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The secret to great sex
July 27 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm only young myself .... So if I'm thinking and playing with some one too young, first of all, it presents a moral dilemma as I have a child in their early 20's... I also want it to last more than 5 seconds, :-P , You can keep the giggles, I'm more for moaning than laughing...that's just me Think I'll stick with thinking sexy raunchy thoughts about mature adults 😉
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Hottie1
10 years ago
Regardless of someone's age but the real issue here is your perception Chev. Why differentiate between older and younger. I'm an older woman and I hope my lover will tell you that I can laugh at myself and am extremely fun to be around. I wouldn't want anything less than his best efforts when he is with me and vice versa. I want his hard orgasm and longer sex, every time, thank you very much! Personally, I give myself completely, the same way, every time, when being intimate with someone. The only thing that changes is I focus on what I know they like as an individual. I want pleasure for him/her and me. Why else would I be having sex other than for pleasure? Sorry, but your post does nothing but make generalisations of older and younger women and I'm probably safe in saying that no women or man wants mediocre, give us your best every single time! Just my views, you did ask for them 😈 Mary xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Great sex doesn't rely on youthful thinking.....its about the connection regardless of age. A woman of my age would probably be a boring old root in your opinion. I just think its a load of nonsense. My view.
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RHP User
10 years ago
your only as old as you feel - Posted from rhpmobile
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
Quoting 'Araps' your only as old as you feel - Posted from rhpmobile As George Burns once put it, you're only as old as the woman you're feeling.... Tall
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Mr Trek seems to be having so much fun and I want some too!I already have my school girl uniform but I can't find out where to check the "Giggle Play" box on my profile.It's just not fair. It's not, It's not.( A young Annie throws her hands in the air and then throws herself on the floor in mild trantrum)It's not fair, I just want to meet an old bloke so I can have some giggles..............
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've always thought great sex comes down to levels of attraction, mutual interest and ability to make each other feel great. Age has absolutely nothing to do with it as you can have great sex with someone older and someone younger and someone your own age. Getting your rocks off fulfilling fantasies is a different thing such as ticking off a bucket list then age can come into it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
That's is incorrect. "You're only as young as the women you feel" [Groucho Marx]
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RHP User
10 years ago
As long as they are laughing with you... And not at you
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have found that the opposite is true - often. Younger women are often stuck in their ego...they sometimes find it hard to let go and this limits their ability to enjoy the moment. Older and more experienced women tend to be able to just be present and in the moment....and they give themselves permission to relax and experience the event with abandon..
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RHP User
10 years ago
Older women tend to worry about how they performalso taking life more serious not happy and carefree.Having sex with a vast age group you tend to noticethe difference with agesQuoting 'ag4mg92' Regardless of someone's age but the real issue here is your perception Chev. Why differentiate between older and younger. I'm an older woman and I hope my lover will tell you that I can laugh at myself and am extremely fun to be around. I wouldn't want anything less than his best efforts when he is with me and vice versa. I want his hard orgasm and longer sex, every time, thank you very much! Personally, I give myself completely, the same way, every time, when being intimate with someone. The only thing that changes is I focus on what I know they like as an individual. I want pleasure for him/her and me. Why else would I be having sex other than for pleasure? Sorry, but your post does nothing but make generalisations of older and younger women and I'm probably safe in saying that no women or man wants mediocre, give us your best every single time! Just my views, you did ask for them 😈 Mary xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
and I love long hard orgasms, moaning, laughter and giggles too. I'm with Ag4mg92 and expect my partner's best efforts no matter what their age and I give the same myself. Anything less is not good enough. Why do you think that older women aren't interested in giggles and silliness when the time suits? Noella
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RHP User
10 years ago
This could also be the same for younger guys and older women.So any guys care to comment on the older women part as I havebeen told some women let there hair down with younger guys.
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RHP User
10 years ago
my dad said that once....and only once.... My reply "well....if you feel as old as you look; you're gonna be fucked then eh?? 😝" - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
If I don't have a connection with someone then sex is boring and I don't bother going there. On the other hand when we make time to connect and enjoy each others company then there is pleasure, intimacy, seduction, lust, playfulness, imagination, joy and fulfilment. Age of my lover doesn't dictate how much fun we have because its always fun. Chev maybe you are referring to those childish giggles where younger women are nervous, shy or insecure? If that is a turn on for you then that is your thing. Personally I prefer my partners to be fun loving and confident. LG
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MissBishere
10 years ago
I have tried younger and found they are all wham bam and not even a thank you and rarely resulted in an orgasm for me they would have to be pretty damn special to have me even consider anyone under 35 these days. I have found my age group last a lot longer, are more open to long sessions and actually engaging my brain.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Longer than a weeks fling but then again Ihave had a few great one nighters. Also age is over 25 as under on occasion can be immature. Quoting 'Leo_girl' If I don't have a connection with someone then sex is boring and I don't bother going there. On the other hand when we make time to connect and enjoy each others company then there is pleasure, intimacy, seduction, lust, playfulness, imagination, joy and fulfilment. Age of my lover doesn't dictate how much fun we have because its always fun. Chev maybe you are referring to those childish giggles where younger women are nervous, shy or insecure? If that is a turn on for you then that is your thing. Personally I prefer my partners to be fun loving and confident. LG
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm interested to know what age you actually consider as "younger women" vs "older women" As I find you constant generalisation in regards to younger women borderline offensive. And I think it comes down to if you are treating them like a women that is your equal or like a silly little girl. Just my 2 cents - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hottie1
10 years ago
Really ????? I don't worry any more now than I did in my 20s or 30s, I worry less because I know a hell of a lot more than I did back then! I'm a sensual and passionate women who knows how to give pleasure and receive it. I'm comfortable in my skin, I'm socially capable and can have fun in all manner of situations, sexual or not! I'd say I'm speaking of most women my vintage. Regardless of our age, we offer different things. In my 20s I offered a youthful energy, in my 30s I offered more experience and in my 40's, I rock! Just sayin, Mary xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
life itself is an on going learning experience for us all , when we were younger it was all about lust and as we grow older we realised that in order to have great sex their must first be a connection ,this could be an attraction followed by good communication however this does not guarantee a great sex scenario as i have discovered . I Believe that the better you know your partner and what turns them on the better sex you will experience. What works for me is my attitude ,the more i can excite my partener the more i get turned on so its a win win situation. Its not about me its always about my partener ,when both are wanting to please each other you cant get any better than that. Also its not about how long or quick you can have sex its about the moment and each moments you experience will result in a different out come ,so this is why you can have great sex and only lasted 5 minuts lol but it could be the most intense 5 minuts you ever had same difference when it comes to long lasting sex its the build up leading to sex that creates the moment.
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madotara69
10 years ago
As usual it appears you have crafted the OP to the very limits for achieving postal approval, then the dribble becomes the true nature of the plot.Seems you enjoy the personal attacks and stirred emotions of the folk, so why not tickle your fancy. Quoting 'chevtrek' Older women tend to worry about how they performalso taking life more serious not happy and carefree.Having sex with a vast age group you tend to noticethe difference with ages Sorry Mary, don't want to involve you with this argument. Chevy darling, it's whether to feel sad for you, sorry for you, fucked if I know really. But with comments like the above quoted and anticipated by nature of all the other crap you taunt us with, at 52 years of age and you come up with stuff like this say's more about you than the women you are targeting, one of which happens to be my wife and unfortunately you will probably never experience the true playful spirit of a woman. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
"Older women tend to worry about how they perform Also taking life more serious not happy and carefree. Having sex with a vast age group you tend to notice the difference with ages" I don't think so Chev, And I don't know about you, but I find that the women I meet are always awesome. Passion ;-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Age but a mere number . I'll take connection. Regardless of age older or younger . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
however limited....that older women are actually better at skipping the bullshit; and just laying their cards on the table. They're past the games of kiss chasey and don't mind telling it like it is....and owning it...they don't want their time wasted any more than they want to be wasting someone's time.... But if you're happy playing doctors and nurses chevy by all means....float your boat and be happy..... 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have found younger guys selfish and older men sensual. I have found older men rude and younger men eager to please. All these traits had nothing to do with age. Women I've never had a problem with.
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RHP User
10 years ago
... younger and older females just as enthusiastic as each other... True ' younger women tend to get down to the serious stuff a lot quicker but are just as receptive once penetrated... Never experienced a giggler, at least not during foreplay and sex.. Apart from the energy level. ( naturally ) both enjoy themselves as much as the other... After all, you only ever get out of it what your imagination limits you to...
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RHP User
10 years ago
I guess gay guys are pretty fucked then according to Groucho then ;-) In seriousness though, there has to be a point where for guys like Hugh Heffner and Geoff Edildson where the massive massive age gaps become slightly tragic cause the girls they are with are only after one thing and it's not his charming personality. - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
Quoting 'Araps' I guess gay guys are pretty fucked then according to Groucho then ;-) In seriousness though, there has to be a point where for guys like Hugh Heffner and Geoff Edildson where the massive massive age gaps become slightly tragic cause the girls they are with are only after one thing and it's not his charming personality. - Posted from rhpmobile It's their dress sense that pulls in the young chicks
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RHP User
10 years ago
What koko flamingo said :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
The secret to great sex is to have sex with the right people. Someone may think them selves the best at sex ( I have meet them *rollyeyes* ), but if you don't click then it can never be good sex. It takes two to tango, to tango well you have both to be in step.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Once again it's just Chev posing a superfluous question so he can boast about having sex with young women.... We've been off here for over year and just come back, and as they say - the more things change the more they stay the same.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
The irony here is that you and i are almost the same age but because we like em young, we're too old for each other lol love your work - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
It all depends on how much experience a older woman has ,if she had a partner that did not experiment and only threw his leg over her twice a week you would find that she wouldnt know any better and more so lack the confidence of a woman that had a experienced lover . Ive been with older women and believe me the ones that have confidence and had great sexual experience make the best ,lovers. Older women that lack confidence is most likely the result of the way men have treated them. When i was a younger man i always went for the older mature woman because i thought they had alot more experience to offer me so i could learn more from them but sadley this was not the case. So i believe it all begins with conditioning , the more tlc you give the better result.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I feel age is a problem for some , me personaly I have a young mind and if you meet someone young or old makes no difference , if there is a physical attraction and connection then enjoy and have quality fun, that's what life is all about
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well said leo_girl if there is no connection what's the point, age as nothing to do with it
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sex is like most things, you get out of it what you put in. Good sex is not about age, size, shape or what you had for breakfast, its all about attitude. You get what you give. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
The OP asks what are our views. Now.... I could tell you mine....... but I don't think you'd like it.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Quoting 'TheNurturer' "Older women tend to worry about how they perform Also taking life more serious not happy and carefree. Having sex with a vast age group you tend to notice the difference with ages" I don't think so Chev, And I don't know about you, but I find that the women I meet are always awesome. Passion ;-) Tell me Mr NurturerYou signed off your post with Passion.Why is it that when your other Nurturer posts are signed off as yourself?Got me thinking that I've seen that sign off somewhere else, just gotta find it. Search time.Maybe you have more profiles and get a little confused? Leave me with it and I'll get back to you
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RHP User
10 years ago
Mr Nurturer has an identical twin called PassionNSpice. Funny that.
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RHP User
10 years ago
And I didn't out you, Passion. You did.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Did he used to wear a tool belt in a former life/profile?
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Wondering if there may be more profiles?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sorry OP, I'm out.
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madotara69
10 years ago
Suggestible
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RHP User
10 years ago
So I think the secret is ---Think young and don't let age dominate your love life or sex life..That does make beautiful sense Chev, I've read enough similar statements in the forum from many people. Do remember to take heed of your own words. ;-) .Maddy darlink, the tone of your posts have changed in the forums. I think largely, as SO many people keep telling me, it can depend on what we read into things. I remember you used to cop a lot of that until someone quietly but firmly took a stand for you in the forums. And nowadays you read very differently to me. It's a shame, I'm sure you're making a good point in among your personal attacks. Haha, and I see what you mean with your post the other day about the passive aggressive use of like buttons, by looking at your posts on this thread. :-Peachy
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madotara69
10 years ago
Not when it comes to honouring every little thing so special I find in Tara and I've always thought chevy darling is a..... provoker. It's all on the wall, well his topics that have not self combusted. Perhaps you are reading things a little different and only seeing the sugar coating the shit. Please note, that I did not post until the true intensions became the intensions. Plus, I could only type with one finger and a thumb and had to make my own words up back then ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
My adventures thus far in life have taught me that the age of your sexual partner can contribute to the quality and the quantity of the sex that you have. But more so than age, it's the physical attraction, mind connection, personality and level of experience the person may or may not have that makes for mind blowing sex! :-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's about great connection, regardless of age xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm not old.. but for me i think older is better... I fantasize about older women and when I'm with an older woman I am more eager to please her cause I want them to know I might be young but I'm fit and can fuck hard.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Age and giggles have nothing to do with it. My sexual experience has been enhanced with age. Depth and connection are everything. Ok .. For me it's the man's sexual style and whether or not he challenges me mentally and spiritually. Silly giggling just doesn't take me there. 😳 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Goodvintage
10 years ago
First time = WTFBoyfriend & Girlfriend = Explorative & ExcitingYoung & Old = Crazy, imaginative Married = Pleasurable LoveSex Addicts = Just do it!Gay = No different to the above
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RHP User
10 years ago
Who f#@ken cares about age! You can find an inner beauty and passion in everyone, its all about the individual. Regardless of age someone can be soft, sensual, giggly, go all night, teach you, feel you. love you...whatever d@##head!Love to all creatures of love Lou xxx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Everyone is different and brings different experiences you can't generalise like that. For me it's the connection whether be older or younger than myself and exploring together. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's the connection between two people which leads to great sex, having your mind blown, multiple orgasms that leave you shaking and wanting to stop, yet wanting to have more and more. Nice to hear that you get your rocks off much better with the younger girls but maybe you only see it from your point of view?...and not theirs. Sandy xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Graceful1' My adventures thus far in life have taught me that the age of your sexual partner can contribute to the quality and the quantity of the sex that you have. But more so than age, it's the physical attraction, mind connection, personality and level of experience the person may or may not have that makes for mind blowing sex! :-)
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ajaussie
10 years ago
Quoting 'ag4mg92' Regardless of someone's age but the real issue here is your perception Chev. Why differentiate between older and younger. I'm an older woman and I hope my lover will tell you that I can laugh at myself and am extremely fun to be around. I wouldn't want anything less than his best efforts when he is with me and vice versa. I want his hard orgasm and longer sex, every time, thank you very much! Personally, I give myself completely, the same way, every time, when being intimate with someone. The only thing that changes is I focus on what I know they like as an individual. I want pleasure for him/her and me. Why else would I be having sex other than for pleasure? Sorry, but your post does nothing but make generalisations of older and younger women and I'm probably safe in saying that no women or man wants mediocre, give us your best every single time! Just my views, you did ask for them 😈 Mary xx Who's says you are old.....still sexy and hot. Experience ........comes with age. Cheers
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