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To the men in the relationship

June 05 2010

Guys, I have a question which I've tried to find some info to no avail.........we all read about premature ejec but do many of you have any issues where it seems to take a long time to reach orgasim. Now I have a very loving sexy partner and consider we have a very healthy sex relationship...I'm a fit person and try to look after myslef i.e. no medical issues but even though I remain hard it can sometimes feel as through it takes along time or allot of consentration to reach orgasim (I've raised this before with friends and the women all say whats the problem....hard for an hour without cumming....lol) Anyway I just thought I'd tap the collective knowledge of you all and see if my experiences are shared by others. David & Em

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RHP User

16 years ago

sometimes tired...sometimes anxious...sometimes anxious to please too hard...solution...i have found that wanking while my lovely lady kisses me where she feels like it...is an excellent pressure release...cheersjose...

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RHP User

16 years ago

Actually, overstimulation causes this to me. Sometimes I think ffs can I just blow and go home. :p hugs g

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RHP User

16 years ago

Go for a quick fuck. Arrange it. In the morning think of nothing else all day at work knowing that when you get home you'll be fcukin the minute you walk in that door it's going to be hot and all for you. Lol. I wish I had a gf to do tat to. Lol. Fab.

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RHP User

16 years ago

I hear ya,, happens to me when i have been going for ages or lots of teasing during the day, then a long session later,, but stress can cause it too,, to much drink. If you really need to come i get the wife to talk really dirty or one time she was looking after me and another guy,,mmm,, and we both wanked till we cum all over her. But sometimes you just have to all it a day,, lol,, thats my 2 cents.. goodluck.

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RHP User

16 years ago

I can give you a link to a thread with examples, where circumcised (obviously you may or may not be lol) fellas have said they have some issues with cumming cos of some lack of sensitivity... Google the topic if you're interested... other than that Stalky seems to offer the most likely answer lol, while Jose offers an excellent solution.Hugs... Mrs P'

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16 years ago

I too find it "hard" to cum at times I agree with Stalky it's often from over stimulation and Jose in regards to a way to fix it. Also like bluejays if I am busy as hell with business and life has me running a million miles I will often be happily hard but not "reach my goal" so to speak! I would also say I have become use to it, I am very happy to not cum , at times my lovely gal will cum a few times and later after she has "come" to her senses agian , will ask me if I did. Most times I am pretty happy to not cum at all it's about pleasuring your partner when they're happy .... I am ! Brae

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