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This is me, What type of person are you??
February 25 2018
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blondes6365
8 years ago
Very well put Msmidniteblu71 Were hearing where your coming from
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RHP User
8 years ago
I can't presume to know where you are coming from but I do relate in many ways. As some forumites may be aware from reading my posts that I am bipolar and many years back before medicated I swung from extreme high to extreme low. Now in my highs people often avoided me as I was just too full on, having ADHD didn't help the situation much I must admit but this did not bother me as I knew how I could be and I would have even given me the shits at times. The lows were a completely different story as those that have suffered deep depression will relate to. All one needed in those times was company if I was up to it and when friends were around it was hard as nobody related to what I was going through, so the usual how are you, cheer up and all the advice in the world meant nothing. In fact it brought me down further (my fault for not telling them of course). Some without knowledge of mental illness do not understand that trying to help being positive with all their advice and judgements does not seem to do anything just make matters worse when all I needed was a shoulder to rest on. Sometimes an ear is so much better than a voice is what I am trying to say. So Msmidnight what ever it may be you are going through at the moment just keep in mind that you are you and obviously you like who you are and that is all that really counts in life. And if it is about matters of the heart you are referring to, that person may one day think what the hell did I let her go for. I imagine there may be a few women out there thinking this of me, well at least I hope so.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I totally understand you and hear where you are coming from. Having a child with ADHD and mental health issues myself sometimes I am just exhausted. A nice escape would be wonderful. Run away. Leave my troubles behind for a week or so................. Hmm maybe I need to find a few people who feel the same to run away with. Anyone???
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RHP User
8 years ago
On here will get exactly where I am coming from........ Anti could use some of your words of wisdom right now. Anyone else who can lighten the mood feel free!! Suggestions for places I could run away to would also be useful. Not that I can but the thought is good.
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RHP User
8 years ago
If you see this post please message me or flirt and I'll message you... Your profile is unavailable to me... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
The one place I have been that made me feel at home and completely free I guess mainly as it is far removed from the stresses of the world and life was the Daintree. As a nature lover it was heaven and those walks by myself to be immersed in its beauty helped me immensely. Maybe there is a place of solitude nearby for you that will help you centre yourself. Happy to run away with you but I have to run away to where you are first :).
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RHP User
8 years ago
Well said. LC.
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RHP User
8 years ago
as the below describes me very accurately too: (I have edited your paragraphs slightly to suit me but again, thanks for posting this) I am a good person. I will help anyone who needs me and I am always there. I genuinely care about people often to my own detriment. I get taken advantage of because of my kindness. I am honest. I have integrity. I am measured when giving advice to not hurt people's feelings. I am smart, intelligent, and I don't tolerate being treated like I am stupid. I know my faults and I know my strengths. I don't need sympathy, just a little empathy. I generally do not have a personal agenda. I know exactly who I can rely on and these are the people I turn to when I am struggling but in saying that I often don't ask for help because all I get is unwanted advice and judgement instead of practical help.Sometimes I just need someone to ask if I am OK without all of that. I just need someone to be there and I need to know that they are there just for me in that moment. My biggest fault is I am willing to give all even if I am getting nothing back. My point is if you have someone like me in your life, treasure them because I am a rare person indeed. Maybe if there was more of me in this world, it would be a much nicer place. **** Hugs to you Midnight. And empathy. ****
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RHP User
8 years ago
You're not alone on this issue, I too have a son and a daughter with issues. Just being there for them is the most important thing, I often refer to the Serenity Prayer for comfort.Stay strong Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference.
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RHP User
8 years ago
The serenity prayer one of my favourite sayings/quotes my mother gave it to me at a very early age and it has helped me through many a shitty episode.
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madotara69
8 years ago
If you step away far enough to look back at yourself, those around you and to see that you are special being just you, no one else can be you, you can’t be anyone else, people try to be another thinking they will be seen the same, better than the person they see themselves and it will only ever fail, not only in self, it weakens the harmony of community spirits, because everyone is special at something no matter what the part is, no one else can be as special in this life is now, as special as you. You are who you are and the special part you play ? Is you are for others your self and if all play thier part themself, we all have something called belong. Believe in your self you are important to everyone, now you see in as belonging, step back to yourself and be the best that no one else can than you, you can then see who is who and disrupts the harmonial balance by not themself and point it out to them to step out and look in...... Well that is what I believe and we belong and as you have said, your doing your bit, well done. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thankyou for sharing and I respect your courage and honesty. I wish you well and there are lots of supportive people here, more so than me but I offer what I can. I'll do what it takes. 4 people depend on me financially and I am proud that I put myself in a position where I can provide that and still have enough time and energy to enjoy my life and have fun with them regularly and also provide emotional support when needed. I'll lead the absolute fuck out of people when the situation calls for it and they almost always follow willingly, I am very good at sex and sensuality and I love to fight but I'm mediocre at it. I struggle to relate to people unless it's in one of those three ways, I default to the third when the first two aren't options and this makes me a little bit sad. I love all animals and they mostly love me back. I especially love cats. I have taken on board recent feedback that I come across angry, bitter and hateful and I am reassessing what I seek from my RHP experience and I intend to present a more balanced impression of myself here but I stand by what I have said.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think alot on here can relate to what you are saying. It would be lovely for ppl to ask if you are ok rather then judge, a hug can be a great thing also however I shy away from contact a bit when Im down. Having BPD (borderline personality disorder) My highs are high and my lows are low and it happens all in an instant where you cant understand how you can be happy one moment and low as hell the next. I also have chronic depression. Im a giver, a carer, I would give the shirt off my back to help others and have often had ppl shit in my face. The past 2 yrs have been hard and I have been suicidal and in and out of hospital. I also feel low about myself because of the mistreatment all my life. Only a few weeks ago my neighbour made me cry when she said "Nance I have never met anyone as awesome as you and I cant understand how you cant see this" Its the first time ever someone had a kind word to say to me when alot would beat me down. She has hugged me, cried with me and she has really made a difference and an impact in my life. I still have bad days and there is always someone that will drag me down but Im feeling a little stronger now. I hope someone will give you a hug also and a good ear to listen to.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have seen ISTJ on facebook and other acronyms for similar Please enlighten me as to what they are short for. Thanks Ms M
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hugs right back babe
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RHP User
8 years ago
I am so happy that someone took the time to be so kind to you. It is nice when someone restores you faith in human nature. It makes our daily struggles a little easier. Mado and Tara thank you for your kind words. The support I and others get on here is amazing and you guys are a pretty awesome bunch!!
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RHP User
8 years ago
It warms my heart to see care and affection for you. These forums do sometimes tell a sordid tale. This however, shows just how important reaching out can be. Genuine words from those I see actually care, and care enough to shout it. Meander and Mado, Vampa. Mojo. Thank you for jumping right in and boosting my dear friend. As someone who has dealt with severe depression, PTSD and anxiety you never ever know where support will come from. It takes time to learn and accept that there are people in this world who don’t judge and lay themselves bare for others to stand on. You’ve got this MB, we are all here for you. B.B. Super hugs, XoXo - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I can feel a new pair of shoes to run away in...
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RHP User
8 years ago
(((HUGS))) I hope the very sincere posts in here have lifted your spirits. 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don’t really look inward much...I’m too busy living inward... Some people have described me as funny, dominant(haha yeah I thought was fucking hilarious too),intelligent.... But to be honest most of em are full of shit... I’m just me...nothing more, nothing less 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don't see your post as a rant, let alone a nuclear sized one. The way I see it is nothing more than a heart worn on the sleeve. I don't mean this in a judgemental way either, in case that is what some may be thinking.
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RHP User
8 years ago
There comes a time in our lives, when we look out the window, and it’s cloudy as fuck....the different depths of grey littering the sky like different sized cotton balls.... And it looks bloody awful...cold, doom and gloom... But... Grey clouds are grey, because there’s sun there to illuminate their colours....if there was no sun, we’d be in darkness... But even darkness, has an ability to highlight the lights....like a city flyover at night.... And yes people are cunts.... ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Right backatcha Peeps Always happy to offer support to anyone who needs a kind word and support anyone who needs it.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I never thought you were capable of such a beautiful analogy. Just loved it. Finished on your usual note which is why I always look forward to hearing from you.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Cool Thankyou I will check it out. Sounds interesting. Cheers Ms Blu
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RHP User
8 years ago
According to the test i did, (Thanks Meander) I'm in the rare personality group (3%) "The Logician". Notable examples: being Einstein and Gates. Seems kinda accurate. Explains why I struggle to provide emotional support, love alone time, question everything, dislike controlling anyone, Hate authoritarianism, brain is always ticking over. love to analyze and improve.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I was going to send you a message just to see how you were doing, but for obvious reasons which I totally understand, your profile was unavailable to me to reach out... But if you ever need to get in touch, I’m always open to listening...and sexting, and ahh fuck it wanna get married?? 😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Not many people choose to see past what they think they see on these fora Bluey.... Which I must admit is a fanTASTIC screening mechanism..... ;) When you use it, you really do see just how superficial people really are ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
I will just post you some of the lyrics of my favourite Gang Of Youths song that I play when it all feels like its getting the best of me. It just helps remind me that everything is temporary and it will pass if I focus on the positive things in my life, of which there are many. I like the bit about standing in the darkness with my heel on its throat. You are right, we are basically alone, but we are stronger than we know sometimes. Hugs and keep moving forward xx The Deepest Sighs, The Frankest Shadows - Gang Of Youths. There’s a warmth in the eyes and a clearness of thought When the deepest of sighs and the frankest of shadows are gone We’re pushing a stone up a mountainous waste And the lines at the store look like lines on a beautiful face See, I’m not so assured Nor unusually strong or outstandingly brave I’m more just fumbling around in the dark for the bulk of my day When there’s weight that’s in youth and the sum of it’s small I will stand in the darkness and laugh with my heel on its throat I will bear the unbearable, terrible triteness of being And if everything is temporary So say the unsayable, say the most human of things And not everything means something, honey
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
The chorus which is the last bit goes And not everything means something honey,Say say the unsayable, say the most human of things,and if everything is temporary,I will bear the unbearable, terrible triteness of being. Thats my mantra when I go into overthinking mode. Which is way too much.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Will have a listen. I really relate to words of songs and just about have 5 for every mood. I overthink way too much too. Anti have reopened my profile so I can at least chat with my friends privately. Ms M
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RHP User
8 years ago
I am OK btw Just the frustrations of life gets to me sometimes. Like everyone I guess.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Cos I still get the whole “profile unavailable come back later” Unlessssssss.... Lol...I’ve made it to your naughty boy list 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm highly educated, filthy rich and very eccentric. Besides that, I don't give a fuck about much of nuthin' Sidebar: My accountants and legal team told me that in the FY 2017 our foundation donated about $200,000 to charity. Thank you God for giving me the capacity to be magnanimous! 🙃⚡️😈 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
...my cock will bump up against your cervix!!! ⚡️❤️⚡️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Many years ago some sai this to me I hope it helps you as well as anyone else Blu Life.... Is about reaching a nice smooth and beautiful platform on a rocky rough climb up a mountain.Always good that somewhere along the way in life there is a place of some sense of serenity. Quoting 'Msmidnightblu71' I am OK btw Just the frustrations of life gets to me sometimes. Like everyone I guess.
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RHP User
8 years ago
meant... Many years someone said.....
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RHP User
8 years ago
Bad, I'm so bad 😀
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RHP User
8 years ago
Time is a very healing place, one in which you can grow. - Denise Tanner -
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' It's one of the personality types according to Meyers Briggs. Worth Googling, taking the test actually taught me a lot about myself and my strengths and weaknesses. I'd never heard of it.I found the page for the Myers Briggs Foundation...it looks fascinating.I think I sound like an ISTJ type, too. I have spare time by the weekend...I think I'll give it a try...see what I learn about myself.
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RHP User
8 years ago
My MB type is INFP, for what it’s worth.
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RHP User
8 years ago
INFJ. LC.
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RHP User
8 years ago
INTJ here
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RHP User
8 years ago
Being the "Logician" (INTP) mine is supposedly the ENTP or ESTJ.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Did it a couple of years back and I remember how correct and incorrect it was for me but most of those type of studies I can generally fit into a couple. I read some of Myers Briggs stuff studying primary teaching as it has always been a consideration in teaching for those who are interested in how a child may learn. My mother retired and 45+ years in the profession used this since I could remember among others.I will have to go and do a test and see what type I am currently
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RHP User
8 years ago
The Mediator INFP-A, for what it's worth.
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RHP User
8 years ago
ISTJ- didn't think I was judgemental......
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Hawt1
8 years ago
ENTP.. well I think? Didn't pay for the test. But the other free test gave me this ISTJ-T (logistician) Interesting how we perceive ourselves isn't it. MB, it's good to get things off your chest :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
We all face our battles and some of us face some very testing demons that can consume us.Depression is more common than many realise or acknowledge and the fact that we don't learn about it means we often have no idea how to deal with it, be it in ourselves or in those we care for. Very brave of you to come forward and sare yourself like that with us all. I can relate, and find that as much as so many want to help, often it is finding peace, 'my zen' alone that works best for me.Why I choose to live alone and socialise when the mood takes me.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Think “discerning” rather than judgemental. It’s not a bad thing!
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RHP User
8 years ago
ESFP Interesting thing to look at. Most of it is me to a tee!!
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madotara69
8 years ago
Yep these girls wouldn't lead you astray, it's a feather in your cap love. Lovely to see you posting, it's been a while patchworkgirl, means i'll be back to the dictionary a little more often, again :) Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
Wish I had your devil may care attitude. Hehe. I don't have a cervix anymore
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RHP User
8 years ago
When I last did the MBTI I came out as INFP, being very close to INTJ (only slight differences in my F vs T and P vs J). Knowing how I am that's a pretty accurate assessment, I think.
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tylannister
8 years ago
Heh. Not to piss in anyone’s Cheerios, but I think it’s worth checking out the Adam Ruins Everything video on the Myers-Briggs test. It makes the MBTI look like a Buzzfeed quiz on which Hogwarts house you would be sorted into. - Posted from rhpmobile
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tylannister
8 years ago
The MBTI test online tells me that I am INFJ. And a Ravenclaw. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I always get Gryffindor in Harry Potter tests!!!. Brave, fearless.....or because I wear glasses!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks hun
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'tylannister' Heh. Not to piss in anyone’s Cheerios, but I think it’s worth checking out the Adam Ruins Everything video on the Myers-Briggs test. It makes the MBTI look like a Buzzfeed quiz on which Hogwarts house you would be sorted into. They definitely have shortcomings and limitations, and people shouldn't think of them as gospel (that goes for any psychological assessment). I think the MBTI in particular has been inappropriately and excessively applied in some circles over the last few years, for sure. Used in a general sense I think they can be interesting though, and can give a general idea of how you relate to the world and the people in it.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I re-sat the test,and was less neutral with my answers, and still got the same result. I'm a 4% minority group member, I give it a fair bit of credibility.
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
Get the same result - INFJ. The descriptions of an INFJ are spot on...and sometimes a little too close for comfort 😁
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RHP User
8 years ago
This time round I am an ENFP
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RHP User
8 years ago
Oh you are NOT dissing Buzzfeed quizzes, I hope - especially the sorting hat ones. Every time they tell me I’m in Ravenclaw - I’d that’s not scientific accuracy I don’t know what is! Don’t make me come over there and spank you. ;-)
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tylannister
8 years ago
I’m not usually the one to get the spanking, but if that’ll serve to get you over here faster, sure I’ll further slander Buzzfeed 💋 Jennifer102 - I think it’s more than just the glasses, that willful independent streak that gets you in trouble occasionally has something to do with it, too, I would think. 😘 And B-Dragon, yeah, that’s generally what my quick perusal found. It does seem like a decent basic personality characterization tool. It’s funny, I had always just assumed it had scientific roots until I went poking around last night. It did a decent enough job characterizing many of my friends, I had never questioned it before. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Noted. And what’s with my spelling in my last post? Ugh.
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RHP User
8 years ago
A friend has been reading this thread and found this. Well worth posting and a good laugh. MYERS-BRIGGS AND DATING ESTP: Here are my genitals, wanna touch? No? Anybody else? ISTP: I would like to allow you to be around me for a while. BUT NOT FOR TOO LONG, BITCH. ESFP: Let's talk about myself while doing shots. Please let me follow you around. Oh, shiny!!! ISFP: Don't pay attention to me (please pay attention to me *single tear) INTJ: Would you like to hear my theory about the relationship between density and gravitational pull? No? Well, how it works is... INTP: *Shuffles around nervously* Let's talk about that thing we find mutually interesting in depth. Do you like comics? No. Movies? Yes?! So, I saw this movie and theoretically... INFP: I won't hook up with you, I'm pure, how dare you. (please pursue me so we can take a bath together then do BDSM) ENTJ: You fascinate me. Can I ask you a bunch of questions? ENTP: You fascinate me. Can I ask you a bunch of questions and make you laugh with my goofiness? ENFJ: I love everything you love!!! Tell me about yourself so I can adjust my personality accordingly. ENFP: I love you. I don't know why I just know we're connected. INFJ: I can see you have a beautiful energy. Let's go for a long walk and I'll tell you about it. ESFJ: Let's go, like, shopping together for trendies! And then to church to confess our sins. ISFJ: I did your laundry for you. Please keep me around. ISTJ: *Nervous laugh* I would make a good partner for the following reasons ESTJ: I think you'd get along well with my family, you should come to the country club this weekend
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thats the whole problem there, those that originally liked you no longer do or dont appreciate who you really are. Ive chatted to men on here, they say they care, like you, like who you are and at the end of the day I find nothing but lying assholes and fucktards. Im about to leave this site and all others because Im sick of the shit. Like you I pour my heart out and tell them nothing but honesty about myself. Some respect that then because you disagree on something they no longer talk to you. Well fuck them all. Some have had their chance with me and fuck it up for both of us, why say they understand when they dont. Basically Im done with this as well as life.
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RHP User
8 years ago
It amazes me how the OP writes what is affecting her and you fucktards take the piss out of her with the bullshit you are writing. You arent helping her one bit when she is reaching out to everyone. Go figure.
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RHP User
8 years ago
That's five now, I think someone's slipping.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm looking to meet people and enjoy life again. I'm as kinky and deviant as long as you are too and we're both comfortable with each other so we can make the most of our experience and hopefully a connection. Say hello, let's chat and see where it leads
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don't agree that anyone is taking the piss out of the OP on this thread. I also hope that you are ok and have some support at the moment.
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
I'm this one. The quote that went with it is so accurate. Very interesting. I think since have become single I have moved away from being introverted which is how I would have described myself in the past. CAMPAIGNER PERSONALITY (ENFP, -A/-T)It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for – and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing. It doesn’t interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool – for love – for your dreams – for the adventure of being alive.Oriah Mountain Dreamer
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RHP User
8 years ago
I know I'm stating the obvious, reiterating something that good blokes have said time and again on here...but, I'm mentioning it, because it's relevant again. That good men do exist, and they are even here now.Good women do too( and there are some fabulous women here ), but I'm not speaking for them. With all due respect...decent people are not that rare. I consider myself one and everyone I call friend is one, too.And the good men are here and everywhere. They're not some rare beast...how could they be, I know so many. Which makes sense....I probably gravitate towards people like me. My point? Hang in there, people who are hurting. Look through the red fog and see clearly again.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I wanted to apologise for my outburst last night and some are right I wasnt in a good way. This still doesnt make it right for me to attack like that. So I wish to say I AM SORRY. Thankyou to all the ppl that messaged me, I forgot I had commented last night till I read my messages and the support I was given was incredible and shows me there is some compassionate ppl out there so for this I THANKYOU. I dont feel I deserved anyone being nice to me for what I wrote so this cum as a shock to me. My neighbour sensed there was something wrong after midnight and sat with me for a couple of hours. She has been a huge support to me over the past 6 mths and Im feeling a little better today.I will try to put a zipper on my lipper lol
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'NortyNancy'I will try to put a zipper on my lipper lol Better an empty house than a bad tenant.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'MrMojoRisin' Quoting 'NortyNancy'I will try to put a zipper on my lipper lol Better an empty house than a bad tenant. LMFAOthankyou Meander & Mr Mojo
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usrightnow_Again
8 years ago
Well, I, Mr. urn., am an INTJ and Mrs. urn. is an ESFJ. Surprisingly accurate. Mr. & Mrs. urn.
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