M48
True or False?
December 28 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'll give you moral support for making those bold and no doubt true statements. It's all because they can... So many chaps looking for a bit... the willing ladies can pick and choose. As long as they have a vagina, boobs and the inclination there'll be a queue of horny guys wanting to make their acquaintance. The anonymously of an online site can lend itself to a different etiquette that the society set, but the primeval urges still beat in every amorous chest with the strongest urges emanating from each and every lustful groin... till their naughty bits get the opportunity to meet... whether that be the backseat of a car or the ladies boudoir.
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RHP User
16 years ago
At least this one is a little more eloquently put and has paragraphs! ;) I've never been one to jump on a bandwagon, so instead I will give you my perspective. Everyone is on here for different reasons and so it's very hard to put people in baskets. I will also put a disclaimer in here that I very rarely go into the chat rooms, so I can't even give you my perspective of what happens in there. I personally don't know of anybody who doesn't like to be complimented or like to feel desired. It does boost ones self confidence and no, I don't think there is anything wrong with that. I don't think that you'll find many people who actually joined the site for the sole purpose of 'pumping their tyres' though...I think that is just something that happens once you're here. Believe it or not, it can be quite overwhelming (especially as a newby) to be inundated with all these willing guys and it can be really hard to pick and choose who you want to chat to. I also think there is often this assumption that once you agree to chat with a guy that they believe they're a shoe in for a meet and most likely getting laid...most women I know like to get to know someone a little better before making that decision and that comes with time. Is that leading a guy on? No, it's making an informed decision! You see, for me, whilst I like the compliments and they boost my self confidence, I also have enough self worth to want to feel a guy is worthy of all my womanly goodness =P and I am just not interested in f*cking every Tom, Dick & Harry. Does that make me a time waster for all those who just want a quick root? What do I care!? It's my body and I will give it how, when and to whom I choose! To be honest, the only reason that I still have my single profile (I'm also part of a couple profile) is so I can come and speak on the forums as myself and make new friends in the like-minded people I meet on here. I have no interest anymore in hooking up with anyone by myself and I have made that very clear on my profile (although, I should really get in there and change it altogether rather than just have an update at the top....ahhhh, too busy posting on the forums LOL). I didn't see anything in the terms of use to say that you had to be willing to put out to become a member, so I guess that for now I am ok to stay ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks mate... But I'm sweet... I'm not actually recruiting or looking for moral support. haha. I've merely posted this topic to see what comments different people have on the subject. Being on RHP has been a great social experiment for me. It’s amazing how people who quite obviously never leave their house believe themselves to be experts on relationships and sex (not saying I'm an expert... far from it). These same people are the ones who appear to be addicted to the chat rooms. At any time of the day, any day of the week, there are certain people who you can guarantee will be online. And that’s really sad – almost dangerous because they’re losing touch with “real” people and how real society operates. I don't doubt that there are some people getting lots of sex from this site, but it is a very small minority. I'm lucky enough to have had a bit of luck on here, but I can see how a lot of guys would be frustrated. The ticket is not to take it too seriously or think that this is the only way you'll get laid. Go to the pub! For some reason people seem to think you don't met anyone decent at the pubs and clubs anymore. Not sure what that's all about - maybe a copout we use when we’re single. Go to the Surf Club for a meal and hang around for a drink afterwards... that’s all it takes. You never know who you’ll meet. You don’t have to get all dolled up and hit the night clubs if it’s not your scene. I was going to delete my profile, but I'm really getting into these forums! They're fascinating... lol. Not as fascinating as the chat rooms though, but I can't justify spending any more of my hard earned cash to watch people humiliate themselves... It’s embarrassing.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Eunuch, reckon your right, to many fellas see women as a pair of boobs and a pussy, and are more than happy with whatever they can get hold of herein lies the problem. Sonsie, i bet it is hard to pick and choose, how would we fellas manage if the tables were turned.It might be like going to a restaurant picking up the menu and there is every dish imaginable, how would you choose?I would be in trouble, i can never decide what to have at the best of times...lolGuys being guys the answer is probably along the lines of "How do eat an Elephant".But Seriously ...f*k me...i have forgoten what i was going to say next....sheeze....going now!Cheers Whatever the F**k my name is.....doh
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sonsie another one- Tick Is this a disease ...... is it contagious.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with everything you've said there Sonsie. Thanks for reading :) And of course you can stay on the site. lol. (not that its up to me :P ) I'm not being negative or trying to put anyone down. There just seems to be a pattern in these forums of people (mostly guys) thinking they're getting ripped off. Its interesting to see everyone's take on the topic.
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RHP User
16 years ago
....as I sit in front of my computer "spoilt for choice" lol I get so many different things out of this site that expand past your observations. Friendship is one of them. As a single mum I no longer have the friendships I once had. I would love nothing better than to go out and meet people face to face, but home life responsibilities limit that....plus it's damn scary for a woman on her own to front up to a pub/club scene without a friend. The other thing I like about this site is belonging to an eclectic community - I love it when my thinking is expanded....when I am forced to see things from another perspective. I love that there is an opportunity to have a say. As for sex....well it's a topic that everyone can relate to online or in real life. If online becomes real life...it's a bonus! Cheers
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RHP User
16 years ago
If you're bored with this topic, don't respond... lol. Its a new topic for me, so if you have nothing to add, go onto the next post.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Disagree. I had a much longer, psychological analysis typed up but it was getting off topic. My two scotch and sodas is blurring my thought-process :-) In essence there are many different reasons why people are on here and it is not recommended that anyone summise anything about the people on this site. I'll also add that I am not here to have my "tyres pumped up" - it is merely a by-product of a genine search for sexy, adult fun :-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
c'mon Lonelygirl...share....lol i do my my best work after a few voddies....But seriously....good on ya for jumpin into the Forums and giving us your perspective!Cheers NevCheers
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RHP User
16 years ago
Vodka and soda? Nice ;) Thanks for replying... The "bi-product" thing is something I hadn't really thought of. It makes good sense. But do you think that once they notice that bi-product, they begin to feed off it and rely on it? Is it a false comfort if they're NOT beautiful or sexy - as the guys in the chat rooms might suggest as they're trying to get them to take their top off? Does it then create unfounded arrogance? Do they then take that arrogance into real society? Why is it recommended we don't surmise? Whose recommendation is it? It would be different if I was mentioning names, but I'm not. I'm sure people (including yourself) will form an opinion of me because of what I've written here. It’s the same thing isn't it?? Like it or not, that's ONE purpose of the forums. By making a post such as this one, it's hoped that people will have a think about what they want out of the site, and maybe improve their experience. And judging by your profile and your pictures, you don't really need your tyres pumped up. I'm sure you're a very confident girl. You're probably not one of the members I'm talking about. But you'd definitely be one of those who are "spoilt for choice". I'd hate to think how many emails and flirts you receive... Hence the frustration guys feel when they don't receive a reply... Not your fault - there are just simply too many to reply to :) This brings me back to the point I made about the dangers of men believing that RHP, or any dating site, is the only place they’ll ever meet a lady. It's not... and most will probably never get laid on this site. And let’s be honest - that's ultimately why we’re all on here. And again... I'm not trying to defame anyone, and I certainly don't think I'm better than anyone else on this site. I'm just interested in the pattern I've noticed by reading the rest of the forum topics. Thanks :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lol... Love your name. Thanks for your response :) I'm glad you have a real pump that does the job for you ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
having not been in the chat rooms, not sure what point you are trying to make...personally, i am very pleased for you that you have met or chatted to most of the women on this site...so that you are able to come up with this opinion of yours...funny really, i must have only met (or chatted to, or shared emails with) the small percentage who are not interested in having their tyres pumped...so there ya go...should i pass your contact details on to my lovely friends...so that you can have some....errr....what were you looking for again...cheersjose....
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RHP User
16 years ago
YOU are so boring mate. The Ridge has it spot on, most of the girls on here just want there egos stroked. I notice you do a fair bit of that, oh you are such a pretty boy. Now where's the bucket so that i can puke
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks Jose... I take it your answer is "False"?? haha. But if you read my post correctly, I'm really just commenting on a pattern I have noticed in the chat rooms and from previous forum topics. I guess my opinion is reflected somewhat, but I'm mostly recycling previous comments and seeing what other members' views are. I'm very interested in the dynamics of the site. Where does it say I have chatted to every lady on the site? I apologise if it does say that somewhere... Quite obviously, I have not. I too have met (both directly or indirectly) some really cool people on the site - both male and female, so in no way am I discussing the site as a whole (I thought I'd clarified that more than once. lol). Furthermore, my post generally relates to the chat rooms - which you admit you've never been in. Thanks for your input though :) PS - Why do people tend to get cranky and defensive in the forums? haha - Chill!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi ive visited the chat rooms from time to time..but i dont cam..or look at others cam unless they ask me to view..but its the face im more interested in looking at...but i can take it or leave itAs for my tires they dont need pumping up....cause you either like me for me or not....as i dont need validation fromfrom anyone...i know who iam and what iam...and content...As for meeting i show up...and if someone doesnt want to take the time chatting with me before hand..tuffas i cant just drop every thing at a moments notice....takes planning like most mothers...and i like to take timeto know someone before hand xoxomumma
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well i've been chatting to a couple of nice ladies here,and they've made my platinum membership worth it.But once it runs out,i'm deleting my profile because MOST people on here just like to play games.They might flirt you,even send a couple of emails,then you never hear from them again.I'm tired of it all !!!Good advice about go to a club or pub,or anywhere you can actually meet people in PERSON,then at least you can,mostly,tell by facial expression etc whether they are the real deal or not.POOH TO THE INTERNET is my opinion now.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I like your observations Mr Forester, 'Feral' women become princesses and have their tyres pumped up and good looking men are ignored and have their egos knocked around. And the men flock here and outnumber women. It's an odd world :-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Some interesting responses... Keep them coming. This is great!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
...that this post is "pumping up your tyres" Mr Ridge_Forester True or False? All in good fun!
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RHP User
16 years ago
yeah im totally in agreement with flirtyone,,,,,i live in a quiet country town and this is my contact with the world outside,love the forums collumn and dont bother with the chat site anymore...when my membership runs out ill be doing exactly the same as flirty,,,,,,im not whinging,,,just work to hard for my dollars,,,,and want a bit more value for my bucks,,,,,,,,
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RHP User
16 years ago
Everybody loves to feel sexy. When other people show that they are aroused emotionally or physically, it can be very rewarding. (But not always. I think it depends on whether or not the arousal was intentionally provoked). In any case, we feel lousy when we sense that we are not percieved as sexy. Make a woman feel sexy today. Have no expectations though.. just do it for the sake of giving something of yourself away for free.. for no reward. If we all did this I think the world would be a better place and guys would score more often. ;p
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RHP User
16 years ago
I can agree with what you say Ridge. That being said i'm one of the girls that you'd probably class as on here to get their tyres 'pumped up' as you so eloquently put it lol. I go into the chatrooms every once in a while if i'm bored at home on a weekend night and I have put on a little show on cam once or twice before. I do this not to get my tyres pumped up, but because i ENJOY it. I love knowing that people are watching me and liking what they see. The comments are nice, but that's not what i do it for - i know i look good so i don't need to hear unimaginative lines about how hot my boobs are. I don't know if that makes sense at all.... I'm here for females, not males, so I can understand what you mean about so many being here just for the ego boost - everything goes well, you've had a couple of chats...then when it comes down to suggesting meeting up or something more, they run. Time wasters. So not cool. Anyway hope this doesn't sound like an egotistical rant... :S
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N4November
16 years ago
For me, finding new friends via RHP is the only way to go! Love it!! It is safe, efficient because all it does is facilitate communication with a new person.... sometimes that is the hardest thing to do - having the ability to make contact in the first place. I don't think I will date any other way in the future... I've meet some absolute gents on this site.... and can say 95% of my experiences have been wonderful!!! How good is that?!!! lol I am treated like a princess but like to think that I treat my partner like the king he is!!! I'm hoping that one day I will meet a man who I connect with on all levels and who can keep me satisfied.... and in the future my profile will change from "single girl" seeks... to "couple seeking".... hahahahaha Fantastic sex, great connections and many many adventures.... love it! Last, but not least Ridge_Forester (yummmmmmmm), if you would like to meet a real RHPer with a sexy and happy disposition, send me a flirt
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RHP User
16 years ago
You may be right "OneBrightStar". I kind of am having my tyres pumped up :P haha. And you're also right when you say its all in good fun. I think some people are taking these forums a little bit too seriously... Which is what makes it fun for me... hahaha. I love it when they get cranky.... :P And Baygirl2315... You've made me blush! I might just have to send you a sneaky little flirt.... haha. Thanks :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
lm not going to be able to do that again without laughing!!! seriously u only have to wonder at certain postings to see people place too much importance in themselves!!! which of course is a bloody nice way of saying there is a lot of stuck up blow it up themselves guys out there who do the same thing to women on this site that they are winging about!!! l really am laughing now because l have met guys from rhp messages and flirts, that is why l got on here!!! and yes the pub scene is a little scary on your own after abstinence!! so to all the guys who are genuine, hang in there, message or flirt the right one and you ll change your tune, to all the losers who just muck around and are really only here to get off in chat rooms and foist their opions onto others, go away!!! and Ridge....if that is your name!!!...honey the fact you can still blush after reading some of these topics is pretty funny!!! cheers alli
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'COMEANDGETME68'having not been in the chat rooms, not sure what point you are trying to make...personally, i am very pleased for you that you have met or chatted to most of the women on this site...so that you are able to come up with this opinion of yours...funny really, i must have only met (or chatted to, or shared emails with) the small percentage who are not interested in having their tyres pumped...so there ya go...should i pass your contact details on to my lovely friends...so that you can have some....errr....what were you looking for again...cheersjose....Ridge has posted a good forum, and has said exactly what a lot of guys think but won't really say.lol. But I like ur response COMEANDGET68, brilliant plan, make RIDGE look bad so that you come across as the good guy. I reckon there in lies another post, do blokes back each other up? or are will ing to take a chance to knock a mate or put him down so that he looks better?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Julesjordan ~ you've really hit the nail on the head havent you. Guys are always thinking that way. I've done it myself..... much against my self image and respect... and I recognise it instantly when some guy tries to do undermine me. It's a fuken low act... and human nature. We should all buck up and tip piss down the back of the shirt of the next guy who does it. :p There's no doubt women are basking in RHP for the spine stroking it brings. I've seen total bush pigs taking a hollier than thou approach..( lmfao... I love that term, so back off sisters). But there are a some diamonds. Absolutely beautiful people and I am not talking about how they look. Jose is a genuine guy Jules, but like all of us, he gets carried away with the fun of posting. You can cut him some slack... but I'm a complete arsehole so watch your back.. which by my reckoning, is no doubt a very handsome one. :p That is, if I were that way inclined :p. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
You should run with that....lets see! Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
maybe i should spell out my response to you...h-a-v-e...n-o-t...y-e-t...m-e-t...a-n-y...t-y-r-e...p-u-m-p-e-r-s...and i typed it real slow for ya...now onto some serious stuff...in my opinion...and my opinion only...i have corresponded with quite a few women on rhp...and to a tee, they have all been honest and genuine...and great to chat to...so clearly i have yet to meet, or chat to, one of the women referred by ridge...no harm meant to him at all...cheersjose...ps...and to answer your question, i actually don't GAF what other blokes think...if i don't agree, i am the first to say, maybe when you breezed by my profile, ya might have noticed that i'm not into bullshit...and that i am a straight shooter...if ya don't like it, then shut up...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'COMEANDGETME68' ps...and to answer your question, i actually don't GAF what other blokes think...if i don't agree, i am the first to say, maybe when you breezed by my profile, ya might have noticed that i'm not into bullshit...and that i am a straight shooter...if ya don't like it, then shut up... LOL, forsome reason that made me interpret your picture not as just some cheeky cheeks - but clenched and frowning, like a "stern face" - LOL,(now I'm wondering what faces people can pull with their bum - besides "very surprised" :-O lol )
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RHP User
16 years ago
I disagree with this comment. Im not the prettiest on here but im not a bush pig either... and if I want my 'tyres pumped up' I will talk to my friends. I joined this site in the hope of finding som good, clean, adult fun without the mess of a relationship, much like most women - I am not an attention seeker, gold digger or slut. And like most men think, we are not 'spoiled for choice' on these sites - between being drowned in photos of people other that the person who owns the profile, inanimate objects, scenery or photos of your anatomy, is makes it hard to imagine having a conversation online - let alone meeting in person. Dont get me wrong-I have met several guys on here that are still mates, were excellent fun or I met simply because we got along.... but there is also a small minority of stalkers, liars and plain imbiciles on here that I dont wish to meet/reply/wink/flirt/talk to again. Theres also the issue of distance - I have guys from the other side of the country who expect me to just hop on a plane and meet them because I work in the mining indusrty.... Im NOT rich! and I dont intend to fly a few thousand km for some random. Use your brainm gents - maybe we dont talk back or arent interested for a legitimate reason.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hehehe Sydneyboy! What about the pout, the pucker... and The "your not seriously going to stick all that in here" face... lmfao hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
I purely joined here to check out the events....was not planning to meet men on here as I was already doing alright without being on here lol.... but now I have met and played with many men and couples and had a fantastic time doing so and it has really allowed me to express myself sexually, much more than I thought possible! I think a lot of girls have a sexual side they want to explore but are scared to do so and this site allows them to do that...so I don't think it's about boosting their self esteem. I do get hundreds of flirts and msgs and it's hard to reply to all, we do have a life outside of the site.
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RHP User
16 years ago
well im not exactly defending the other chiks on this site, but i have got 2 say that more often than not the majority of guis on rhp r only here 2 get there rocks off looking at free pussy pics! half of the guis r married, a quarter r fridget tossers with a "premature" little man problem & that only leavs a fiew that arnt tooo old, too fat or just plain weird. and im speeking from personal exp...., yes i am talking about u..(u no who u r time wasters!) I recon if ur not in it 2 win it f**k off. XXXA
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Honey,Are you saying that most of the women are here for the events and not the one on one meet ups?
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RHP User
16 years ago
No of course not, there are plenty of girls on here who are interested in one on one meet ups... groups and couples are just my preference.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'COMEANDGETME68'maybe i should spell out my response to you...h-a-v-e...n-o-t...y-e-t...m-e-t...a-n-y...t-y-r-e...p-u-m-p-e-r-s...and i typed it real slow for ya...now onto some serious stuff...in my opinion...and my opinion only...i have corresponded with quite a few women on rhp...and to a tee, they have all been honest and genuine...and great to chat to...so clearly i have yet to meet, or chat to, one of the women referred by ridge...no harm meant to him at all...cheersjose...ps...and to answer your question, i actually don't GAF what other blokes think...if i don't agree, i am the first to say, maybe when you breezed by my profile, ya might have noticed that i'm not into bullshit...and that i am a straight shooter...if ya don't like it, then shut up...COMEANDGETME68......just proved the point by writing wat you said. As Ridge said a lotta guys feel similar after being on here for any length of time. All that a side, including ur IDGAF attitude, read ur profile and yes its impressive, you most cetainly have a way with words, wish i could do a profile as well as you do. It is really refrshing to learn what the answer finally is? And yeah for you, right a book....it is obvoiusly working for you and us general folk have not yet got to that level as yet. However, to avoid any confusion perhaps you could run some lessons.... im happy to be first. Lets catch up and talk about it some more, be happy to share thoughts?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi all, I'm new to the site and am really wishing I was down South more often! I think the majority of people at RHP are just like-minded, more open than most, lookin' to explore some new horizons, and shit maybe live out a few fantasies in the relatively short time they are on this great planet!... Because they can - nothing more. I've only had one experience so far and it was wild! Holy crap! ... sorry pausing to remember ... yay, got lost in memories there for a bit...Anyway, if you've travelled widely you'd know this particular privalege (rhp encounters) isn't available that easily in other countries... So I hope the new travel section works 'cause there are some amazing profiles on this site and I want to start meeting the people behind them. I'll be in melbourne and perth soon. Sorry, although I definately respect everyone's opinion I have to say I disagree that it would be used for just lookin at "free pussy pics", hey who hasn't got sick of them the first time they signed up to internet ha ha! Good onya for sparkin some discussion Ridge, I enjoyed the read & you got me to post a comment for the first time...Happy new year to you all, and happy hookups! Love to hear from you...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Ridge Have read through the above forum with interest.... The one thing that I would like to point out is that maybe we all aim to meet and play with others and that is why we started on RHP but on lots of profiles people say they love sexy chat and web cam sex and isnt that what the chat room is all about. I often spend time in the chat rooms and love to chat with others who have a healthy sexual appetite. I often laugh and joke with people I meet on line. The sharing of stories and fantasies of others can certainly makes us all feel more sexy and ready to play. Lots of profiles say that they love to be watched and I am known to enjoy being watched and watching others. All a matter of personal choice. As I watch a guy masterbate on the other side of the country I am obviously not going to meet them... but we are both horny... and we enjoy this web cam play for what it is. A new way to bring yourself pleasure using the wonderful technology we have available to us. The definition of attractive varies for each of us. I am not a model by any stretch of the imagination and may not be the choice of the men on here to meet in real life... but we are both happy to play along with each other and take our on line fun for what it is .... a few minutes of fantasy and excitement. And I dont need my tyres pumped up... I am comfortable with the person I am... Well that is my two bob worth
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RHP User
16 years ago
An interesting topic to read as someone new to this site.As your average nice guy with even more average looks, I came to this site not really knowing what to expect (friends, flings or something more long-term, didn't know all that much about online dating sites), all I know is I wasn't expecting much, and honestly I still don't. However, saying that, I can genuinly see both sides of the arguement here, with my opinion falling probably just on the side of the OP. Having said that though, the simple fact that men clearly outnumber the women on this site goes a long way to proving that this is probably just a false perception, reinforced by an aftermentioned minority of women in the chat rooms.Just my 2 cents...
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RHP User
16 years ago
An interesting topic to read as a new member here. As an average guy with even more average looks, I came here not really knowing what to expect (friends, flings or something a little more long term, didn't know all that much about online dating), however I do know that I wasn't expecting much, and honestly still don't, but I hope to be proven wrong. I can genuinely see both sides to the arguement here, and whilst my initial feeling is to align myself just on the side of the OP, I can see that it's probably just a false perception generated by the simple fact that men clearly outnumber women on the site, reinforced by an aforementioned minority of women in the chat rooms. Just my 2 cents...
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RHP User
16 years ago
and here I was really enjoying your posts to date Ridge! Something tells me you wrote this one to stir the pot a little :) Anyway, like many have said, you simply can't generalise. People are here for all sorts of reasons. It's absolutely true that many women get flattery heaped on the minute their profile becomes active and/or they arrive in chat. That should tell you something about men. As much as some women might not be genuine, many men aren't either - or at least not behaving genuinely. They spam every woman's inbox with degrading, crude and sometimes vile messages, using the theory that it's a numbers game and hoping that at least one woman will bite. To those men, the women are just fuck-toys. And yes, there are PLENTY of such men bombarding my inbox, and other womens' inboxes daily. In chat, there are the direct comments, mostly flattering, but also the whispers - some flattering, some downright demeaning. In my experience, most people realise that superficially at least, RHP is a game, just like the dating games we play in pubs etc. You turn up here, put on your best face, smile and chat either in the forums or chat, flirt, offer flattery and receive it and quietly work out who you might want to get to know a little better. Most of the 'real' conversations happen in private - in msn, RHP IM or similar. What we see in RHP is just scratching the surface of what this community is really up to.Everyone enjoys flattery but it's a mistake to assume that all or even most are here for it. I joined RHP to get my mojo back after a long, sexless relationship. I needed to see myself as sexy again. I regularly cammed, doing whatever I felt like. I usually watched myself on cam, not men. I looked at my body, the way it moved and slowly started to see it as lush and sexy again. I chatted to people and made real efforts to respond politely to anyone that spoke to me. Often this involved saying thank you to a man for his (sometimes overwhelming) flattery. I didn't need the flattery or seek it but also didn't think there was any need for me to be rude or ignorant towards the men.I also joined RHP to learn things about sex that I was completely naive about - so lots of chat, questions, D&M conversations, with lots of kind and patient people (men and women) that were happy to share.Many people assumed I was up myself and just in RHP to tease and stroke my ego because I made it clear I didn't meet people from the site. Surely it's my prerogative to choose whether or not to meet people! And yet, complete strangers got offended by my decision. Such a childish sandpit we're playing in :)Saying I didn't meet people from the site became necessary because I got completely hounded by men - and women - to meet. I know most women get hounded in the same way. Behind the scenes though, I met about 20 people in 1 year, some lovers, some friends and one, the love of my life. No-one really knew most of this because 1) I'm very private and 2) whose business is it anyway? During this time, more than one woman would whisper to men I was openly chatting to to say 'don't waste your time with her, she never puts out'. Hilarious.So you see, this notion of women being here just to stroke their ego is WAY over-simplifying what really goes on in RHP. Yes, some women are. And some men are. And some of us are here for altogether different things that only people we really connect with are ever going to hear about. I like to assume that everyone here has an interesting story and that what we see of the person here is just a mere hint of who they really are :)lilmiss x
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks for that... Nice response. And I agree with you :P Ridge? Stir the pot? Oh my goodness! What a horrible and nasty accusation... haha. So... that kiss at the end of your post... Is that for Ridge?? ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Important not to confuse RAC membership for RHP membership. Both equally useful in terms of providing a reliable and efficient service by which we may arrive at the destination we seek. Sure for some they want a little air in the tyres and a smooth ride, whilst others might like a white knuckle ride off road that leaves you gasping for air. That's up to each driver really. Anything else you care to chat about?
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RHP User
16 years ago
No. I don't want to chat with you about anything else right now... you seem cranky. But thanks for taking the time to read - your response was very clever. Well done :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'melbman86' Hoting 'mountnpussy' well im not exactly defending the other chiks on this site, but i have got 2 say that more often than not the majority of guis on rhp r only here 2 get there rocks off looking at free pussy pics! half of the guis r married, a quarter r fridget tossers with a "premature" little man problem & that only leavs a fiew that arnt tooo old, too fat or just plain weird. and im speeking from personal exp...., yes i am talking about u..(u no who u r time wasters!) I recon if ur not in it 2 win it f**k off. XXXA That last bit ,is disgusting language,Very feral
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ridge. And yet ... funny ... and cute ... :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
You rock! I love your response and it brightened my mood for the first time today. Wildly appreciating the one who is not so misguided
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N4November
16 years ago
Lets get to the real issue at hand..... WE ALL WANT TO SEE RIDGE NAKED IN CHAT!!!!! YUMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM Promise to give you some feedback as discussed above... well get that pump pumping baby!! and thanks for the flirt ridge... mwah! xxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
glad your mood was brightened! But Shhh don't want Ridge to hear you pumping my tyres!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' I've seen total bush pigs taking a hollier than thou approach..( lmfao... I love that term, so back off sisters). Stalky, is it spelt "bush pigs" with a space or "bushpigs" one word? I think it's important we clarify the correct spelling of bushpigs, if we're going to keep saying bushpigs that is (and we are going to keep saying bushpigs I'm sure, because bushpigs is the word). (Actually I don't care how it's spelt, I'm just gifting you with an opportunity to say it again. And don't forget the related terms bushpigger and bushpigging.)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi I am a bi girl. I see what your saying because i seek girls too. I don't advertise for men because it is easy to get a man any time. Yes I do play and have met people of this site. Yes girls do have it best on this site and can pick and chose as they please. The ones that I have had enough of are the girls that are only doing it for their man and are not prepared to meet on their own. By the way I havn't been in a chat room. Guys I do seek you out from time to time and when I do, I am prepared to meet. But when I look I bypass every photo of anatomy and only look at profiles showing faces. Hope this gives some guys a clue as how to get more attention!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'missguided74'glad your mood was brightened! But Shhh don't want Ridge to hear you pumping my tyres! I heard that Miss. I'm all over it!! :P
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'baygirl2315' Lets get to the real issue at hand..... WE ALL WANT TO SEE RIDGE NAKED IN CHAT!!!!! YUMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM Promise to give you some feedback as discussed above... well get that pump pumping baby!! Oh BayGirl... I'm blushing again!! haha... Very Cheeky xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Ridge, How about you pump my tyres and I'll promise not to leave tread marks??
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RHP User
16 years ago
Only if you promise to drive it like you stole it..
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Ridge_Forester'Only if you promise to drive it like you stole it.. Ha ha! nice one
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Ridge_Forester' Thanks for that... Nice response. And I agree with you :P Ridge? Stir the pot? Oh my goodness! What a horrible and nasty accusation... haha. So... that kiss at the end of your post... Is that for Ridge?? ;) of course :P
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ridge i tend to agree in principle.There are a lot of women looking to get their tyres pumped, as there are a lot of guys hoping to see a bit of tit!It takes all kinds to make the world go round and i have found there are a lot of people on this site who are genuine and do meet up etc.The only generalisation i would make is that you will attract your ideal opposite, and that goes for any site, pub, club etc.So if you keep attracting nice genuine people, it's because of what you put out there, hence Jose attracts cool women because he is a cool guy, whils Whitehawk keeps whinging on the site, and never seems to get what he wants!There is a definate pattern or law of attraction working.If this makes no sense, then i appologise, was up late working and havn't had my coffee yet........................mmmmmm coffeesee ya
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RHP User
16 years ago
Having been on this site for coming up to four years, I have run the whole gammut. I originally joined because I was temporarily in a small town (having a baby on my own.. oh gawd) and thought I had to meet people some how. Then I discovered the chat room.. got myself addicted to it, dropped out of university mainly because of this. Went in there every day for three years without fail, to varying degrees. So you could say I was one of those sad cases. Cept I wasn't. I could have sat on my couch night after night not interacting with a single other soul, or I could muck around with a bunch of people and have a good laugh. Then I started meeting people, heaps of people! Men, women, for sex, for friendship. Had some air pumped into my tyres at times when I seriously needed it, and believe me, had them well and truly deflated a few times over too. I've had a couple of relationships, made friends, lost friends, had sex with complete strangers... the list goes on.. and now because of this site I have met and fallen in love with Speed. So for me, RHP has served me in MANY stages of the last four years of my life... but if you didn't know me you might only think I used RHP for one aspect. So you can't assume anything about anyone. Aaaaand, all chicks need their tyres pumped to some degree at some point in their life, and if they wanna do it by getting their tits out in a chat room and never meeting anyone, or going and getting fucked by 15 guys at a gang bang, then who cares and who are we to judge? Cheers, T.
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RHP User
16 years ago
New wheels hey? That's the way... Go get em Trish!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
There are so many responses to your post it seems pointless for me to put my two bobs worth in but I'm going to anyway. PS. my response isn't directed at you but rather directed at the guys you are refering to in the chat rooms who complain about the women 'not being real' or just fishing for compliments or ego boosting. POINT ONE As mentioned by many others, we all have varied reasons for why we are here and what we are looking for. The whole point of having the profile is to let other members know what we are looking for, what we desire etc etc. I have only posted face photo's of myself so I am certainly not looking for compliments on my physical attributes. I personally am only here to meet new people (who live nearby) for friendship. This is stated very clearly on my profile....in BIG BOLD LETTERS and yet for some reason, I still get messages and flirts from men who just want to hook up for sex. So to those guys who do not pay attention to the details on my profile, or any other persons profile, I say "quite your god damn bitching." If your just randomly sending out messages and flirts to anything with a vagina then guess what, your respones will be pretty random too. POINT TWO Of course, there will always be liars and deceitful people (male and female) on these websites, and it's just one of those things that people need to learn to just deal with. POINT THREE Get over it!! If your dishing out the compliments and not getting the pussy in return, fucken deal with it, don't bloody sulk about it. It's always been this way......before the internet and sex dating sites, it was at the local pub. Buying a girl a few drinks and telling her what a lovely huge pair of tits she has won't guarentee you access to her pussy nor does it give you any kind of god given right. POINT FOUR Not that I think I'm all that special in the looks or personality department but perhaps these guys who are complaining and sulking just don't have anything appealing about their looks or personality (ie. boring profile). A comment like this may make me hugely unpopular and expose me to hate mail but I dare say that this is certainly a huge factor in my decision whether or not to respond to an email let alone agree to meet someone. For example, below is a very common and typically male profile: About Me Open-minded man seeking to meet people for fun. I am lost for words at the moment but I'll come back to update this later so you can get to know me better. I am Looking For I'm looking for no-strings attached fun with people who seek the same. So I ask you, what is so appealing about this profile that would make me want to choose this person to talk to or potentially meet over another man with a similar profile???? Seriously guys, own up to some of the responsibilty.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just wanted to say , Great reading was had...x Chilla13
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magsluvsoral
16 years ago
Ditto I couldnt have said that better myself, cheers
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RHP User
16 years ago
Pretty much covered through points 1 to 4 in the "Idiots guide to RHP" no srsly good job like ur style
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RHP User
15 years ago
cant tell you why originally joined this site but what I have had since joining- The unexpected bonus of meeting a true gentleman (fully clothed in his pic) who is a fantastic guy and will never change my verdict on that one, met some great friends in the chats.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have never been in the chat rooms so dont know if the girls are there to stroke thier own egos or whatever. I do spend a lot of time on the forums, but that is because I have the time to spare. My work hours are strange. I agree that htere are more women than men on this, and other sites like RHP. Does that mean that I should automatically put out for any and every one who sends me and email or a flirt, ot that I begin to chat to? Where else do I go to meet men? Pubs and clubs are not my scene, mainly catering for the younger crowd in my town anyway. I have met some wonderful gems on this site, both male and female. Those that I chat to for while are the ones I invariably end up meeting. That still does not mean that I am going to jump thier bones the minute the opportunity presents itself. I dont think I am wasting anyones time except maybe my own; and that is mie to waste. Does the computer and RHP take me away from the real world? No. I have a full and rich life off the net...it just adds another dimension.
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