omg that is the unsexiest post ever. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'lovman8' The more sex I get, the more interested I am and the higher my libido. Less sex , less interest and my libido tends to wane.And sex is good healthy fun so its important to have it a least daily! That's my excuse for wanking anyway. that's my excuse too, bloody good one though isn't it?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    when sexually active. Which makes her more fuckable to other men. Apparently we like a bit of internal sperm competition too. This way the sperm battle and the womans reproductive system select (and knock out) the best (most different genetically) wrigglers. So sex encourages more sex. So hop to it and get that gang bang orgienized. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Rubenesque_Red' Flew out of my pants.... I need to check for cobwebs... Tumbleweed blows across my bedroom floor... Funny the stages we go through with our libidos lol Mine needs a kick in the pants 😀 haha lmao you need to come out with me one day, just hang around with me, do some freestyling I swear to God there won't be a moth in sight by the time you get home

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Rubenesque_Red' Flew out of my pants.... I need to check for cobwebs... Tumbleweed blows across my bedroom floor.........It must bee a long time since you wore pants........And I wouldn't wait to get you to bed either, if I took you home and found you knickerless......

  • Dorey12

    Dorey12

    10 years ago

    The less I get, the more I want it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    interesting that the less I get, the more I want also, and the more I get, the more I want What does that say about me, I want I want I want

  • Dorey12

    Dorey12

    10 years ago

    That's a very good theory, I like your attitude ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Dorey12' That's a very good theory, I like your attitude ;-) ssh if word gets out that some people like my attitude, the forum won't be the same as we know it