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Time Out!!!

December 05 2009

This is me asking as I am not Generalizing!, I flick through profiles as I am sure that is what this RHP is all about, to speak, connest, chat what ever with who ever is out there is the general thing, but after some time of seeing people on line or off and taking the time to write a message thinking of what to say, not to be that person who they dont want contacting them by being short, too forward, not forward enough but just being me which is what I normally do, to end up not even having courtesy to reply with a thank you but no thanks, then maybe I am turning into this flick through send a flirt see how I go with a yes or a no because I can not be bothered giving some (most) people the time it takes to be true or to take their literature as meaning anything. There are some that I speak with, and some that have replied with thanks but no thanks which has given me sight that this is just not a computer I am looking at! but seriously I know we are here for many different things but I am sure we all have had once in our sending a message experience of not getting a reply, so all I am trying to say is courtesy is something that we all should give no matter how different we are or how popular we are as it normally takes 2 seconds to reply sorry no. Will this make a difference probably not but it might to those who have not got a reply

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RHP User

16 years ago

i hope ur private messages aint this long i made it half way thru ur blurb and was over it short and too the point mate

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RHP User

16 years ago

Well you got further than me, short and to the point, so how about an example. Cheers Nev

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RHP User

16 years ago

One would think that the amount of thought and consideration given to composing heartfelt approaches... would warrant a worthwhile reply... or a courteous no thank you. Unless there's a total and obvious miss match as clearly stated in the respective profiles... and the sender is as thick as a dozen house bricks. No matter how stunning and good looking a person is... if their personality is poison.. then they are inadvertently doing you a favour by demonstrating that by not replying, or they are mentally or physically challenged and not up to the simple task. Unless of course they are overwhelmed by approaches and cannot cope. Then some indication that they are not seeking at the moment would be helpful. Successful career women and trained secretaries are highly skilled at handling this protocol, whilst illiterate feral females often fail in this arena. Just my humble thoughts...

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RHP User

16 years ago

If for some reason you cannot make emails brief and to the point, could you at least consider the use of paragraphs to break this whole block of words that just not induce me to read any further than line 2?Perhaps you could even enlarge your font, so much text , so small isn't appealing; to me at any rate.Cheers Dev

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RHP User

16 years ago

I HOPE MY FONT IS "BIG" ENOUGH......

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RHP User

16 years ago

your font is fine baby boy

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wannabyummymummy

16 years ago

I feel for your situation as a rule i try and respond to every flirt or message even if it is a 'thanks not interested' response i appreciate that it takes courage and time to send a message in the first place.However having said that you should understand that ladies get bombarded on this site and sometimes it is a real task to reply to everyone, don't take it personally and just move on, that is what it is all about.oh and i think that devine45 had some good advice on making your messages easier to read and more appealing, good luck with your search.

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RHP User

16 years ago

thank god for that ...

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RHP User

16 years ago

not using them makes u sounds crazy. /lesson of the day. next week we learn "how to make parragraphs with the [enter] key".

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RHP User

16 years ago

It must be the summer heat bringing out all this sarcasm?? and lol.. Spankkrock... obviously the lesson after that has to target spelling words like "paragraph" for instance... is not as in Parramatta :p To paraphrase Jaronimo, people do have their ill mannered moments but lucky enough to bump into real RHP participants every now and again. Jeronimo, try some events listings... and nice abs! Hugs Gaz

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RHP User

16 years ago

I reply! Even though guys don't read my profile....ppft.. I have set messages to auto reply now to * If you can't travel to me then don't bother me!!* or something like that..lolol....and my reply to 90% percent of flirts is the * the short answer is NO ..The long answer is NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.....other 10 % is the * Sorry you don't match what I am looking for*. Well the married guy who sent me a flirt this morning does deserve the NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO answer. pmsl... sweetpetite41<<< Hopes she passed spankrocks lessons on fullstops...bwahahahaha

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RHP User

16 years ago

if ya spel correktly too...giggles...cheers and have fun...jose...

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RHP User

16 years ago

Well, Jeronimo, if all your messages to girls are like the one you sent to me, then I'm not that surprised you don't get more replies. "Hello. Lets talk soon if you want to" is not a message that really warrants a reply, IMO.... especially sent to someone who is not looking for single guys and states that quite clearly. It tells me zero about you and tells me zero about why you would even be interested in me (woman looking for couples only). You are right that it is rude not to reply... but if you don't take the time to personalize your messages, why should I take the time to reply?

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