This may be a strane one!!!!

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  Hey xlr8: fella.. i know where you are coming from.. I am not even here for sex.. *shock horror* I am here to meet people.. and figuring people who are more open about their sexual proclivatins would be more open to someone who looks a little feral.. or displays a little attitude, I paid up and joined.. XLR8: I will talk to anyone.. male, female and all those in between.. BUT.. I will take exception for exception for comments on profiles like.. "No males over the age of 40! we Dont like dirty old men" When i come across these.. I will reply.. in rather nasty language. OH.. and this one is particularly strange.. "To all you single males...DONT EVEN LOOK AT US!!" "we are not interested" UMMM.. excuse me.. but, IS there any other way to read that terrible statement...WITHOUT looking at a profile?? I have met some really nice people on here.. and I have met some not so nice people.. You know. everyone can see what I am.. but, so many times.. even in chat.. people will come in and make comments.. so you go to their profile..and it is locked.. some permanently.. FFS: XLR8 you are right.. if you cant be truthful, and put yourselves out there.. then shut the fck up.. and go have a toss. That should go for males AND females. mind you.. I have a gay bloke who clicked on me in chat one day.. and he emailed asking if the girls played stupid mind games like the gays and bi males do.. I told him yes...!! So, it isnt as though it is only within one gender or sexual group. *OOOP* sorry.. I climb off soap box now..and go do something... cheers Never an easy road taken: never an easy live chosen kio

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  hopefully you will get jumped on from all directions, with this post. whether its a sex site or not it comes with the territory. having the choice to be yourself or someone you would like to be. to be able to run and hide when things are getting a bit to cosy for you. or on the positive side. the ability to reply immediately when someone takes your fancy. A lot of people state that they dont like game players. me included, (then what is it we all do here)?

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  I was looking for sex, and i found it plus much more. :) Hence why i am no longer looking, but still love to come on here to talk to the friends i've made on here, and view forums like this, to see if someone can broaden my mind with new ideas. So i come also for discussion. A very good point johnnybg, we all do play games. The way we react the things we say that we may not or be hesitant to do in real life. I admit myself, that in words on here and in chat i'm more open and confident then i am in person, when i'm more shy. Partially due to the fact that i am online and no one can suddenly yell at me or get angry at me as if said same things in person at say in a pub. I don't have the self confidence. Also online like this i can sit back and view it more more clearly. We all play games to varying degrees and when people get crucified for doing so, its because someone has been wronged by this or it has crossed someones moral line. I wont deny i've taken offense and now doubt done that myself. Perhaps because i think by talking to them i can make them see a different view...broaden there own mind, as i wish to do mine. If this is an elitist or high minded attitude to some then so be it. Its the way i work, and i'd challenge people to take offense to give me reasons why i should change (which i would consider but can't guarantee will agree with). Stepping down of my own soapbox. G_Ana

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  playfulminx

  18 years ago

  I'm not looking for hook-ups 24/7 so while rhp is a sex site as such, I also get on it for the pure entertainment value of it. I'm honest with everyone who write to me. If they are not someone I'm looking for, I will say so (nicely :) ). I'll also give people an idea of when I might be seeking something in particular. I'm very realistic about what I can gain from rhp. Fun in all shapes and forms ;)

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  To be honest I am not sure what you are asking. Are you saying that the average guy does not get a look in on rhp and that they have just as much to offer as the 'show pony'?. If that is the case then of course you are right and I do believe that there is someone out there for most people on this site if you are lucky enough to make that connection. However, you really do need to respect the fact that people do have preferences regardless of how odd or narrow they may be and if you do not fit the criteria, do not take it personally. It is not a slight on you and should not be taken as such. As a 39 year old married size 14-16 straight tattooed and pierced woman I am far from being many peoples cup of tea and so be it. All I can suggest is that you take this site as a bit of harmless fun. It is a great way to meet new people, have a laugh and perhaps have some sexual action. You also have to realise that some people are really on here for the chat and online contact and have no intention of ever meeting anyone in real life. Then again, so be it. Hopefully they are honest enough to let you know this straight up so you can decide whether you want to continue contact. At the end of the day, this is a way of meeting people that works for some but not all. As one of many men vying for the attention of a limited number of women I would think you would have more luck joining a Latin American dance class (10 women for every bloke, no shit) or hanging out in the vegetable section of the supermarket on a Saturday morning when loads of women seem to be doing their shopping. Either way, good luck and try not to let your anger and frustration show. Kiss

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  sounds like u need to adjust your expectations :P

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  I came here to give the chatters the meaning of Fibbering :P And lo!, it comes to pass, the great fibber has many worshipers some worship more than others :/ but hey.. I aint complaining lmao

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  Yep I know what you are taking about, I get a lot more random, regular, and flirty conversations in the streets, on the train, or out shopping then I do here, and it is rely doing my head in, this is a sex site after all and yes I get that the ratio of men to woman here is rely a one sided affair and the girls probably receive a shit load of flirts and messages then most of us guys, so I guess they can afford to be picky, so yes the young buff pretty boys with 12” dongs and all the extras are going to get more attention then the “regular guys” but at least I know I am what I say I am, but I ask you girls this, witch profile is more likely to be True Mr super perfect stud or regular Joe average, no unwanted surprise when you meet with one of us. I know there are some very real super hot people girls and guys on this site, but others are stretching the truth a little here, but we are all human here and therefore we are all not perfect, so I guess all we can do is lower our expectations a little and have fun with who ever is up for it, even if there not the one you had your eye on. Oh a real big Sorry to the girls who I gave a hard time about taking their time (2 days) to replying, I did not realise the amount of messages some of you girls get on a daily basis, however there are still some who have yet to reply, taking your time is one thing, but just ignoring people is just rude, just type “no thanks” and tap Enter, you can do that can’t you? Don’t get me wrong I could care less now I have moved on, but in future try and play nice, cause what goes around, come around. Stepping of my soapbox, but keeping it for future use.

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