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Traveling to meet someone long distance
April 17 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
In my case I met someone locally who was on holidays from another state (not an online person) we had an instant attraction which neither of us could ignor. So there was lots of travel that ensued so we could spend weekend time together. It was the happiest and saddest times for me, as I hated saying goodbye each time and having to wait for weeks to see him again. But you cant stop feelings or attraction. Seize all the wonderful opportunities that come your way. Its better than wondering....what if
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RHP User
10 years ago
To meet local guys. And Perth has no shortage of gorgeous men! I did travel interstate once to meet someone Id been chatting and camming with for a few months. That was a great weekend but its much better when you have someone closer to home. I agree with DP....make the most of any opportunity that comes your way. I know 2 people from Perth who are now in relationships with people they met from Interstate. You just never know?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' To meet local guys. And Perth has no shortage of gorgeous men! I did travel interstate once to meet someone Id been chatting and camming with for a few months. That was a great weekend but its much better when you have someone closer to home. I agree with DP....make the most of any opportunity that comes your way. I know 2 people from Perth who are now in relationships with people they met from Interstate. You just never know? Thank you Koko for your input
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Deep_Purple' In my case I met someone locally who was on holidays from another state (not an online person) we had an instant attraction which neither of us could ignor. So there was lots of travel that ensued so we could spend weekend time together. It was the happiest and saddest times for me, as I hated saying goodbye each time and having to wait for weeks to see him again. But you cant stop feelings or attraction. Seize all the wonderful opportunities that come your way. Its better than wondering....what if Thank you deep purple for your input
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have very limited spare time, my spare time is often random and hard to plan so i like my play mates to be local and familiar so when i do have a spare few hours I can see them :) trying to organise to meet with people interstate is just in the way too hard basket , also I like regular play mates which isn't really possibly if they are across the other side of the country
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RHP User
10 years ago
It really depends on why you're looking for. I met some, very much NOT a local, and that has led to much travelling! In terms of looking for a FWB, however, I do tend to prefer those who live within a reasonably close proximity to me, but if I were to connect with someone who wasn't so geographically convenient, that wouldn't necessarily be a no for me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'PoisonIV' I have very limited spare time, my spare time is often random and hard to plan so i like my play mates to be local and familiar so when i do have a spare few hours I can see them :) trying to organise to meet with people interstate is just in the way too hard basket , also I like regular play mates which isn't really possibly if they are across the other side of the country what if that playmate was willing to travel to see you?
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MissBishere
10 years ago
I have limited times that in available due to kids so I prefer someone local. I get contact from guys On the sunshine or Gold Coast and even that makes me hesitate. Mainly because I think what if they travelled and are disappointed. Having said that I have traveled interstate to meet people and for events.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Wolf8619' Quoting 'PoisonIV' I have very limited spare time, my spare time is often random and hard to plan so i like my play mates to be local and familiar so when i do have a spare few hours I can see them :) trying to organise to meet with people interstate is just in the way too hard basket , also I like regular play mates which isn't really possibly if they are across the other side of the country what if that playmate was willing to travel to see you? Its still too hard to tee up me being free when they are in town so still a no from me :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
You travel or they travel there is always the risk of disappointment. The only time that someone travelled here to meet me was a disaster. So I only want to meet local people now Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is that along way?
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RHP User
10 years ago
In Bali. Never met him, just chatted for a week. He was from the same suburb as me too 😂 Lucky I had a cute back up. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
always have a back up plan. 💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Local then at least you can make a booty call. 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'll travel the world
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is that too far? Not compared to travelling the world Rant,but not exactly up the road from me😎....I think if you have already met the person and there is that sexual connection,that is different to meeting someone for the first time. Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
I would be happy to travel even if i got to my destination and i was disappointed I would still have a back up plan to get back home so i could try again i only live in a small lil town and i dont drive not because i lost my license is because i never had one to begin with nor was i taught to drive and because of this im willing to put in the extra effort to see a person however my reasons to see a person is to start a relationship.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The 400K's is not exactly the biggest hurdle.1 She's a farmers wife, a posessive farmers wife.2 She has family all over, including Perth.3 I can't go anywhere further than halfway there...4 Her daughter dobbed her the first time she took a lover.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta1' Is that too far? Not compared to travelling the world Rant,but not exactly up the road from me😎....I think if you have already met the person and there is that sexual connection,that is different to meeting someone for the first time. Q But how do you have a sexual connection if you have never met them in the first place from my understanding chemistry has to be made between 2 people ether in person or on a website like this regardless even for just sex before they move on to sex unless sex is all you want then most skip the chemistry and look at each others locations and bodies see what they like or dislike doing in the bedroom n "hey ill let you play with my shilong if i can play with your snatch" "hey great ill be over in 15 mins" I think if you can see each other through pictures or webcam chat and get to know them what makes them tick what makes them laugh what makes them sad what makes them happy etc and eventually you want to meet distance is not a issue. However if you live in a highly populated area like Brisbane or Sydney and found someone that lives quite a distance from you and that is what you want in a man or a woman before you found someone in your own city or are you going to go nah to far?. for love you will go far and wide to get it and it makes sense for most men or women who just want sex to have it close to home if your horny as fuck and all you want is sex really don't want to drive 10 hours just to have sex for hour or 2 or however long duration of the coitus is.
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sweetgem
10 years ago
Travel from Sydney to Mornington in VIC to meet a man, whom I met on another site similar to RHP :) it was my first time ever to do such crazy and risky thing. But I did it and thank Buddha that he was not a serial killer! 😛 However, I won't do it again nowadays as I'm climbing up the age ladder. I would rather find someone within 15-25km of where I live so the travel distance and time are much shorter and realistic. Convenience comes before many things these days as I need to be able to get home within an hour drive. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
well most women seem to be content finding a playmate or partner in their own city because its convenient for them, so guys do you feel the same way or are you happy to travel to meet some one if you found they were a long distance away before finding someone in your own town or city?
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