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The (r)evolution of relationships.

October 01 2015

It appears that as a society same sex relationships are moving on to a firmer more accepted footing and as we move towards opening up the marriage laws marriage itself is appearing as a more and more temporary arrangement, perhaps moving towards a raise some children and moving on arrangement. Women are moving forwards with equality and men seem to be struggling with the loss of their "traditional" roles.Where are we headed ? As sexuality becomes less of an issue do you think bi is headed towards a more mainstream acceptance ? ( I think it has with women) Do you think swinging with a close group of friends is a return to pre agricultural tribal behaviour where sex is more free and open and less judged ? Could this lead to a happier less stressed/anxious/angry/connected society ? What does your future "sexual society" look like ? W_P

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AnnieWhichway

10 years ago

Maybe its just me but i have noticed an opening of acceptance toward the bi male. Men have always openly stated 2 women playing together is the most commonly liked fantasy or porn flick. It seems to have turned and now not so much of horror if a girl likes the thought of 2 men playing in front of them. Perhaps not the topic at a family bbq but it is out there more often. Looking at an event listing yesterday. Several couples were listed. All the women stated they were bi. Only one guy stated bi or anything. So yes the women are out and open , the guys have a way to go as percentages would have at least 3 of those guys open for mm contact, but it is in transition. Just look at the forums. So many women are hot for the mmf bi action. Bi guys are in demand and i said in here recently i have accepted myself and proud to be bi tv. So as you say OP, the evolution is here and its time for the closet bi guys to step out of the shadows and suck cock with pride and make your lady proud. Annie

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RHP User

10 years ago

Most of us crave intimacy and connection.perhaps we need to take a leaf out of the bonobo book of relationships...they are bi sexual,have sex for comfort,oral sex,sex for pleasure and comfort.We share 98 percent of our DNA with bonobos..Sex is a great connector but somehow we see it as a great divider and that's because of ownership issues..great topic Wet.xxFreya

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RHP User

10 years ago

Quoting 'Freya70' Most of us crave intimacy and connection.perhaps we need to take a leaf out of the bonobo book of relationships...they are bi sexual,have sex for comfort,oral sex,sex for pleasure and comfort.We share 98 percent of our DNA with bonobos..Sex is a great connector but somehow we see it as a great divider and that's because of ownership issues..great topic Wet.xxFreya Ownership yes, the baggage of marriages mission to protect property. Or perhaps it's just the fear/ uncomfortableness of being alone in such a disconnected and fragmented/selfish society ? To much emphasis on the "individual" ?

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sweetgem

10 years ago

What other people desire to do, or to have, or to be, in their romantic life and life in general. I respect their choices and will say bravo to those who are brave to pursue their desires. After all, what's the benefits for going against people's desires and/or dreams when objection and discrimination will only cause pain and harm and nothing more?! However, the society would not become less stressed, judgmental, angry, etc. (as you listed) as long as religions are still around and in some countries, in charge or ruling! That's fact and it will never go away in this current century, and perhaps the next century too. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

10 years ago

Religion hasn't stopped anything, it makes a bit of noise but society evolves regardless, indeed the churches are constantly revising there dogma to stay relevant. In this country at least and all I'm concerned about, their influence is falling away. Thank god !

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QLDtwo4fun

10 years ago

I don't think bi sexuality is a mainstream consideration yet, and whilst the swinging world appreciates bi women, bi men have to be discrete. For example, generally in an open room DVP is OK but two cocks rubbing together in a guys hand is not.

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RHP User

10 years ago

Looks like we're back to cock size again.

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RHP User

10 years ago

It's a great topic W_P My idea sexual society would be closer to pansexuality, with removal of all gender, sexuality labels and pronouns. I'm a person. You're a person. I'd seriously like to get my romp on with that person over there.

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RHP User

10 years ago

I have lived in three intentional communities,the dynamic is always problematic ...but there are many different ways you can build community,sex can be a connector and if community members are getting other needs met then perhaps this can work ...Artists,creatives have often explored this way of living,as I said not without it's problems though .Also community does not have to mean living together ..xxFreya

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RHP User

10 years ago

Seriously, why are yas still hiding? Us women have made it very clear how keen we are... Be proud and start the trend....

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RHP User

10 years ago

As for my future sexual society I will quote Mark Renton in the movie Trainspotting: "1,000 years from now there will be no guys and no girls, just wankers. Sounds great to me."

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RHP User

10 years ago

Is a great deal of antagonism between the sexes which I blame on the monogamist fantasy game, but also in a society that leaves single women vulnerable to physical harm, part of the great division that is male/female. I'd like to see swinging and bisexuality heal the rift between the sexes so we are more complementary rather than adversarial.Freya I read up on the Bonobo - fascinating, dare I say role models even !And I agree, community doesn't have to mean living together I'm sure swingers consider themselves a community, question is - do they consider themselves pioneers ?

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