Time wasters

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Also tired of the keyboard warriors...... Everything goes fine until it comes down to it.... Sap u of your sexy talk and pics and gone, and in our latest efforts, we cancelled with someone who would have actually shown up :/ Oh well, their loss, we certainly won't be dwelling on it!! The hunt continues grrr :))

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  In this day and age of the abailable pics on the internet, do you really believe that ppl are desperate enough to get YOUR pics that they would go to all that trouble? Seriously? We doubt it! We, and other genuine cpls we meet with, have the same problems. We believe it could be because: 1. It excites some ppl to talk 'sexy' and share THEIR pics with other cpls, 2. It is really a bored and lonely person who never intends to meet up but enjoys the sexy interactions, 3. After they see your face pics they arent really attracted and dont like to be direct and honest, or 4. Possibly a number of other reasons! But not likely that they are seeking your pics.... Just our thoughts. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  You also get the singles who chat and are all keen , but when it comes to crunch time , bail out , no show , give false and misleading information. It all comes down to what are they really here for and be real people not fake !

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  The sooner you accept it, the happier you will be. It's not fair, but it's just the way it is. Some people do it for fun, some people do it because they're too chicken-shit to leave the computer screen, and some are too frightened to see that you'll find they are not what they said they were. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  In our situation, as we are not seeking other couples, I think when it comes to the privilege of sharing another mans woman with him, it takes a certain kind of person, one comfortable enough in their own skin, men are also competitive and compare themselves to each other, so for us intimidation may play a part.... But yes I agree, there are a lot of images available and stories for that matter.... So it's a number of reasons..... Bad manners also comes to mind ...

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Quoting 'simple_desires' In this day and age of the abailable pics on the internet, do you really believe that ppl are desperate enough to get YOUR pics that they would go to all that trouble? Seriously? We doubt it! We, and other genuine cpls we meet with, have the same problems. We believe it could be because: 1. It excites some ppl to talk 'sexy' and share THEIR pics with other cpls, 2. It is really a bored and lonely person who never intends to meet up but enjoys the sexy interactions, 3. After they see your face pics they arent really attracted and dont like to be direct and honest, or 4. Possibly a number of other reasons! But not likely that they are seeking your pics.... Just our thoughts. - Posted from rhpmobile I <3 Simple desires always articulate and correct on this matter, that pretty much covers all bases :) its easier to find people to play with now due to the internet, but at the same time its easier to fake it too

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  recently i spoke briefly with a couple on web can chatafter viewing profiles an offer was made to meet up.I was not asked for a facial pic only if i was interested.would I drive the 40 klm's and 10 pm ?Absolutely if there was an attraction.From where I sit and two set's of couples even more unlikely for a favorable outcome.

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  Paradisepair

  11 years ago

  Look for verification. Look for validations. Try to get a phone conversation with the girls happening as soon as it's clear there's an intention to meet.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Let he who is without the first stone..... Im CERTAIN, OP... that others with high expectations have engaged in messages... that to them.... seemed fruitless.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  When I was keen to get together with my own ageI got messed about or seen as not good enough.So does that mean over 40 tends to mess aboutand be a pain in the ass.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I think Simple_desires has it pretty much spot on.. Although I'd imagine photos should have been exchanged prior to agreeing to meet.. so shouldn't be a reason for someone then changing their mind. Once you have said you want to meet, then just disappearing is somewhat rude (putting it mildly) As a single guy that just is something I accept happens (many guys to choose from). But it does make you think you have just been chatting with be fake profile, which leads to some distrust. Thankfully standing by what you say is much appreciated by those who do meet you. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  To blame others for your failed seduction is cathartic and a defensive stance but to over come a problem you can not expect others to change. Blaming ones self for the failure of seduction may seem negative and counter productive, and it is if you take failure as a reason to quit, but take it as a lesson and then you stand a chance of success. The only one that wasted your time was your self, the only one that can change this is your self. So see it this way. You Failed to seduce, the fault is yours. Learn why you failed and apply that to the next time you attempt seduction. For if you think you have done nothing wrong then nothing will change and the same pattern of wasted time will unfortunately rob you of time, time and time again. There is nothing learnt when the fault is not yours.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I'm not a time waster at all if anyone would like to meet tonight haha x - Posted from rhpmobile

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