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The pursuit of pleasure
September 14 2016
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
To me means, my pursuit of happiness. I don't need the act of sex to fulfil that, nor the pursuit of it. It's not a high priority to me, nor bees knees. To see others happy makes me happy. Right now, I am the happiest I've ever been. My life does not revolve around sex nor reaching my fuckit list. If it happens it happens. If not, it's ok. I have other things that are a priority. I know people, who constantly talk about sex (who they've just rooted, etc etc all the time)...to be honest, it bores the shit out of me. Give me an intelligent conversation any day Ms Foxy
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RHP User
9 years ago
A couple of quotes that in a lot of ways define me. "Any asshole can chase a skirt, art takes discipline." "you boys can keep your virgins give me hot old women in high heels with asses that forgot to get old. "
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes, chasing pleasure....the hunt, the dance. Can sometimes be more exciting and satisfying than the outcome. That old saying,"it's the journey, not the destination" rings very true for the pursuit of my pleasure. And agree with Noxy, would rather an intelligent conversation.... preferably rodent friendly - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Bloody spell check. Foxy not Noxy - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
for me it's the act, getting naked and getting dirty, the hunt is a necessary evil for me, but I always keep my eye on the prize and always think about and need the act itself to get my pleasure, and to give pleasure, you know, both matter to me. I hate the whole filtering process, and dealing with fakes, when you finally realise they're not who they say they are, a few others have slipped through your fingers, shits me. Oops wrong thread at the moment, I would be seen as a time waster because I just don't have time, that sucks, and it's not always believed at the other end. Sexual pleasure is what I crave, and with the weather hopefully warming up in the next few weeks, things are about to change in Perth
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madotara69
9 years ago
Smack bang centre of the spectrum Miss Q, 25ish years ago, off the cuff acting on advice drummed into me by a group of gentlemen I had become a friend and just happened to bartend in a real swish place, successful gentlemen and I think it was pleasure they promised back then to now, because it has been and still is a pleasure with Tara centre of my life, right there with me all the way, choices I make always are with her the centre of all else and there after, it's a pleasure in friendship, love, lust and the adventures.It's a pleasure to have a loving family and good friends, many moments over the years in the good company throughout the entire spectrum, one end just me and Tara, mmmm a pleasure, the best, the other end of the spectrum, Tara and myself, kids and some awesome parties with all those friends at some time or another, even the hardest times we have experienced, it's been a pleasure to have Tara right there as we are centred in all, for all it means. Sex is a pleasure, just last night Tara and I were talking about sex, orgasms and she said to me, "every orgasm I have had with you has been different", we were talking about sensual massage and Tara was toey and a chick we like she had in her sights and (how women do things) invite this chick, ok (woman) to join us and the pleasure of a sensual massage and ....(well she told me I'm very good, with that look and tone, pleasurable and very sexy) which again gave me pleasure and hit me right on the reward button. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
The chase or pursuit is always thrilling. And its still the same now Im with someone, we go out socialising and know whats going to be happening at the end of the night. Before, when I met someone, it would be the anticipation of the next meet. Wham bam never excited me, but anticipation and the waiting does. I love social activities, M and Gs and going to clubs. Happiness for me is being with the people you love, brings me the most pleasure in life xx
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
Pleasure, for us, is an emotion, it's in ones mind and is triggered by both physical and mental (mind) stimuli. One gets a feeling of "pleasure" (a positive feel good experience) when eating something tasty, just as one feels pleasure when getting into a warm bath on a cold winters evening. Pleasure is a very subjective thing, and it will vary from person to person. We get pleasure from many things - seeing people happy & having fun, to looking at art & historical buildings, from drives in the country, good food, intelligent conversation, kissing ... without pleasure, and its many nuances, life would not be very nice at all, would it? There is more "pleasure" to sex than the physical act itself. For us we get more pleasure from the thoughts and fantasies that may go through our minds, in the pursuit of sex & intimacy ... again it goes back to the fact that the brain is the most important sex organ and it is the brain that controls ones perception of, and reaction to, pleasure.
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RHP User
9 years ago
As far as sex goes - the build up, anticipation, teasing, texting, talking, the first look, the first touch, the first taste are all part of the actual act itself. And without them I wouldn't enjoy sex anywhere near as much. Spending quality time with friends and family, laughing, cuddling, sharing, all give me such great pleasure. I used to be a huge pleasure seeker which almost always ended in disappointment. Now I find simple things bring me the most. The smell of my toddler after his bath - he runs up the hall laughing, naked and wet and jumps on top of me to kiss and cuddle me. I can't hug him tight enough! Taking deep breaths in to smell the rain, reading a beautiful story and smelling the book, watching a bird feed its baby. For me pleasure is about being completely present in a moment and soaking in everything positive around you. Making someone smile, the feel of a welcoming hug, running my fingertips across someone's skin, listening to a heart beat, stroking my dogs as they go to sleep, the first sip of coffee in the morning.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Often it is the passion during sex that is the attraction whereas other times the actual 'courtship' in the leadup is as good as the sex itself . Other times I just want to fuck that gorgeous woman after I have helped her to orgasm. It depends on my mood at the time as well as the situation and the woman involved. To be honest I enjoy that feeling of being wanted and enjoyed by a woman and it does not matter what form it comes in. I am completely fulfilled without sex, however, that pesky sex drive of mine does leave me feeling sexually frustrated at times, in which case I have a wank (sorry if that is too much information, it is not my intention to come across as a dweeb). - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
9 years ago
Occassionly someone might catch my attention and make me sit up and take notice. But not as often as it once did. Like some of the ladies above , I prefer to have my mind stimulated. I'm over the days of having sex for the sake of having sex. Making out without the things that makes sex satisfying is really not much better than having a wank. Nothing better than when you chat with someone and something stirs upstairs and down..
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RHP User
9 years ago
Pleasure is in many forms, but definately formed in the brain. My pleasure came from the anticipation of seeing my lover who sent numerous text msgs and sexy videos of his uncut cock that use to send me wild. Just knowing I was soon to see and touch and feel him inside me and looking into his eyes and kissing me drove me crazy wild. Mmmmmm But also seeing others that I care for happy gives me pleasure. Waking up the first coffee of the day, going to the gym and pushing myself more than the previous day. Giving my all to everything I do gives me pleasure and pain at times :) but you realise you are alive when you give it your all :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Many a good tune played on an old fiddle.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Rooster0234' Many a good tune played on an old fiddle. "FIDDLE, n. An instrument to tickle human ears by friction of a horse's tail on the entrails of a cat. To Rome said Nero: "If to smoke you turn I shall not cease to fiddle while you burn." To Nero Rome replied: "Pray do your worst, 'Tis my excuse that you were fiddling first." —Orm Pludge" c/- The Devil's Dictionary (Ambrose Bierce. Published 1911). I find my 'ears tickled' by some of the posts I encounter in the forum. I enjoy a good natured verbal stoush and witty repartee to while away some time during breaks from study. More than mere hobby though, properly examining, discussing and debating issues, structuring arguments, and exposing flaws in arguments also actually complements my study. Sadly, it often seems difficult to find willing participants here with the stamina for it. You might consider the equally valid definition of 'fiddle' offered by the Urban Dictionary: "Someone who is easily tricked or manipulated (or rather, played) by others. Usually too nice for their own good. Derived from the phrase "playing someone like a fiddle" ." Too frequently for me, some individuals apparently become confused as to whether they are in the role of 'Nero' or 'Rome' in Orm Pludge's ditty. I am not "too nice for...(my)... own good", but I do seek to play fair. In any event, I do not wish to fall foul of the mods due to someone's mistaken belief I was engaging in any form of personal attack - however innocent, mistaken, misinformed, or misguided such an allegation against me would be. Did I see a post from someone elsewhere in the forum saying they could here a Banjo? Would that be a reference to 'Deliverance', or would that refer to the esteemed Mr Andrew Barton "Banjo" Paterson, CBE?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sex and orgasm give me great (or use to) pleasure. Being able to cause pleasure in a partner is also a great pleasure. The "chase" itself is not intrinsically pleasurable but I do get great pleasure out of getting to know people sexually and otherwise. And I also get great pleasure discovering and enjoying the world around me and the people in it. Like SoftandCurious said ( your name itself is a great and pleasurable philosiphy) each moment is new and different and pleasurable if you are completely present.
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madotara69
9 years ago
Grandad once told me "it's not chasing a woman that wears you out, it's once she lets you catch her" - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'social_suicide' "Any asshole can chase a skirt, art takes discipline." I've been reacquainting myself with some of Banjo Patterson's work this weekend (and some I've not read before). Remembering this post of yours, I thought you might appreciate his poem titled "Ambition and Art".
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Two_Warm_Hands
9 years ago
The pursuit of pleasure, alas, has left me empty, my soul desiccated, bones now too brittle and weak to carry the burden of life's turmultuous emotional gravity & mind numbing diversity of interpersonal complexities, so I joined RHP. Hello again 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
Some are very good at chasing a woman, but have no idea how to keep her! Ms Foxy
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RHP User
9 years ago
I know those quotes! I think we may just be reading the same things. 😉 C.B- singing my song. I want to be that young ass'd, old woman. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
You just about covered me from head to toe. I like getting lost. No mind altering substances. Pure, mind altering moments are why I chase the milk of human kindness. Xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Chase. The flirting, waiting, wondering, building tension and suspense. I find that sex is generally directly proportional to the lead up - the better the pursuit, the better and longer the sex.
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Two_Warm_Hands
9 years ago
Quoting 'Longest_dream' You just about covered me from head to toe. I like getting lost. No mind altering substances. Pure, mind altering moments are why I chase the milk of human kindness. Xx @Longest_dream. After reading your profile, I was moved to quote you a Billy Bragg song... "I love you, I am the milkman of human kindness, I will leave an extra pint" While we're on topic, I also love Mado, and in pursuit of happiness, he tickles me in places I didn't know existed, though I am never too sure on his position regarding mind altering substances.... @Willow, what's this about rodents? From experience, I know rats are intelligent creatures, but I havent had a decent conversation with one since I did appreciate mind altering substances. Speaking of which, is that where Fat Freddy's Drop got their name I wonder? @Q. These days, I have become somewhat of a recluse. Been hibernating with introspection over winter. While I can still play the social butterfly, the pursuit of pleasure for me takes more the form of a bird sitting on a post, keen, observant, looking between the lines, through cracks in the norms of human interaction and engagement, looking for unguarded moments when real humanness makes it way through into external expression. That is the gold for me. I like listening to people and their stories. More passive than pursuing. This brings me pleasure. Seeing people drop their layers, and being real. I guess sex is one part of that. Seeing what lies inside of people when they open up.
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
There is ever any rush. ;-) The pleasure of sex can be just as exciting as the anticipation of sex. Pleasure can be derived simply from the company of others, from fond memories of sharing antipasto and conversation, from unexpected contact from those out of touch for some time, from knowing there are fantastic memories lingering in both your brain and theirs...shared memories if you like. Perhaps the pleasure is from a wild night out with an unexpected kiss delivered from one who was emboldened by conversation and cheeky smiles, which leads to erotic and sensual contact heightened by the anticipation of touch and taste. Pleasure is something to be savoured, to linger over. Allow it to envelop you and revel in all its glory.
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