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The text message
August 13 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
Some men on this site think were all hookers which were not , there is very polite men out there that do respect us , my advice block the sleaze bags !!! I had a guy say the same words to me and when I said no he's reply was I don't like you G string anyway what a tosser lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yep.....dickheads...!! .Have received the Ohhh so subtle and romantic first messages of: "Wanna fuck?". "Have you got more pics, and do you squirt?".etc etc........I immediately put a wall up and write a rather nasty text message in reply....Along the lines of "I am NOT a walking fanny on legs,just here just for yr sexual pleasure, so fuck off weirdo...". Needless to say, they don't try twice.....LMAO.. .. My man tells me to "Be nice, its a sex site, what did you expect?" My reply,...."I still expect polite and respectful greetings, ". Miss C..xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hottie1
11 years ago
though I need to be turned on before it is 'effective'. I'm with you on this OP, where is the build-up? Don't be disappointed though, because we have met some really incredible people on here. You do need to sift through the duds, the liars, the players etc. before you find a connection with people who you will be compatible with. Hang in there. Mary xx PS - love the bra, I have the same one
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RHP User
11 years ago
no you are certainly not alone there bexywomen ....... do guys really think that gets us goin ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I sympathise with you. What ever happened to the subtle art of flirting. And it is possible to be explicit and sexy without being crude and rude. You deserve better. PS But if you get the urge I'd love you to come and suck my cock!
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RHP User
11 years ago
No I haven't received text messages like that, probably because I wouldn't give my mobile number to a guy who thought that sending a text like that was appropriate. I like a bit of sophistication in my lovers. What sort of age group are you talking about? Men in their 40s?!
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RHP User
11 years ago
It can be a bit of bravado. I told one guy (after chatting on here where his messages were articulate) that the texts were getting a bit rough and he said, Sorry, thought that was what women off RHP expected? Another lovely bloke told me that he sent those kind of messages because at first he was sending polite and friendly messages, and was fed up being told "Youre not for me....too fancy with the messages". So, some of the women on here can take some of the blame for turning down guys for NOT being inappropriate! Its a funny old RHP world.Saying that. if I get to know someone, I like a bit of naughty texting, but not straight off.....
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RHP User
11 years ago
But we would never give out our mobile number until after a relationship of mutual respect and friendship has been established. My husband does not communicate a great deal with our special friends but he would never in a million years speak like that to a woman. There's no call for it. Maybe screen your friends a little better before opening up all the lines of communication. Also, make it very clear from the start that your not some random booty call. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have not received a message like that and hope that I never do unless its from a long term lover and its pary of the "Play" I am very slow to give out my phone number. I take every precaution, simply for my safety. So far the men that have my number have been lovely and respectful and I very much appreciative of this. I guess it comes down to intense screening, which is what I conduct Have though been a bit grumpy if woken from my sleep but not their fault, I work strange hour and sleep even stranger
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RHP User
11 years ago
Meeka,, velvetNoir......Task tsskkk..!! The OP did NOT state that she gave out her mobile pH number, so why assume that she did? (Esp as you 2 are so big on the whole 'let's not assume line...haha!!). I personally read it as being a first or early RHP message.....Why did you see it as being any different? I hardly think a 'nornal' human being would reply to such a RHP message with. "Ohhhh, gee thanks for the sweet and loving message. I would be delighted to fuck yr brains out, suck yr cock and squirt my pussy juices in yr direction....My pH number is.............. Please contact me at hour of the night and day.." Kind regards Muss C..xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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MissBishere
11 years ago
I have received them to. It is more disappointing after you have met once and them don't hear from them and out of the blue comes the "are you free now" text. I wonder what would happen if I sent messages like that? "Come eat my pussy" Or "I'm horny let's fuck now" - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Missb72' I have received them to. It is more disappointing after you have met once and them don't hear from them and out of the blue comes the "are you free now" text. I wonder what would happen if I sent messages like that? "Come eat my pussy" Or "I'm horny let's fuck now" - Posted from rhpmobile In case your still wondering they would be banging your door down that's what ! I love guys sending those messages, they make me look good.
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RHP User
11 years ago
What are you saying? That if a guy gets fed up and is not getting any positive responses on RHP that it's okay for him to be rude and send stupid messages like wanna a fuck??
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RHP User
11 years ago
Only from people I have met and played with and know quite well. Not from a random guy. There are so many nice guys on here that get passed over in the wake of the obnoxious ones that treat you like "A Vagina on legs!" Yes it is a sex site but still there is a level of respect and manners that is expected from all of those involved. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Not at all, it was just one example. I can't imagine myself ever telling a bloke his messages were too tame. But,there you go, it takes all sorts. I remember someone on another post saying they liked these kind of messages? Each to their own.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just treat the "wanna fuck" messages as the spam they are. These guys just send it to as many profiles as possible hoping one says yes. They don't care if you say no or get pissed off, they only care if you say yes.I know it can get frustrating, but it's kind of like getting angry at spam emails when all you have to do is press delete and get on with the day.There are some fucked up people in both sexes, and this site is not immune to it !But out of curiosity, I would like to see the reaction from some commenting here if the "wanna fuck" message came from your wealthy male celebrity crush ???
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QLDtwo4fun
11 years ago
We go to a few parties. The single guys are there by invitation and generally know what there role is. If they don't the don't get invited back. I always try to ensure the lady has a good time and will want me again when the opportunity arises.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The OP clearly talked about text messages. You know, the ones you send via mobile? Tssk tssk to you. OP, did you mean RHP messages? No, those ones are not acceptable, but hang in there. Plenty of decent people here!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I assume if someone sends you a text message they have your mobile number. Not sure what the big deal is?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Although who are you to say what is normal? Some people are after random sex and may be more than happy to receive a message like that. Just because it's not your thing doesn't make it abnormal. Does it? I did ask a guy once if he received any positive messages to his "wanna fuck here is my number" and he said yes. If he sent 20 messages out like this he would get at least one positive response. Especially at 2-3am on a Friday and Saturday night. Is it true? Not sure but if it didn't work why would he continue to do it. I also know of women who occasionally say yes and just go fuck a complete stranger just fr a bit of fun. I would say they were "abnormal human beings"?!! .
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RHP User
11 years ago
That was supposed to say that I WOULDN'T CALL THEM ABNORMAL.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Meeka....True that...!!!! normak was the wrong term to use,, I didn't mean to sound judgmental to those that like such messages...Should have said SOME people....Meander.....also correct..... My apologies....Must think first, write later sometimes ... But those messages do shut me to tears, luckily few and far between.. Have a nice day. Miss C..xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I get messages like this all the time..... The caps lock key is stuck on with nearly all of them :/ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just gobsmacked at these post I've read! It's these fuk wits that make it harder for the honest respectful guys here... I wldnt even speak like that to a partner let alone a stranger
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RHP User
11 years ago
wanna fuck? they just hang up on me. sheees some people just do not understand that I happen to have a golden vagina I only get those ones when I send a picture of said V then its ohhh my god, where is my miners cap and tourch?
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Recently I received a message from a man (10.30pm at night), mentioning his location, was just leaving hockey and wanted to met up, followed by number. Shame I refused, as they do say hockey players perform better in bed because they like to hit from behind and break in new equipment. Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
It actually makes it EASIER ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
"Ladies am I the only one who gets the 'cum suck my cock' texts at anytime of the day? Really is this suppose to be a turn on? And Subject "the text message" Even with my poor English skills I understood it Spanglish and commented appropriately .
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am old school and have noticed over the years that for some men, respect and politeness is out the window towards women...
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Welcome. ;) Loving the shoes....they're HOT! Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
After reading the responses to this topic, I find it strange that no one has picked up on the actual timing of these short, abrupt and generally sleazy texts. If they are in fact via your phone then I'd have to say you need to refrain from handing out your private number and use a second or even third email address so that you can always cancel it at a later date if you find these types of texts become more and more frequent! Personally I've never sent a text of the forementioned nature, but I can gaurantee that nine out of ten times they're sent after 11pm on a Friday or Saturday night after the guy is totally plied with alcohol so he's loins are talking and not his very small and naive brain. The bottom line is that when guys drink they think with their dicks! It's been that way since the dawn of time and will be long after we've turned to dust. So don't take it to heart...Put it down to being young, dumb and full of cum! On a more depressing note, I bet you'd find the Neanderthals that send those texts don't even read the forums on RHP, they're too busy copying and pasting their twenty "Want to suck my dick?"texts to see if in there drunk horny state, one will reply. Sad but true...Keep your chin up and your finger on the block button. Good luck! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Smilingwithfun
11 years ago
As a Hockey player we are good at strokes & you should see the size of our sticks. Yes welcome Inthekiss, Love the bathtub pic.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's messages like that, that make it so hard for guys like my self, to make it through the filters of most women I honestly don't know how and why some guys would think that would work, I can understand if it was part of the foreplay like Velvetnoir mentioned but to talk to someone like that that you hardly know what's the world coming to
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RHP User
11 years ago
OK VelvetNoir....I apologized to Meeka and Meander re this thread....I failed to mention your name also...not purposely, i refuse to apologjze when i feel i am in the right, but am hapoy to stand corrected if im wrong...so here goes..apologies to you also... Now have a good day... Miss C.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Actually those messages make "us" look good. You have to understand the forums are a minute fraction of the RHP cosmos. Check out some more women's profiles, you'll find more than a few where those messages work just fine and the softly softly nice guy approach will get you nothing but "fuck off softcock"" Vivre le difference
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Although who are you to say what is normal? Some people are after random sex and may be more than happy to receive a message like that. Just because it's not your thing doesn't make it abnormal. Does it? I did ask a guy once if he received any positive messages to his "wanna fuck here is my number" and he said yes. If he sent 20 messages out like this he would get at least one positive response. Especially at 2-3am on a Friday and Saturday night. Is it true? Not sure but if it didn't work why would he continue to do it. I also know of women who occasionally say yes and just go fuck a complete stranger just fr a bit of fun. I would say they were "abnormal human beings"?!! . they wouldn't be abnormal, meeka, but I would feel bad for them if they needed to be drunk before they became stool pidgeons (which is pretty much the excuse you've given)there's a big difference between sexual liberation and being honest about your sexuality, and having a fragmented upbringing and reacting to a cheap, trash-merchant (who will probably have the first touch of a rapist anyway, so you got what you asked for ;) )
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RHP User
11 years ago
It is interesting everyone's thoughts and comments. This was a 'relationship' that has been going on for a while but I don't believe it justifies this sort of crude communcation. I am not a whore or a vagina on legs, I am a mature, sensible, caring and intelligent women that believes that i deserve better. Thank you for your responses as they have reassured me that they are not appropriate.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'HoldMyBeer' they wouldn't be abnormal, meeka, but I would feel bad for them if they needed to be drunk before they became stool pidgeons (which is pretty much the excuse you've given)there's a big difference between sexual liberation and being honest about your sexuality, and having a fragmented upbringing and reacting to a cheap, trash-merchant (who will probably have the first touch of a rapist anyway, so you got what you asked for ;) ) That certainly has to be some of the most ignorant, insulting garbage I've ever read on here.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Like any comedian who has been faced with an angry crowd will tell you, it's all about audience and purpose. Communication is essential and all too often have I seen this area being taken for granted. In this case, I feel that those kind of messages would be shared between two people who understand each other intimately. By this I mean they know each other's boundaries, humour, tastes, expectations etc. It's all too often I have seen that people will more than often think of themselves before communicating rather than taking the other person into account. Selfishness can be seen in the way people act but also by the way people communicate also.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have received all sorts of messages but just reply politely and leave it at that. Everyone is different and that's what makes the world turn. Just curious, how can innocent posts get so nasty sometimes???? Perhaps i should start a post about that........
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Weaponofmass' After reading the responses to this topic, I find it strange that no one has picked up on the actual timing of these short, abrupt and generally sleazy texts. If they are in fact via your phone then I'd have to say you need to refrain from handing out your private number and use a second or even third email address so that you can always cancel it at a later date if you find these types of texts become more and more frequent! Personally I've never sent a text of the forementioned nature, but I can gaurantee that nine out of ten times they're sent after 11pm on a Friday or Saturday night after the guy is totally plied with alcohol so he's loins are talking and not his very small and naive brain. The bottom line is that when guys drink they think with their dicks! It's been that way since the dawn of time and will be long after we've turned to dust. So don't take it to heart...Put it down to being young, dumb and full of cum! On a more depressing note, I bet you'd find the Neanderthals that send those texts don't even read the forums on RHP, they're too busy copying and pasting their twenty "Want to suck my dick?"texts to see if in there drunk horny state, one will reply. Sad but true...Keep your chin up and your finger on the block button. Good luck! - Posted from rhpmobile brawn and brains. If your a weapon, I hope that you can come over here and assault me with a friendly weapon? sad but true, drunk and horny make for the long grind , it can only end in tears. The best thing is to just text back and say, sweetie I do not like that kind of text, or I do not want you to text me as your plan B girl when the pub has shut and you missed your target cause you were drinking with da boys. some guys think that we are all free hookers and that is understandable, after all we are on a sex site and we have or at least I do , have naked pictures. We do this because we want men to lust after us, if we did not we would be on a date site dressed as Mary Poppins its really silly to shit can a man for just being what he is, a primal heat seeking missile when the hot bits are pointed in his direction. I love men, bless their little cotton socks, including the clueless guys, give them a few clues but nicely , ladies.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting inthekiss... "brawn and brains. If your a weapon, I hope that you can come over here and assault me with a friendly weapon?" Sub text = come here and fuck me... Male sends "how about you suck my dick??" Sub text = as it reads..... So I ask ..... What's the difference between the two statements??? I have a theory.....but I'd like to see others views..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
It costs nothing to be nice no matter what your intent. There's a right way of doing things and then there's the wrong way. I'd hate to be thought of as sleazy by anyone.
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RHP User
11 years ago
So that's a No from the ladies......oddly I don't find that surprising since all the V's I've encountered come attached to a person with self-respect and feelings (and good taste too of course....ba boom tsh). Not so sure from the guy side though if a "Come lick my pussy" message were to arrive. Plenty would probably drop what they are doing and hit the door as fast as they could (some might even drop who they were doing...but I digress !!!), but a good number couldn't handle a woman being so direct and would get a soft-on out of fear. Maybe someone can come up with a cool nickname like the fabled Unicorn's for the FMF. Maybe the Annie Oakley, you know, straight shootin' gals..... PS. Who's going to be the first to point out I haven't mentioned self-respect or feelings in paragraph 2?
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's only a no from the forum ladies. Is that fair sample of the RHP population. Since many of them are here just to chat I'd say not.
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MissBishere
11 years ago
I am here to fuck the chatting is a sideline. But just because I am here to fuck does not mean I want to be summoned with a wanna fuck message when he is horny. It's like this Guy puts no effort into keeping in contact, weeks go by. Then comes the I have a few hours free wanna play? Message. My response is... Dude you can't be bothered keeping in contact then I can't be bothered fucking you. I don't want to be someone's last thought or backup plan. Actions will always speak louder than words. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'Missb72' I have received them to. It is more disappointing after you have met once and them don't hear from them and out of the blue comes the "are you free now" text. I wonder what would happen if I sent messages like that? "Come eat my pussy" Or "I'm horny let's fuck now" - Posted from rhpmobile But I'd imagine if you'd send either of those two messages, you'd probably get a very prompt reply... Tall
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'Erinwantsyou2014' Some men on this site think were all hookers which were not , there is very polite men out there that do respect us , my advice block the sleaze bags !!! I had a guy say the same words to me and when I said no he's reply was I don't like you G string anyway what a tosser lol - Posted from rhpmobile a guy with not much taste ... your G string looks just fine to me Tall
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's not what you do, it's the way that you do it....How about some originality...."If I can come over, you could dress like Pippi Longstockings, I'll wear my Spiderman pyjamas, and we'll do things I'm going tell my friends we did anyway"
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RHP User
11 years ago
Haven't had any texts that were as rude as "Wanna fuck?" ..etc..., but, I can tell when guys start to try it on and slip through my boundaries. Like texting late at night. Hate it. I don't respond to any 'out of the blue' texts, especially after 9pm. I don't bother with guys that late night text, it's like fuck off ! I'm asleep! Also had a guy recently start-off okay and was actually able to string two sentences together about topics above the belt, but, then thought it was okay to start demanding nude pics of me. I don't share any pics of my body, clothed or otherwise, before I have even met a guy and even then?
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brent3250
11 years ago
Its disappointing that people send those types of messages as i think respect is one quality that we all should be given even though this is a sex/dating site But on the other hand some people like the the direct approach....I say each to their own if you don't like it ignore the message and move on.
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RHP User
11 years ago
.. you think about it there might be some method to this madness. If, as it seems, a goodly percentage of men here do send these types of messages, either via msg or text, one has to ask WHY? Are they just stupid, typing with one hand and drooling? Or are they playing a numbers game? Surely that number of men can't have misunderstood the dynamics of a place like this. The time taken to compose a missive simply stating 'Wanna fuck' would be quite small, maybe it just gives them more time to contact more women. If you take it by the numbers, if this type of message works 1 time out of 100, then they are probably doing a hell of a lot better than some of us who agonise over what to say and take pride in trying at least to say the right thing. Before some here get their granny knickers in a twist and accuse me of condoning this type of behaviour - am I not. Just trying to put up a counter argument on an possible explanation on why it happens! Mooka
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madotara69
11 years ago
If you want a ladies attention, first thing too do is piss them off. Feisty is so sexy. 'Eve said to Adam, "catch me if you can", It's been the same old story ever since the world began'. Mado Mado Tara xx
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MsJonesy
11 years ago
Dont give out your phone number. They can contact you via here, so why share your number before knowing you are both on the same page?
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imupinthesky2
11 years ago
I have read most of all the above messages and couldnt agree more a couple of things to note ....1. if you wouldnt say something in front of your mother then dont say it at all2. if you WOULD say that in front of your mother I pity your mother - but then she did raise you3. the responses you ladies get before during and after you send a "thanks but no thanks", shows true colours personally, as my profile suggests (and for those that already know me, and those that dont) I like to get to know people thru my writing and listening there is a time and place for such comments ..... shock horrorbut I think it conclude after 10 other messages tantilising each other, and NOT a first text from someone or a first text of the day or even out of the blue .... if you were in a relationship and at work and had been texting back and forth during the day and your both getting hot and steamy then sure why not :) make for a nice lunchtime or when you get home time otherwise, if someone cant spell, as you initially typed, correctly, that would be a dead give awayso too would be the time of day that these messages are usually derived, late at night, LONELY !!you know what I suggest ... reply back with a naughty "oooh baby, I would love to, but I would rather you come over and fuck me, my address is" .... and give them the address for the local brothel, I see two options here for these clever dicks, they are either going to drive straight there as they are a stupid guy, or they are a stupid guy (repeated) and use their smart phone (because they arent too smart in the first place) to type in the address to realise where you have actually told them where to meet youmaybe then they will figure it out - maybe not Ladies, you are exactly thatif you want to be treated like a lady then "put out" (PUN intended) what you want to receive in returnif on the other hand your not a lady - I have no ideas as I only like to interact classy sophisticated people so I dont know what your after ;) love peace and manners
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RHP User
11 years ago
My experiences on here with messaging, just RHP messaging, not txt messaging (as I know when the appropriate time is for dirty talk and sexting) is that I am always polite, never rude and crude yet I do not seem to get many responses.. I do not then go all rude and crude, as that's not my style, although I have then tried other tacts that still seem to be of no avail, however it has made me wonder if that's what the girls on here are expecting but then I read in their profiles that they want to be treated with respect and will only except/respond to messages which are polite and respectful which is what I am like anyway, however I am still left wondering how do I get a reply to my messages sent..? Maybe I am just not their type..? I do like a little bit of naughty sexting but again.. I wait till the time is right with the build up, some flirting and I am sure that when I start talking dirty it will be well received.. again, knowing when the time is right for it to move to that level..
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RHP User
11 years ago
and received a txt saying, I just saw you walking is your pussy sweaty ,..... ffs I hvent had sex with this man for over a year, and I find that kinda creepy
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RHP User
11 years ago
"Naughty but nice" text messages. Anyhow, I won't give out my mobile number unless I am meeting the guy. So far, all the men I've met have been "nice" ones. Thank Goodness for that !!! Amy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Serenity2000' "Naughty but nice" text messages. Anyhow, I won't give out my mobile number unless I am meeting the guy. So far, all the men I've met have been "nice" ones. Thank Goodness for that !!! Amy It's called discernment !
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am up for recieving such texts IF, it isn't just some booty call who (like Missb said) hasn't been in any contact since the initial fuck and that is how he wishes to get in my pants again. I would however love it if it was a regular guy and we were cmfortable enough with each other to know what was coming as going to be awesome. Also the delivery can be hot with just wanna fuck in that scenario but no so when it is a random from weeks/months/years ago.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Maybe you're receiving such messages because after your first few (or initial) meetings that's the kind of talk you had or conveyed? Obviously the rest of us don't know, but if you had started out in the bedroom that way, he actually might be under the impression that that's why you like and as such is continuing the conversation along those lines. Just my two cents.
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