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Things that you did, which maybe you should not have...

September 06 2012

I have always been one who lives by the motto , you never fuck your married friends wives or girlfriends. This I felt is the best way to break trust and end good friendships. I also held this view into my professional life where I reinforced to my staff ' that you " dont fuck the staff " for obvious reasons..Well ' this is a first time confession... I struck up a friendship with one of the girls on the staff.. It was one of them things where you feel a growing attraction' but I knew it wont come to anything serious. BUT.. one night she came to my office to say goodnight' we got chatting and next thing we knew we were kissing. That lead to dinner and that lead to her ( and me ) wanting more... So whats wrong with that ? nothing except she was engaged and due to be married within weeks.. I kept telling her this but she says she feels for me.. This is where it became complicated' just 1 week before she got married we made love in my office.. plenty of kissing and touching beforehand but this time we couldnt hold back... Later' we agreed' we must go back to the way it was... Which we did..Now the tricky part.. I was invited to her wedding along with a few others from work... I felt pretty uneasy ( guilty) about this and sat right up the back of the church out of the way.. Then they play ' here comes the bride' and in she comes looking absolutely gorgeous ... I dont know how she found me.. but she did ' locked eyes and gave me the biggest knowing smile... Anyway' at the reception she made her way to me and spoke with me for about 5 minutes like nothing had happened.. Everyone had a good time til the time we farewelled the happy couple off on their honeymoon.. Standing there waving like everyone else when her sister came to me smiled and say's... she will miss you ? then disappeared.. Obviously sisters talk....I only ever seen her once or twice briefly after that, the happy couple built their new home in Queensland.. then we lost touch... I would hate to think the girl I was to marry was screwing someone else 1 week before our wedding.. but it does happen.. So much for my good intentions... I did feel as guilty as hell for awhile.. but now long forgotten..Anyone else' have something they are not too proud of ? Jay.....

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playful4u

13 years ago

At least she was not married when you "made love"

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RHP User

13 years ago

And the best man the night before the wedding. I was working in a bar and the boys were having their bucks night, and said come to a party with us. I said no way am I going to a bucks night, they said no other people will be there its not like that. well I sat there in this appartment playing chess for a while. then woke up with two men in bed. thats all i can remember so not sure what was in my drink. more fool me. I am not sorry that I had two men, just sorry I was dumb to go back to a flat with a bunch of guys andhad a drink. I was young and dumb back in the day.

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RHP User

13 years ago

This has been happening since the dawn of time, it just so happens it is the female that has sowed her oats before she got married, she also probably gave you the typical line(like you, love you, feel for you). Chances are it was last minute jitters but realises things will be ok, you have probably helped her release some pent up emotions, and it is not for you to feel guilty as both of you were willing participants. I would just think it was a fling before finally settling down, guys have done it in the past not so prevalent women but it is the 21st century so anything goes. Nothing to sweat about it is entirely up to them.

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13 years ago

i have done things in the past, i am not proud of...but i think most of us did...sometimes passion, lust, blind attraction can justify many things in one's head...(at least until you're done...then the guilt sets in...)bit like having that chocolate cake, when you're on a diet...you know exactly , how you're going to feel, when you're done...but you're still going to have it(i do have a much better self control now, though...and i know that what i have with my man, is just too precious to risk it...ever)

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