To flirt or not to flirt

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I get quite a few flirts and while I pay more attention to messages I do try to reply to every flirt/message I get. The only time I do not is if the profile does not have a pic as it clearly states on my profile I will not reply to anyone that does not have a photo as I like to know who Im talking to.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I am one of those people who respond to everything, flirts, messages, forum's.......   I never respond to a flirt with a flirt and we don't send out flirts either (we used to but don't anymore).  The only reason being is the flirts available never really convey what we want to say and I think a message is more personal shows that someone has actually taken the time to respond.   Saying that though I often see forum responses from people complaining about the sheer quantity of flirts / messages they get and they couldn't possible respond to them all...maybe we just aren't hot enough as we don't get that many

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Well we are at Australia's largest 'virtual' bbq. I can totally appreciate ladies getting too many flirts, ala you fine specimens. Just thought I would pose the question...as I found it a little off putting, stating it in your profile. And I thought, fuck, you're not even THAT hot ;P I am in total agreement with you Taby, no pic. Sod off quite frankly. While I'm not prepared to put a public facial pic, I am more than happy to open my galleries if someone asked politely.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Im currently not a paid member (have been in the past) and I generally flirt before sending a message,  most women don't read nor respond to flirts so it makes it a useless function. In saying that, If someone actually looks at them, reads your profile and replies (you no.....the way the system is designed) then I will happily upgrade my account.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Quoting 'danishtreat'  I am more than happy to open my galleries if someone asked politely. I don't have anything to add other than I'm shocked that Gazz hasn't already replied to ^^^ that with a quip about opening your galleries whats goin on?!

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  As long as u actually read there profile and u pay attention to what they are looking for... and u suit that... then yeah flirt away, its the constant flirts from people that know they dont fit ur requirements that is annoying... they are wasting their time and myn..

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  yeah.. Gaz you slacker.. get your nose out of whatever dirty business it is you're doin' and get back here to the forums asap!!! LOL   I'm a terrible flirt and I like receiving flirts and sending them, just for the fun of it... I guess I'm just a tease because to me a flirt is a fun way of saying "you're cute :P" and not necessarily the promise of a shag LOL   I also try to respond to all flirts and messages but it's hard... they do build up and it gets a bit overwhelming at times :P

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  hehe.. thanks Sydneyboy and Sophie... I was a little distracted by the chat room... just doing a little cam surfing.. lolz... got blocked 4 times and thought.. hmmm... that should do it for today.. hehe. Wankers.. gotsa love 'em... hehe. I'm not going near your privates or your galley, danishtreat.. those fishnets of yours are riding way to high.... hehe!.. a dead give away for what's pulling them so tightly on the other side! I've heard about you european men, big fella! lmfao.   For mine, the purpose of flirting is to spread the love.. to make te recipient feelgood about themselves... generally for no other reward than to know that you have helped boost somone's ego. How that is recieved is up to the recipient... I mean, there are those out there who think "well of course you are attracted to me.. I'm very special" or something.. and they don't bother responding.... and then there are those who really are very special who recognise that your flirt is nothing but a simple feelgood message and respond in kind by reciprocating.... and then there are those who for various reasons respond or do not respond for their own reasons.   What get's me a little down are those with whom I might flirt... you know.. people who are obviously too far away and perhaps those with whom I actually have little interest in any sexual interlude given what my profile description and their own says..... but I flirt because I wish to send a feelgood message as a sign of respect, or simply to compliment them for some reason.....  but then in reply I get the "I don't see our planets colliding" reply... I mean, it's not rocket science.... because I don't see our planets colliding either, quite frankly.... and I'd rather get no reply at all... but hey... it doesn't get to me that much.. because it tells me something about the person.     Hugs Gazza

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  and been dismayed by the amount that do get to Perth lolol...HugsMrs P

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  We don't respond to them, we rarely even look at them. It says that in our profile, it says why, and that's that.We understand that not everyone is in a position to pay for membership, so by letting them msg us for free, why should we reply to their flirt with a message?At the same time, we don't send them out. If we're interested, we take the time to type out a relative message with appropriate content.We used to reply to everything, but for a while barely even get a chance to sit down together and look at msg's, so flirts are way way way way down the list of things to do on here....

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