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The subconscious mind is a bitch

September 29 2013

I work in a department that only has one female employee, we both started the job at the same time (2 years ago) and I took a bit of a fancy to her but have never acted on it for several reasons: 1) she's engaged 2) work place policies (sexual harassment etc...) 3) we're now good friends and I don't want to screw that up. Here's where the subconscious part comes in. For the last 3 nights I've been having vivid dreams of being with her. Having her walk around the office naked, tying her up and bending her to my will (funny that, Will is her fiancés name). I've never seen her anywhere near naked but in my dream she's got a stunning body and is incredibly compliant... Now we're on shift together and I can't look at her straight or hold a proper conversation without getting flash backs to the dreams. I can't broach the subject with her either because she's very "vanilla" and I think it'd freak her out, thereby ending the friendship (or at-least severely damaging it). The curious thing about this is that I never dream (at-least not ones that I recall), haven't done since I was about 12. So this is why the subconscious mind is a bitch.

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RHP User

12 years ago

the unattainable is so much more alluring than what is on offer...and sometimes when we get what we want,we find out that it wasn't what we thought it would be...We strive towards what is forbidden and always desire things that are denied us..Ovid xlaBPerversity is always ready to consort with human nature...

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RHP User

12 years ago

Is a bitch. We always want what is off limits. You will just have to console yourself with someone else.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Dont act on it...take it back to bed and dream on it.....where it should stay.Your obviously horny.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Be your self. Do not hide your self. Only fools lie with a disguise. Tell her of your dream (when in idle banter), what harm is there in that, for to hide under a blanket thinking its snug will only result in lost friendship. Who knows what dreams she may have to tell you in return. Stand as if you have already lost for then anything will be a gain. For the walls you build now do nothing but hold you in.Open doors and a welcome mat are the sign of generous and caring mind.

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RHP User

12 years ago

With both wise ladies here....fantasy is just that, take the risk of approaching her & the reality could be a destroyed reputation, a sexual harassment claim & you being out of a job....on the upsude, enjoy the dreams for what they are & respect your friendship, she trusts you obviously, don't breach that trust...the friendship is worth more than a flight of fancy.....good luck! :)- Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

12 years ago

There are far more wonderful available women in the world than to contemplate messing with the woman of another man.... at work... double trouble consequences. I doubt you'd be too happy if another guy cut your soon to be marital grass. Do not look for a window where there is no open door. Look elsewhere for women to be your fantasy that you can act on. They're out there ;-) L- Posted from rhpmobile

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