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Too fussy ?!?!?!
September 27 2014
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
probably copping the brunt of frustration from guys who are continually knocked back - it happens to many here. Guys like to have a win once in a while, but when that doesn't come along someone's gotta pay . Of course you have the right to pick who you want to spend some time with - isn't that the raison d'etre for being here ? Good luck, Tall
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RHP User
11 years ago
Read, shrug, block, delete, next! Plenty of great guys on here.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I always read it as pretty desperate when a guy pushes or gets shitty if I say no. I could be wrong but that's how it comes across to me. And that kind of desperation is pretty unattractive. (Side note: if guys are so desperate for sex, why not just pay for it?!) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Standards keep you sane! Never compromise ! And never apologise for being fussy ! It is a good thing !!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'Burning_Love' I always read it as pretty desperate when a guy pushes or gets shitty if I say no. I could be wrong but that's how it comes across to me. And that kind of desperation is pretty unattractive. (Side note: if guys are so desperate for sex, why not just pay for it?!) - Posted from rhpmobile Because despite the fact they are desperate, they are also friggin' cheap and they think that RHP is a reservoir for free whores. Lol. A shock to some men when we say 'NO'. Oh dear me, when will these men learn. Although there are so many wonderful men here as well..
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RHP User
11 years ago
To be fergectly honest, most guys profiles and messages make saying no very easy
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Nah it's called "having Self Respect" Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Oh course you can and you have a right to choose yourself without anyone making that decision for you. The only obligation you have is to yourself before anyone else. Foxy
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Nothing wrong with having standards, being fussy at all.......don't let it get to you, you can't please everyone, do please yourself......💋
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RHP User
11 years ago
But women tend not to get nasty when you knock them back. When a guy comes back at you in a rude or disrespectful way, it just validate your choice. Don't let them doubt yourself.
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RHP User
11 years ago
bullet dodged....
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RHP User
11 years ago
... be confident with your no... As long as your not fucking with a guys head, you have the right to a no...
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RHP User
11 years ago
you are probably just another woman in a long line of women to say no and I get how that would be pretty frustrating. It is never nice to take rejection after rejection. I know what that feels like when I am looking for something a bit more than sex and that is all they are offering, it does get to you and you wouldn't be human if you didn't snap at some stage. Sometimes that is compounded by life outside of RHP too such as stress, work, health, kids etc. Don't take it personally.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Tall_n_Hard' probably copping the brunt of frustration from guys who are continually knocked back - it happens to many here. Guys like to have a win once in a while, but when that doesn't come along someone's gotta pay . Why does someone have to pay? Why the frustration? I've had my fair share of no responses and 'Thank but no thanks" templates and I've sent a few myself. If I hit on a lady at a bar and end up with a drink thrown in my face (the reason I don't wear light colours when I'm on the prowl ;) ) I don't take it out on the next chick I hit on. Why should it be any different on here? I completely see why man bashing happens in the forums, the majority of men, it seems, are complete idiots when it comes to messaging anonymously via a keyboard. It's weak and childish to get upset because someone said no. I use to get a smack on the butt if I the a tantrum to get my own way. So here's a hint to all the men out there. Man the fuck up, or hand your man licence back in. There no guarantees of sex when you join just as there aren't when you hit on a lady at a bar or ask the cutie you see every day on train out for dinner. Fuck, I must be tired to rant like this but I'm sick of hearing about the stupidity of these of these morons. Grow a set of balls boys.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've got used to getting no reply at all so when a woman shows the courtesy of saying no thanks then I'm usually grateful enough to thank them for bothering to say as much. Remember that the men here outnumber the women by 2.3 squillion to 1 Keep going knuckle heads you're making the rest of us look good
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MissBishere
11 years ago
I think that's the long post you have ever made and the most serious. Way to go you! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Funlover71.. Totally agree. I have been on the receiving end of the not my type agro induced messages. And its not a nice experience. Those that are nice about it get nice reply Those that are abusive .. get a block and report. - Posted from rhpmobile
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QLDtwo4fun
11 years ago
I can't see why people would be upset by a rejection on RHP. Firstly it's not real, the person rejecting you doesn't really know you, they make a decision based on a few photos, a few hundred words, and maybe a chat. Secondly RHP is like a supermarket shelf, people are 'shopping' for a consumable, what they feel like having now or in the near future may change. Thirdly there are the window shoppers. They are on here it's a thrill, but they may never go though with it. There are probably loads more reason, but think of it this way! why let would you let someone else's missed opportunity when they reject you ruin your day. The only thing you can control is you, so why be an asshole.
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RHP User
11 years ago
But it speaks volumes about the character of the person has to how they respond.....there is absolutely no excuse for abuse or rudeness no matter how many times a person has been rejected..... Keep on being fussy,these sorts of responses should only confirm that for you OP...hugs xxQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
Does anyone else have all contact cease when you tell someone you don't play on first meet? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Funlover71' Quoting 'Tall_n_Hard' probably copping the brunt of frustration from guys who are continually knocked back - it happens to many here. Guys like to have a win once in a while, but when that doesn't come along someone's gotta pay . Why does someone have to pay? Why the frustration? I've had my fair share of no responses and 'Thank but no thanks" templates and I've sent a few myself. If I hit on a lady at a bar and end up with a drink thrown in my face (the reason I don't wear light colours when I'm on the prowl ;) ) I don't take it out on the next chick I hit on. Why should it be any different on here? I completely see why man bashing happens in the forums, the majority of men, it seems, are complete idiots when it comes to messaging anonymously via a keyboard. It's weak and childish to get upset because someone said no. I use to get a smack on the butt if I the a tantrum to get my own way. So here's a hint to all the men out there. Man the fuck up, or hand your man licence back in. There no guarantees of sex when you join just as there aren't when you hit on a lady at a bar or ask the cutie you see every day on train out for dinner. Fuck, I must be tired to rant like this but I'm sick of hearing about the stupidity of these of these morons. Grow a set of balls boys. ======================Ha outstanding and well worded....Look im far from perfect & I too have had my share of wins, knock backs and also "knocked back". Yes we all love sex on here but that does NOT mean we want sex with every single person on here. .....I agree to "blame" someone for a natural human process shows they are disconnected from reality. KIS says it well too, dodged a bullet - 100% correct its a self filter the undesirables apply to themselves.Fuck wont I get smashed for saying that - To bad im over it too!Andrew (SA)
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
You've taken those 3 words somewhat outta context in relation to the rest of my commentary. I was speaking in general about the feeling of such a particular person who would be 'worn out' with receiving knock-backs all the time, and was venting his frustration. The 'wink face' should have been a clue to you that it was intended to be a little light hearted with the message. I would presume that there are indeed many of us who will take the knock backs in their stride, for as we all know, nothing is guaranteed here (or in life). Just as there will always be some who are not prepared to be turned down, or sometimes the just plain tired. Tall
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beachgal20
11 years ago
Funlover71 you are right!!! I have found the ones that get nasty are those under 30 who I have said "no" to a couple of times...they really do need to " man up" Everyone has the right to their choice......
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6exxy
11 years ago
There is damage on both extremes of this ledger. Men and women too rude. Men and women too forward. Respect is a personal thing not a sex thing. I don't agree with a blanket approach simply deal with each situation as it needs to dealt with. Yes some guys do need to be blocked for their behaviour and some women need to mind their manners on refusals. Saying all that nothing is going to change each will continue with the behaviour the grew up with.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Tall_n_Hard' You've taken those 3 words somewhat outta context in relation to the rest of my commentary. I was speaking in general about the feeling of such a particular person who would be 'worn out' with receiving knock-backs all the time, and was venting his frustration. The 'wink face' should have been a clue to you that it was intended to be a little light hearted with the message. I would presume that there are indeed many of us who will take the knock backs in their stride, for as we all know, nothing is guaranteed here (or in life). Just as there will always be some who are not prepared to be turned down, or sometimes the just plain tired. Tall But this comment as well as Ralf's added to the 'Men need Help' thread were annoying me. Plus it was very late and the Aussies were getting beaten in the Rugby so I was a little cranky. I wasn't having a crack at you personally just at a statement that I thought was ridiculous and giving people an excuse to behave badly for the safety of their lounge rooms. You may have been trying to be light hearted but the excuse is still there. I'll go back to being the class clown again, I prefer debating in person where I can shout over the top of anyone that dares to disagree with my pearls of wisdom. I don't need a keyboard to be brave. Can I have my Man Licence back now? It was revoked sometime last year and I miss it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Your Man licence is just hiding under a cushion...the purple one,on the couch...see,there ya go:-) xxQ
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imupinthesky2
11 years ago
I dont think you can ever be too fussy ....but I do prefer to think of it as being "particular" if someone, M F or C (hell why not throw TV TG TS in there for measure) cant accept a polite "thanks but NO thanks" then I personally think it is their issue in life, we all get knock backs, interviews, sports teams, RHP so I tend to think of it as character building
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Funlover71' Quoting 'Tall_n_Hard' probably copping the brunt of frustration from guys who are continually knocked back - it happens to many here. Guys like to have a win once in a while, but when that doesn't come along someone's gotta pay . Why does someone have to pay? Why the frustration? I've had my fair share of no responses and 'Thank but no thanks" templates and I've sent a few myself. If I hit on a lady at a bar and end up with a drink thrown in my face (the reason I don't wear light colours when I'm on the prowl ;) ) I don't take it out on the next chick I hit on. Why should it be any different on here? I completely see why man bashing happens in the forums, the majority of men, it seems, are complete idiots when it comes to messaging anonymously via a keyboard. It's weak and childish to get upset because someone said no. I use to get a smack on the butt if I the a tantrum to get my own way. So here's a hint to all the men out there. Man the fuck up, or hand your man licence back in. There no guarantees of sex when you join just as there aren't when you hit on a lady at a bar or ask the cutie you see every day on train out for dinner. Fuck, I must be tired to rant like this but I'm sick of hearing about the stupidity of these of these morons. Grow a set of balls boys. .......just a shame that those who should be reading it and getting it through their heads probably aren't reading it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Agree with you all the way! That someone is cranky or jaded because they've been turned so many times is not my fault, so they can vent their anger somewhere else. (Then again, no one here was responsible for the footy score either ;-p) Glad you got your Man license back.
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MsJonesy
11 years ago
Quoting 'libbylou' Does anyone else have all contact cease when you tell someone you don't play on first meet? - Posted from rhpmobile And I silently thank them. They have ruled themselves out of the equation by proving in all likelihood they were on a 'blow & go' mission.
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MsJonesy
11 years ago
Quoting 'Funlover71' Quoting 'Tall_n_Hard' You've taken those 3 words somewhat outta context in relation to the rest of my commentary. I was speaking in general about the feeling of such a particular person who would be 'worn out' with receiving knock-backs all the time, and was venting his frustration. The 'wink face' should have been a clue to you that it was intended to be a little light hearted with the message. I would presume that there are indeed many of us who will take the knock backs in their stride, for as we all know, nothing is guaranteed here (or in life). Just as there will always be some who are not prepared to be turned down, or sometimes the just plain tired. Tall But this comment as well as Ralf's added to the 'Men need Help' thread were annoying me. Plus it was very late and the Aussies were getting beaten in the Rugby so I was a little cranky. I wasn't having a crack at you personally just at a statement that I thought was ridiculous and giving people an excuse to behave badly for the safety of their lounge rooms. You may have been trying to be light hearted but the excuse is still there. I'll go back to being the class clown again, I prefer debating in person where I can shout over the top of anyone that dares to disagree with my pearls of wisdom. I don't need a keyboard to be brave. Can I have my Man Licence back now? It was revoked sometime last year and I miss it. You might want to slip out of those fetching stockings before asking Funlover, or at least before the licence is delivered in the mail
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RHP User
11 years ago
Most reasonable blokes , well me anyway, will welcome a polite "no". Its honest and to the point. I am not so comfortable with rude responses or put downs but how people react is their perrogative and I try not to take it personally
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
So your reason for your difference of opinion was perhaps, because you were just plain tired ? Tall
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me' ... be confident with your no... As long as your not fucking with a guys head, you have the right to a no... What head are we talking about here? L
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RHP User
11 years ago
No! ;p
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RHP User
11 years ago
Naughty girl... lol but you're right' can be either ... just depends which one your fucking with.. Right ?..
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RHP User
11 years ago
i have no issues with a No. I respect everyone has their preferences. What annoys me is when you send a message, they reply, they want access to your PG, you open your PG and there is no response afterwards. Anyway, whatever :) plenty of other people out there.
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